ok...i went out wit this one guy..for not that long but i still have feelings for him...should i c if he has feelings for me too..or just forgwt about him and move on....what should i do
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Hey shortnsweet,love the name!Hehehe! Call him up girl!!! You'll never know unless you try! I say go for it,you could wind up in a great relationship!!Best wishes!!! ;)
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me and my BEST FRIEND EVER went to pre-school together and thats how we met. we go to different schools, different dance places, and just about everything else diff except for our moms work together. we were born 2 days apart (mine december 18th and hers december 20th) and if we were standing next to each other u would think shes my little sister. im a head taller than she is. in the summer we do a lot of stuff together bc we used to belong to the same swimming club... but she moved so now she goes somewhere closer to her house. when we get together we have a such good times. i just feel that were growing apart though in some ways. shes inviting me over less and stuff idk what to do should i just hang out with her more or just dont worry about it?
Sadly,this isn't uncommon.Friends that have been friends since they were really young,tend to sometimes grow apart as they get older! I've been thru the same thing.I met my best friend in the 3rd grade and by 9th grade our friendship was on the rocks,and sadly now we no longer speak.We just grew apart.But that doesn't mean that has to happen to you.Talk to your friend about your concerns and your feelings on what's been going on.She should be willing to listen and to talk it thru with you.There may not be a thing wrong at all!!Best of luck sweetheart,if you need anything more just drop me a line in my inbox!!! :)
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How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll!
Running is great for that!!!Also a stationary bike is great.Treadmills and stationary bikes are really great for that,but don't let yourself get dehydrated,drink lots and lots of water.Being dehydrated can actually have the opposite affect,by making you really sick!!!!
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Hey, l'm 13 and I've liked this boy for 13 months..lol.. and we started going out in april and he broke up with me in june. i was heartbroken but i kind of saw it coming..i dont know he kind of just stopped calling as much. then i found out after he broke up with me that it was because he felt bad because..he still liked me..but he still had feelings for his ex. but i still like him A TON!!!! we have kept talking and hanging out after we broke up. i have noticed that hes starting to act like he likes me...also he usually tells people who he likes..he wont tell any of my friends..i wont dare ask him myself because i dont want him to know that i still like him if he doesnt like me..i dont want him to feel uncomfortable. my friend has also noticed that it seems like he likes me. What should I do? haha i dont even know what im asking you..just tell me what you think about this whole thing and what i should do..please?
Well,since you 2 are still friends,ask him first of all how he's feeling about his ex right now.Maybe he's over her by now.It seems like he must really care about you,if he took into consideration your feelings,and got out of the relationship before it got any deeper,and didn't want to lead you on or let you get hurt.I think he most likely does still like you and care about you a lot.Maybe one night when you guys are hanging out or talking on the phone or online,start talking just about dating in general,and how you feel about it.Maybe say something like "It really sucks cuz I always seem to meet real jerks,except you.It's hard to find a guy as good as you out there." Then hopefully that will open up the flood gates as they say,and allow you guys to talk it thru,and you can find out how he feels.Let him know how you feel!Say,"I don't wanna rope & tie you or pressure you at all,I just really like you a lot.I care a lot for you,and I've always wanted to give things between us another chance".Make it clear to him that you value your friendship and that you'll always be friends,you'll always be there for him.You said you like him "a ton",compliment him!!Let him know all the things about him that make you like him so much.Let him know how special he is to you,and then let fate take over from there!! ;)
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Hey Whitney! I'm 14 years old.. I'll be 15 in about a month and I've been dating the same guy for about a year and a half now. We're so in love! I would be so lost without him. But the problem is that I'm not allowed to see him! A few months back, we kinda got caught doing something and my parents took it the wrong way. )LONG STORY!) So i told them we broke up just to make them happy bc they thought i was too young for that long of a relationship anyway. So now when we see eachother, I just have to lie all the time. I HATE it! So what my question is, is now that school is starting and all, should I tell them that we've been seeing eachother all along? or should we just "all of a sudden" start dating again? or should i end it since i'm starting highschool now? i'm so confused! please help me! sorry so long!! =]
Well if you love him,no reason to end the relationship.I would sit down with your parents(maybe mom first since girls tend to be closer to mom and have a better unerstanding),and explain to them how sorry you are for what happened,but that you really love this guy,and he treats you really good and makes you very happy.A parent always wants to hear that their child is happy.Tell them that thru this time since they forbid you to see him you two have been running into each other at school,and have just missed each other terribly,and you really would like for them to accept him and trust your decisions.See if you could convince them to have him over for dinner so they see what a great guy he really is!!! ;) Best of luck,let me know what happens sweetie!!
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I have a friend who I love and care about a lot but I'm not sure if I'm in love with her or just love her as a friend. Do you have any suggestions for figuring this out?
Well,being IN love with someone usually means you have a physical attraction to that person.Believe me,you will know when it's love.It's one of the most incredible and strongest feelings.Love is when you suddenly find yourself flustered and unable to say anything that makes sense around her.All of a sudden you see her in a whole new light,not as just your friend,your buddy.Suddenly you're finding yourself contemplating what it would be like to be her boyfriend.Love is when you start paying attention to little things,like her scent(meaning you could recognize her perfume in a heartbeat),the way she flips her hair,her smile,everything about her seems to consume you.You will know it inside,trust me.It's an amazing feeling!!! :)
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does anybody know any jobs that will allow 14 year olds to work for them
like there's a harris teeter (grocery store)
and a walgreens (pharmacy)
opening right up the street from me
also a blockbuster and bank of america
does any1 kno if any of those allow 14-15 year olds to work there
also if u know any other places that aren't in food service, i don't wanna work anywhere like McDonalds or anything
I do know that where I'm from Thriftway grocery stores hire at 14!!!
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself
Well,if you're particularly shy you can always tell a friend and have the word that you like him "accidentally" get back to him! ;) Or you could write him a quick note!Be flirty,when you see him hold eye contact a little longer than normal(just don't stare him down,lol),smile his way,start up a friendly conversation with him.If you think he likes you too,there's no harm in flirting and then maybe suggesting going to a movie or to grab a bite to eat.That way you're showing that you're interested(and eventually can ask him out)without seeming desperate!!Let me know what happens hun!! :)
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i have had a few periods and they have been exactly 28 days and my next one is coming and it will be while i'm camping... with my dad! i havn't told my mom cuz she makes a big deal over nothing! is there anyway i can make it come later or if i get luck it might be off! plz help i'll rate you!
Well,unfortunately there really is no DEFINITE way to stop your period.And any method of stopping it is dangerous anyway,you don't wanna do that to yourself.Especially if you've just started getting periods.My best advice would be to pack plenty of tampons or pads,whichever you use.Personally I think tampons would be easier for this particular thing(camping)!You should find a time in the future to sit down with your mom and tell her.She can help you with any questions you may have,and even tho she might make a big deal out of it at first(just like it was a big deal to you when you started),eventually it will just be an assumed thing,and not an everyday topic of conversation! ;)
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Is there anyway to get rid of this? I've tried that hair buffer thing, but it doesn't work that well and it's painful. I thought about getting the Veet Wax Strips, they don't look all that bad. I definately can't go to a salon and get it waxed, is there anything I can do?
Well the best way is really to wax it at a salon,but the second best way,for a quick fix is to use a razor.Just make sure you have PLENTY of shaving gel on there and use a gentle razor like the Gilette Venus.But be very soft and careful while you do it!Be forewarned,doing it that way will make it grow back faster!!! :(
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
You've basically answered your own question,you're just not ready now!!! 13 is a very very young age to even be thinking about that serious of a relationship or commitment.If you feel,as you say,that you would lose respect for yourself by doing that,don't compromise your dignity just to win over some boy!! If he can't respect the fact that you're not ready for that,then he's SO not the one you want to be with!!!
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this kidd wants me to have sex with him what do i do i mean i like him but i keep thinking about the ocnsequences...
If you're second guessing it or mulling over it that much,you probably aren't ready!!No one should force you to do something you don't want to!Also I see you reffer to the guy as "this kid" and not "my boyfriend" or "the guy I've been dating".That definitely says a lot.That's a big step to take and you should be with someone you love and care about,who won't pressure you and who you truly want to be with.It's good that you are thinking of the consequences tho.My advice is to wait for the right person,the right time,and most importantly,until YOU are READY!!!
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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy....
I've always loved this quote:"The search for happiness is the key source of unhappiness".Basically what it's saying is if you spend your whole life going in search of happiness,you may miss the happiness that's right there already!!It's hard when you're a shy person to just go out there and make a ton of friends,but the truth is you don't need a whole entourage,you can be just fine with only a few,dear,close friends.Just be yourself,and learn to enjoy and appreciate the everyday things in life that make it amazing.Keep yourself busy with your friends and have fun,there are always new people to meet and new friends to make!As far as your mom goes,you're right that it's not abnormal for you to argue with the rents when you're 15!!Let her know what it is she does that makes you mad or upset and try and work things out together.Nothing is worth hurting yourself over hunnie,NOTHING!!If you can't stop those thoughts,you may need to seek some counseling or professional help of some kind,and there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with that.There are millions of people who see therapists every day and are on some sort of anti-depressant medication,that you would never believe!!!You're not alone at all!Best wishes sweetheart,and remember my motto:SMILE-it's good 4 ya! ;)
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i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out?
Long distance relationships are always a tough tough thing!!I would look around for a great guy in your own state,someone you can actually spend time with.But that doesn't mean you should stop talking to you friend online and on the phone,and maybe someday you guys can work it out!!!
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okay..my friend.she gets treated soo bad..and her boyfriend just dumped her and seh cried for like a whole day..and other people..there so mean to her..and im just bout sick of it..i hate seeing her like this, and now..sehs saying that seh cuts herself..and seh does all this stuff..and ive tried talking to her..she just says that everythings messed up and will never be the same..she just does all of this over a boy that doesnt like her..ive talked to her plenty of times..i just dont kno what to say to her anymore..what should i do?
Let your friend know how much you love her,and that you're always there for her.Remind her of all the reasons life is worth living.For every jerk or rude person out there,believe it or not,there's a really nice person out there too!Help her to learn to appreciate the little things in life,like a gorgeous sunny day,and the fact that she has such a great friend like you who loves her so much.Each day is a blessing.If she continues with the cutting and the talk of suicide,it's time to get an adult involved,as much as you don't want to.Tell your parents,her parents,a guidance counselor,or trusted family friend,anyone who can help.Because some problems you just can't fix on your own,she may need some professional help.And you're not ratting her out or betraying her by telling someone and helping her to get help,you are showing that you truly love her and want to see her happy and enjoying life again.Remind that no boy is worth all of that pain and suffering.It goes back to that old saying "No man is worth your tears,and the one who is won't make you cry"! Best of luck sweetie,write me back and let me know how your friend is doing.Best wishes!!!
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i have a problem with trusting my friends. i know it sounds weird but its tru. i mean like i know i can trust them sometimes but then they have times when they are so hyper they tell everyone everything about me and wut i have told them. wut do i do? i dont think i should trust them anymore but i want to.
I would confront them and let them know you don't appreciate your business being out there like that,and that it's very hurtful to you and makes you feel like you can't trust them.If they aren't willing to listen,or apologize yet continue to do it,they aren't true friends at all and it's time to find some new,TRUE friends!! :)
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ok, i have a pretty big room but u cant tell bcuz i have this HUGE dresser that takes up a whole wall and a huge queen sized bed that takes up a lot of space 2...and i want to get a smaller bed but my parents wont let me...i have posters all over my wall and i never wanna take them down, but what are some good ideas that i could use 2 make my room seem bigger?
Hahaha,you sound like me!I have a medium size room and have a queen size waterbed,dresser,chest of drawers,and entertainment center packed in there!Since you have no choice but to work with the furniture you have(same as I do),you wanna focus on other areas of your room.Light or bright colors on your walls make a room look bigger,like white,or pastel colors like pink and lavender,or baby blue.Get some light colored curtains and maybe some that have pull backs,so you can leave the drapes pulled back some and let the sunlight in!!Maybe take your closet doors down and hang up some beads or something to make it seem more open and spacious.Look into some shelves for your wall,so you can put up your little knick-knacks and save some room on your floor or dresser!!Check out places like Target,Walmart,Meijer,all of those stores for some cute little knick-knacks at a cheap price.Another good one to check out(you can even get a catalog delievered to your home) is Pottery Barn Teen.They have some AWESOME stuff!!Check out www.pbteen.com for more info! Hope this helped some!!! ;)
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well i like this kid nd he likes me nd wen i talk to him he sometimes tells me to tell people im his cuzin nd shit - he dose have a girl but i dont no her ?! y u think he sayin to tell people that ?! PLEASE HELP !!
HmMm..sounds like an interesting person!He sounds kinda shady to me,like he'd like to have something with you on the side maybe,and so he doesn't want his girl to catch on.Ask him why he does that,and see what kind of a response you get,then write me back and let me know.But unfortunately,he sounds shady to me! :(
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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!!
First rule:do NOT pick at it!!!Hehe! I know it's tempting! Rub an ice cube over the zit for a few minutes,that will calm the redness down.Then head out and buy a good face wash that has benzoyl peroxide in it,like Clearasil or Physoderm.You wanna wash your face 2 times a day.You wanna put the ice cube on in the morning BTW,so it can prepare the zit for makeup.As far as makeup goes look for one of those spot concealing/blemish healing combos.Some good ones are Neutrogena and Almay.Use a Q-tip to dab on the concealer right ON the zit but be careful not to spread the infection around!!Follow it up with a little oil-free foundation and a little dusting of a loose translucent powder.It should be gone by like 4 days tops!!!!
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My boyfriend "Logan" and I were at his house, watching porn vidoes. We started to make out, and things got pretty serious. I was in my bra and thong, and he was in his boxers. I didn't want to have sex, but he forced me to take off my bra and thong, then raped me. I was ok with this, but I found out later that he taped it, and was selling it on the internet!! My dad is a porno and I'm afraid he'll see it! What do I do?
First of all rape is NEVER EVER ok!!!You should not be forced into doing something you don't want to do!!!Secondly,CALL THE POLICE!!!!!! They can help you to hopefully squash this before it gets even further outta hand!I know you may feel embarassed or ashamed,but hunnie you HAVE to do this for your own good,and hopefully you will be able to help other girls by having the courage to come forward about this!!!I'm terribly sorry for the pain you've had to go thru.If you need ANYTHING at all,even just a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen,I'm right here,just leave me another message in my inbox and we can exchange s/n's.Best of luck darlin,you will definetely be in my thoughts and prayers!!*HUGZ*
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