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My name is "Lucy" Of course that isn't my real name.
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well im 15. and i had sex for the first time. im wondering..could i be pregnant? i mean..i havent gotten my period yet..so..idk..could i be prengnat? thanks. (link)
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Yes you could be, Anything is possible even with or without a condom
Your best bet is to be smart about it and use protection which I sure hope you are doing..
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When I get turned on and get wet, it always smells funny. I was just wondering if most other girls experience this? like, do yall just smell like peaches down there? or is there no smell at all?
I wash every day..and I don't think I have anything wrong with me just because I can't remember it not being like this and I don't have any symptoms of anything. (link)
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Listen hun,
Nobody smells great down there, Woman have a natural scent and the truth is we either smell like fish or chicken. What can help with a foul smell is if you shower regularly, Try wearing panty liners with a little bit of baby powder. I know this sounds weird but sometimes spray on deodorant does the job. Shaving helps eliminate any odor also.
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Ok do guys like it better if a girl is tight or loose?
I know what it means kinda but still confused.
Can someone explain and tell me which they prefer? (link)
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I honestly don't see what the whole big deal is about the loose and the tight vags these days. Personally, Every vagina is different, We all come in different shapes and sizes, We probably even come tighter than others etc. If a guy is all about "being tight or loose" well in my personal opinion I think he'd be better off whacking his own stick then coming onto me. Maybe he'd have a better chance when he grows up a little bit. I've been with a few guys in my life and not one of them cared to bring that up to me.
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hey,
i have a boyfriend but he doesnt really act like my boyfriend. What do i do?
Help Me (link)
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Dump him
Why let a guy treat you like you aren't worth it? Not only is that completely disrespectful but hell a guy that wants to act like an ass deserves to be alone
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18-female.
Soo I'm still a virgin but I still do shave down there because I am sexually active - just not sex. I always feel like I have to be completely smooth down there and even the tiniest bit of hair will creep a guy out. Shaving every day would just be painful .. but if things ever do start to get intimate with a guy and I haven't shaved for like 3 days, I'll stop because I feel self-conscious about the hair. Is this normal, would a guy care? I've heard they dont but for me, I just can't let myself go when I have any hair down there. (link)
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It's about loving you for who you are, Not about whether or not you have a bald vag.
The truth is, If a guy makes a huge deal out of a few hairs on a vagina well then what the hell makes you think he would be mature enough to have sex with? It's not a big deal
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17/f. I was really depressed when I was younger, I considered killing myself multiple times and running away, but if course I did not and eventually got over it. I never told anyone and no one ever knew. Anyway, then when I was 16, I'm not really sure I was depressed but I honestly cAn't remember one thing from my sophmore year, it was all just a blur. Now, for the past month I've been sad a lot and I cry really really easily. So I was wondering can depression come back? (link)
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Yes it can come back, Depression is a mental disorder. It doesn't just go away and I'll tell you from experience I wish it did but it just doesn't work that way.
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Every time i sleep with my bf, he hurts me, although i do not tell him this. he pulls at my hair and slaps me to the point im in pain and in the past he has pulled my back out. How do i go about this without hurting his feelings? (link)
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Sometimes being honest means being critical, Sit him down and explain to him that sometimes in his sleep he is a little rough...Maybe try sleeping on his side while you curl up BEHIND him instead of in front...
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How do i get my cat to walk on a leash? (link)
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The same way you would train a dog, It's a working progress
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my boyfriend doesnt talk to me .. what should i do? (link)
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Dump him, Boyfriends don't just ignore their girlfriends and act like they are nothing but dirt on the sidewalk.
Kick him to the curb, He isn't worth it
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My brother got busted by the police for the first time approximately 4 weeks ago. He called from the hospital telling us he had to get a blood test to see if he was high or under the influence. We just got the papers today that he should find a lawyer, he is in for three charges, under the influence, drug paraphernalia and window screening (which is the tinting on the person's car he was driving, I don't know what that is but that was one of his charges). Now, since all of this happened and we got all the papers, I believe my brother is in the most trouble because he wasn't even driving his car, he was driving his friends who was in the back seat of the vehicle when they were pulled over. They searched the car and searched each person, they took them in handcuffs, I can't even imagine seeing that. Anyways, now I'm rambling, my point is, what's in store for my brother? For court and everything? Thanks. He is 18 and again, this is his first time getting caught. (link)
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Depends on the court, Your brother is now legally an adult.
Depending on judge, court etc. He might get lucky and end up on probation with community service as this is his first charge. It's either that or he goes to jail...
Seeing your brother was charge as an adult it will be on his record for 5 years, As now his chances of getting a job are even harder and it certainly doesn't look if he were trying to get a place of his own etc. Looks like he really screwed himself over on this one..
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im only 13... and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 years and about two months ago we had sex...unprotected... let me cut to the chase... i havent had me period since then and i took a pregnancy test and it was positive... how do i tell my parents? or my boyfriend? or ANYONE?
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If they take that one lightly then you've been touched by an angel.
Sorry... but sheesh
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can you wear hats at batmitzvahs? or like bandannas? (link)
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I don't see why not, However it all depends on what the person who is having the batmitzvah wants. Most of them are semi formal/formal personally it depends on the hat but the bandanna might be a little inappropriate.
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if you saw your husband sending messages to other girls lets say thru facebook or myspace etch and he wrote "hey bby let me get your aim or msn,your a cutie" while being with you would you get mad?? but without him knowin you check his thing . (link)
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Yes you have every right to be mad, I would not only suspect him of cheating but what else would he be lying or hiding hm?
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My ex and i have resently started talking again. One day hes completely into me and the next he talks to me as a mutal friend. Hes always around and i find myself looking for him.
How can i get over him? and see what his true feelings towards me are? (link)
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Sounds like he might still like you to some level, but is also talking to someone else. I don't think he is interested in fooling around, In fact it might be his way of trying to moving on. Everyone is different, However if this is not the case and he does like the both of you then why be the girl that's just a booty call? You are better than that and I agree with the person below me maybe he is just trying to get one thing out of you and is stroking your ego to make you think he is actually into you. phrt
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I feel really weird asking this, but I have to. Im almost done with my period, and this morning I woke up with really bad cramps. Except they didnt feel like cramps. They are much, much lower than usual. I have been having them on and off all day. What could this be? And should I be worried? (link)
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If you are sexually active, It could be a sign of pregnancy.
Also, Some woman experience cramping before, during and a little after a period
It could be something serious that might need medical attention
If it is around the vaginal area it could be a UTI (Urinary tract infection)
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How much are you supposed to tip your hair stylist if you're getting your hair highlighted? (The price is around $50-$75) (link)
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Well
It would be the same as if you were to tip a waitress, Although they aren't serving you food they are still doing the job.
20% The way I usually tip is if the bill is 50 you would double the 5 (Tip would be 10)
75 (Tip 14) etc.
100 (Tip 20) and so on
However, Say the bill is 50.00 and the hair came out terrible, Then you would tip around 7.00. If I were to eat at a restaurant and I was not happy with the service then I would usually tip 3 dollars less than as if the regular tip.
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How old do you have to be to work at a night club or strip club? (No, i dont want to be a stripper.) (link)
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You would need to be 18 or older.
18 is legal and adult
but drinking is when it would be 21 depending on what state you are in.
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my friends boyfriend just broke up with her and i want to make a playlist to help her feel better and more empowered. any suggestions?? (link)
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A song I recommend is
Single Again, by Trina
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So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
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This sort of question just proves how shallow some people really are
Sorry...
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It started almost three years ago. I went to the doctors for an itchy problem that was not going away. As it turned out, I had trich. The doctor stated someone has been messing around. I asked him that my husbands ex had it in 1993, was it possible it had stayed dormant before it infected me? He didn"t answer. Then last Oct, I had a pap smear, it came normal, with the HPV virus too. I was terrified! Since vfinding this oput, I've lost interest in sex. I"m too afraid of catching anything. Since Oct, we have had sex 5 times. Am I wrong to feel this way? (link)
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It is possible to catch anything from your partner, As there is no guarantee that sex always comes without STD.
Personally, I would talk to your husband. I don't know how the marriage is between the two of you but if something feels off in the marriage then I would start questioning him. If it were me, I'd be a little iffy about it too.
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