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Q: Dose anyone no any cute/hott hair styles for summer? i have an oval face..if that means anything. Thanks!
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get layers lots of them. or kind of choppy!!-trix

Q: Usually I get my hair dyed and highlighted blonde professionally. But now I want to dye my hair a medium brown and I was wondering if the hair dye boxes at the store did a fairly good job at it? Is it even that possible to screw up on brown? If you have used anything in particular that you've tried and it works, could you please tell me the brand and price, etc? I've use hair dye kits PLENTY of times before, but i always used blonde (which looked horrible) and was just wondering if brown worked. Thanks.

well use Nutrisse, lory-el (spelling i know :D) or Herbal essense and it has like trillions of different colors you can get them at walgreens,walmart, target, osco.. any of those stores. anyways they vary at like 10-20 bucks! and they turn out nicely. if you screw up you can go in and get it fixed and im sure that wont happan. good luck.-trix

Q: please can someone explain to me exactly the steps to a kiss. please dont just say like "go for it", cause im feeling kinda lost and i dont want to make a fool of myself! do you just like lean in slowly, open your mouth, and close, and open and close? and what does it mean like "wrestle with your tounges"? please i need some serious advice!
thanks in advance!

i know this is the answer you dont wanna hear but seriosly we were all worried at a point and it came naturally. trust me ok? i know you didnt wanna hear this but this is all true you will get the hang of it! good luck-trix

Q: Does wearing a bra to bed stop your boobs from growing? thanks

I heard it does but i know for a fact that it can give you breast cancer. But doing that every so often wont have an effect just dont get to carried away-trix

Q: i didnt know what catagorei to put this under but i think it goes here. anyway im a female. ok my problem is that i like to mess with my vagina for some reason and i get a clear discharge but i dont know what its from and why its happening. i seem to get cuts down there and dont know why. my thing( i dont know what to call it but its not the vagina) gets chapped alot. i dont think its an std because ive never had any sex before. what do you think is wrong with me?

hey ok discharge is normal/natural.....and your goin to get that as you grow up.....i dont know y its chapped....make sure you scrub yourself.....like when your taking a bath or taking a shower....use soap and u can use a washcloth...well that is all about i can tell you right now

Q: Ok so Im planning this perfect night with my boyfriend and i want a killer outfit...im 16yr female..and hes 18 i want to make him want me and get his attention...So please give me a good outfit idea...how to do my makeup and hair..and what ever else u can..Please help

Wear a cute skirt and a cute top. Maybe something low cut (try not to give off the really out there sluttish idea) and look online for cute easy and fun hairdesigns. I did that for prom and it gave me steps on how to do it! So just go to www.ask.com and type in prom hairstyles!-trix

Q: ok so im like in love with this guy. i like him a lot but we arnt going out. although i wish we were. anywayz... he liked me a lot too and we always like made out and when i would be sleeping and stuff he kiss me on the forhead and stuff and i liked it but then he introduced me to his friends (like 3 of them) and now they like me so now he doesnt becuz they told him to hook them up with me but i only like the other guy not his friends.. what do i do?

Well this guy that you like cant just drop you off the face of the earch and stop liking you... really. anyways. just talk to him and let him know that you like him and not his friends. They are cool peole but just not good enough to meet your standards for a bf. sorry this took so incredibly long... its summer "finally!"-trix

Q: I know this sounds stupid, but can you grow from drinking milk every day? Will it assist in your growing period while you are a teen? I'm medium heightwise, and I heard that milk can help.

Yeah because it makes ur bones stronger. I dont know how but.. it does-trix

Q: Im sick and I really need to throw up. Somehow I just cant. I know I have to because I can feel it but I dont know why I cant. My mom says I will throw up but is there anything that I can drink that will make me throw up. I dont want to put my finger down my throat tho and please dont say I shouldnt. If I do I will feel a lot better. Thanks!

Drink tomato juice.. its totally gross. Or egg juice. That'll help you only cuz its gross. But if you eat that'll help if ur stomach cant handle it-trix (feel better soon!!!)

Q: i am a 13/f. i need indepandance. i want to be able to go places. to peirce my belly button. to go to rated r movies. not to have to sneak out to see my boyfreind. dye my hair purple. own a housekey.
i cut my hair, and it looks okay, but my mom didnt see it yet. i am so grounded tommorow. i have like no freedom in my house. my mom reads my emails and my books! she doesnt let me go to peoples houses unless she knows them. doesn't want me to pluck my eyebrows like i do. sh wants me to let them be natural!?:/ doesnt want me to have a bf. (she would flip if she knew the truth)my mom is like a watchdog. i gotta do something. talking to her or my dad doesnt work. my mom is in charge of the family, and in my face. what should i do to gain her trust and rights that a teenager should have?
-thanks
-xoxo olga

Well she is having a hard time letting you grow up obviously. My BF's mom had a hard time letting him go. His way to letting her know he needed freedom was "mom im 17 and my curfew is 8:30 what the hell?" im pretty sure you can live without the swearing. Just point out that you are growing up and your ready to take on new responsibilities and that you'd like to be a lil more grown up then what she thinks. You also need to prove to her that you can do this. Like help around the house, or babysit siblings. good luck!-trix

Q: My friend and I were at this party, where there was a guy that I liked. We were playing volleyball, a sport that I'm not too good at. This guy was always poking fun at me when I missed, but he wasn't mean to me except for that. Do you think he was being a jerk, or flirting?

I would say he was flirting. Ever guy has there own way of flirting and he probably thought it was cute if u denied that u sucked at volleyball!! *TrIxXiE*

Q: If you drink lots of water while you're on your period, will that increase you flow? decrease? Does it do anything?? I rate 5's for first 5 ppl who give decent answers

Its healthier for you and you wont break out as much!! But it wont change the amount of blood that comes out!-trix

Q: ive had my aim screen name for over 2 years and im ready for a new one. can you help me thing of good screen nameS? a summertime one would be good but i dont really care!

Hmm i dont know im honestly not good with screen names.. mine is xPRINCESSxBARBIE you could do PinkSummer134 but like diff. numbers and a diff. color if you wanted.. It sounds kind of cool. IcySummer.. Anything. xSummerX05 summer 2005.. hope i helped!-trix

Q: Hey i am trying to decide if my advice column is okay! Could you guyz go to Soccurboi48 and tell me if it looks alright! I rate fives!!!

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Good advice. Thoughtful. And the best part is short and sweet! And straight to the point! which is the best part. Although the colours are a bit blinding! otherwords good job!!-trix

Q: I Bought some sunglasses, and I want to put a small heart decal on the lower corner! anyone know where to get this decal??

thanks in advance!!

If you have a hobby lobby, ben franklin, micheals, k-mart, walmart.. any of those stores would be great! and they vary in sizes too!!-trix

Q: ok, i really like this guy and he wants to make-out with me and i really want to make-out with him. the only problem is that i've never made-out or even kissed before so i don't want to seem like a total looser. he's a very trusting and understanding guy and already said he didn't want to rush me and everything for which i am grateful, but eventually i'll have to learn. does ne one have ne tips or have any ideas on where we should make-out (my parents don't know and i don't want them to) and when we make-out, what should i do?

Well one your parents wouldnt usually want to know.. its just something you dont tell your parents. Anyways! I know you probably get the same answer over and over again but it will come naturally to you weather you've done it or not. If he knew you never have made out before then that'd be more releiving cuz he'd know you'd be a lil mislead! but i doubt he knows that so just follow his lead and just move your tounge around you cant really go wrong!-trix

Q: ok my sister's 16 birthday is coming up! i want to get her something special beacuse ...u know its her 16! but i dont no wut to get her!
any suggestions!
i rate high!

thanks!

Help her out with something she may be saving up for! Or something for her car.. if she has one. Or like $50 bucks to the mall!-trix

Q: i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help!

Ahh! I love this question because i've had this problem! Go to MJ capeli and ask if they have party up or something like that. It should be in a hot pink tube! If not look around for a orange bottle thats sort of see thru and grab that. Look at hair salons for that sort of stuff and they should be sure to have that sort of stuff. There prices range in like the $15-$25's so its pretty decent!! Good luck!-trix

Q: Hello everyone, how can you know if it is really love or not. There's this guy who I have a crush on for four years plus already and I still can't forget him. Whenever I see him last time and he goes near me, my mind can't think anything. It's like my mind is saying say something say something but I can't think of anything to say. Now, I'm worried about him and I don't know if this is really love. If it is, could it be possible that love exist at my age? I'm 16. And could it be possible that you love someone you don't know really that much?

MmMmk! I doubt this is love. However its very well posssible to love at that age. I dont think you love this guy. You just might lust him.. instead of love him. Its probably a fling thing.. i know it wont seem like that but i would just try to get to know him better! It could be love though in the future!!-trix

Q: Ok. I was planning a surprise for the best teacher of all time. I had the principal call my teacher out of the room and had the assistant principal come in and i discussed the surprise and collected some money. Right after my teacher came back, my friend shouted out, "Mrs. *******, we have a surprise for you." The class went dead silent and I almost burst into tears. During my next class, I wrote him a note explaining that if he had any consideration for other people, he wouldn't have blabbed. He is now officially supermad at me, and I feel terrible. I think I came off as a bitch and i need to fix that by the morning! Ahhh

Just tell him you may have gotten a bit carried away but you yourself was pretty mad at the fact that the surprise didnt work out. Tell him your so sorry and you shouldnt have blown out of porpotion. He may need a day or 2 to cool down. Sorry i hope all works!-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"