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i have a problem with trusting my friends. i know it sounds weird but its tru. i mean like i know i can trust them sometimes but then they have times when they are so hyper they tell everyone everything about me and wut i have told them. wut do i do? i dont think i should trust them anymore but i want to.
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Me personally, I have a problem trusting people all the time. For the same reasons. What I do is I keep the important stuff to me. True friends don't tell stuff about you that you don't want other people to know.
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Everyone runs into this once and a while. If theyre your friends then they wont tell anyone something that you really dont want anyone else to know but them. When they are hyper and goofy, try to avoid getting into telling them secrets and what-not.
good luck, hope i helped
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I would confront them and let them know you don't appreciate your business being out there like that,and that it's very hurtful to you and makes you feel like you can't trust them.If they aren't willing to listen,or apologize yet continue to do it,they aren't true friends at all and it's time to find some new,TRUE friends!! :)
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Hey,
I would no longer trust them because thats just me. eventually the trust will come.
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I know how it is, a couple of my friends are like that. Talk to them, and tell them how you feel. They're your friends, they should listen and be there for you, and trust is a huge part of a friendship. And if they STILL continue to tell your secrets and private info, then just find someone you can talk to. Maybe a sister, relative, someone you can turn to.
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Talk to them and put them in your shoes and say i understand you wouldnt like it if i blabbed off what you told me-trix
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Yea, I have problems trusting people too it takes me awhile to tell them things, but I trust my friends. You should try talking to your friends by saying "You guys are my friends, so therefore I tell you guys a lot about me and when you guys are hyper you go off and blab about me and I don't really appreciate it, it makes me NOT want to trust you guys and tell you things." Tell them something like that and how you feel about it. They should understand if they are your friend. Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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Well tell them that and u mite not get the answer u expect but talk it out with them and do what i do sometimes dont tell ur friends things u dont want to get out DONT EVEN MENTION IT at a slumber party or whatever the hell yall chicks do at night. OKay if you want to talk more e-mail me
:)Smart-ass Bubba:) Jaguars41@aol.com
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i just had this problem a little bit ago. i can't trust my friends even if i i tried. i can't be trusted much to my friends either but when they really need me i can be there for them. Since you can't trust your friends, try getting a penpal and tell them the stuff you wanna tell your friends or try a diary and write down everything you need to get out and say. that is what i used to do.
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