Ohkayy.This boy ive been dating for 3 months has been lying 2 me a lot here lately but Im totaly in love with me.He tried 2 cheat on me a couple of timess.Well this boy I dated fer over a year cheated on me with sumbody and then just broke up with me.wel I never got over him I still love this boy more than ever.and he just called me last nightt.and told me he really liked me and wants 2 get back 2 gether.!Well i have no clue what 2 do I love them both very much.Do I stay with who Im with or this other boyy.?Im so confusedd......
Jeanne answered Wednesday April 23 2008, 3:51 am: You obviously have a lot of love to give. So why not give it to someone who is going to love you back? Someone who is so crazy about you that he would never do anything to risk losing you? That's the kind of guy you want, right?
In order for a guy to feel that way about you, he has to value and respect you. But if you don't value and respect yourself, no guy is going to, either. If you let a guy lie and cheat on you, the message you're sending is: "I'm not good enough to be treated right, so I'll accept someone who treats me badly." And if a guy thinks that YOU feel that way about your own worth, then he'll feel that way, too.
So my advice is: ditch the lying boyfriend; tell your ex that he had his chance, but he blew it; and look for someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. That will show everyone that you know you deserve of an honest, faithful boyfriend and that you won't settle for anything less. If guys see that YOU feel you're worthy of the best, they will feel that way about you, too. [ Jeanne's advice column | Ask Jeanne A Question ]
es answered Wednesday April 23 2008, 2:04 am: ok so i understand you're in love with them. but... why do you wanna be with someone who doesn't think of you as their only one... just this fact should make you not attracted to them.
i'm sure you can find someone amazing who loves you and wouldn't even think of anybody else... so why waste time on losers who are going to cause you pain and misery and at the end leave because they've found someone else they can use and abuse.
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