Hey Whitney! I'm 14 years old.. I'll be 15 in about a month and I've been dating the same guy for about a year and a half now. We're so in love! I would be so lost without him. But the problem is that I'm not allowed to see him! A few months back, we kinda got caught doing something and my parents took it the wrong way. )LONG STORY!) So i told them we broke up just to make them happy bc they thought i was too young for that long of a relationship anyway. So now when we see eachother, I just have to lie all the time. I HATE it! So what my question is, is now that school is starting and all, should I tell them that we've been seeing eachother all along? or should we just "all of a sudden" start dating again? or should i end it since i'm starting highschool now? i'm so confused! please help me! sorry so long!! =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:39 am: Well if you love him,no reason to end the relationship.I would sit down with your parents(maybe mom first since girls tend to be closer to mom and have a better unerstanding),and explain to them how sorry you are for what happened,but that you really love this guy,and he treats you really good and makes you very happy.A parent always wants to hear that their child is happy.Tell them that thru this time since they forbid you to see him you two have been running into each other at school,and have just missed each other terribly,and you really would like for them to accept him and trust your decisions.See if you could convince them to have him over for dinner so they see what a great guy he really is!!! ;) Best of luck,let me know what happens sweetie!! [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
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