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Hi,

My name is "Lucy" Of course that isn't my real name.

I answer any questions that come to my in box, However if you don't receive an answer within 2 days more than likely your question has been rejected for a good reason.

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NOTE: At times I am brutally honest this is not intended to offend anyone as I am here to give advice. I am straight to the point and I put a finger down on certain questions asked.

- Lucy

Age: 26
Member Since: September 17, 2009
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Last Update: July 24, 2010
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thank you! i got a blood test and im not pregnant!

We had sex but the condom broke... condoms aren't safe now I am pregnant and i NEVER would have had sex with him if you didn't tell me condoms were safe!

Rating changed by L2 moderator Thats why he said nothing can happen now! Dont you read?!?!

Well... I can understand not respecting their decisions but I don't think its fair to assume they are uneducated or to "not care for them". thanks for your input.

thanks i owe u

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Thank you..>.<

Well one were else would he sleep? By himself?

thank u so much :)

thx :)

i wear them for comfort

wait could he really go 2 jail?

thank you...decided not to do it...you all are so right

thanks. Its true.

Thanks! I'm actually thinking of doing that.

Thank you!

Thanks heaps

i dont want to date him and i dont think he wants to date me so im not too worried about feelings. :) but i do want him to know the truth, i just didnt know if itd be worth it but i guess thats my choice to make and his to listen. and no she wasnt a friend. she was a girl who was honestly jealous of me or so she said so in her email. thank you very much for your advice though. :)

Thankyou, its just very hard x

I have my period so I am obviously mature enough to have sex.

i completely agree wit you, i thought it was shallow too. thank you for your advice

Thank you!

you are awesome!

all the answers here gave me the courage to ask my gf and she says it is sexy as hell! thanks for the answer! :)

i found out that he is telling at least 3 girls i know the same thing and he has had sex with at least those 3 so he just uses that "line" to get with as many girls as he can. if a guy ever says this to you it is a lie he would break up with her if he loved you otherwise he is using both girls to get sex like this guy is doing with me cuz i had sex with him then i found out from my brother about all his girls. :(

that made me feel like it was ok to wait when he was making me feel bad for waiting! i decided to wait until i am 100% for sure i am ready for sex so THANK YOU!!!

Thank you :) can you tell me what shaving gel or cream you recommend?

Thanks! I'm awkward about these things.

Thanks, I can't go to the doctor with out my mom knowing though if I use her insurence

Thanks for taking time to give me your opinion. It didn't seem to me that you really knew any more about it than I did though, so it wasn't much of a help to me.

thank you

thanks! i hadn't thought of going out to sell them. i guess i just thought of selling them at school. but, now that you mention it, i can probably take them to the gym, to church, or the pharmacy down the street from my house. i'm sure a lot of people would buy them there! but, there's tons of places where i can sell them. i just hadn't really used my imagination. thank you so much!

Thank you so much!!

Yeah. He just turned 16.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way because he's acting like it's not a big deal. He keeps saying it's in the past... but that doesn't excuse him lying to me constantly. I can't trust anything he says and its just hurting me and making me go crazy. I'm just scared I won't find someone else... I go to an all-women's college and I love him more than anything. He bought an engagement ring... it's so hard.

thanks . (:

thanks alot!

Thank you!

Thank you! I am staying like i am. My friend just got checked and has warts AND herpes! she was the one making me feel like i should be doing it like she was! :(

you are SO funny! thank you for making me feel better! He told everyone in school and dumped me but at least your answer made me laugh.

Thanks but that isn't exactly what i was looking for

you make me feel better!

Thank you!

thank you.. we're not meant to be i think.. now, i know what to do... :|

i never even thought about how i dressed! thank you!

thank you for being honest anyway

i love my virginity to much to throw it away i am sorry your country is not the same way thank you for the helps

Thank You. :) Its nice to hear someone complimenting the fact I havent after 14 months. Many people in school seem to disagree. Thank You for your honesty. :)

Thanks :)

thank you for your honesty!

Thank you!

Thank you(:

Thanks I forgot to mention that we're both single and he is already 40 years ols and I am 30 thats why I having difficulty to acept that he's like that. I do appreciate your very good advise. Thanks =)

thank you your advice is very helpful. :)

Thanks! i delted it anyway ;p lmao

Thanks :)

I got it from my friend! lol he told me that, and I didnt know whether to believe him or not so I asked it on here!

Yea sounds painful, that's why I wasn't sure. Thanks!

I'm pretty sure he's not talking to his ex and I definitely don't know if he's into other people. But yeah, I guess I'm going to have to find out myself, lol. It's all good. I'm just gonna stick to my ground and if he wants in my life, he can fight his way in because at this point, he's just pissing me off, lmao. Thank you for your help. :)

Thanks! :)

I gave you a three for the fact that you went to the effort of looking but I ahd already looked at these hun which is why I asked had wnyone been there before so as I would know if the stories were true or false! Thx anyway! Lxxx

thanks

thank you very much!

thank you . (:

It's not a stye, but thanks for answering.

Exactly. It's his life though and he doesn't seem so worried, so why should I be?

Well I talked to her, and she said she wasn't interested in him and he should know that. So I started talking to him the other night and a few days later he kissed me! :] But then my sister told me she kissed him so I'm not sure now, I feel pretty upset.

thank you. :)

i liked the advice. but i was confused about telling them what they want to hear? should i be honest and tweat it. or just lying/

Thanks! He actually had a game today and I missed it :/

I can't take a test right now - you have to wait at least a week. I came here to see if anyone had any kind of experience to share with me or would know what are the chances. I appreciated your failed attempt to give me advice but it did not give me what I wanted.

You really only answered one aspect of my question? What about the credit card, transportation, restaurant information, etc.

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I don't even tell her to do it but thanks, makes sense.

he promised to give me a date over spring break where his parents arent there, if that doesnt work i guess i give up. this weekends date was only an hour long, sucks.

Thank you, But I can't write poetry... Also I'm not really sure how to use the site... Thank you anyway!^_^ ^_^ ^_^

thanks

thx

thanks =) i think so too but the thing is HES the one that wants it that way. Hes the one that set that limit and it bothered me that I was following it and he wasnt. but thank you i agree!

Thanks .

thank you :)

thanks!

Thank you!!

I was never thinking that relationships in my age would last forever,but I haven't been treated right ever since I began dating.So it's pretty hard for me to start it all over again.You are right though,I will give myself some time to heal.

I agree totally, thank you and I just want him to understand that despite everything the baby comes before anything! Sometimes I think he thinks that staying home and taking care of a baby ALL day and night isn't work, but it totally is

Thank you! A white one it'll be :D

thank you so much...i will get one for sure.

thanks

Thanks, I wouldn't believe it so much if I heard it from one person but two different people told me.

This was comforting, thank you. And it was real advice. I really appreciate it. It's just still obviously going to be hard to actually put this plan into effect. =\ But I agree with you, like if I walk with a group of friends. I just wish I could get them to understand the severity of the situation.

thank you, yo are so right

Like iii care?

i wasn't planning on having sex or doing anything like that, just kissing. i don't think theres anything wrong with that! haha but still good advice

Thanks, I just hate them sometimes haha especially in swimsuit season!

Oh yeah her hair is already falling out

thanks (:

Trust me I tried giving it back but he wouldn't take it. And i've only worn it once..I'm clearly aware of my actions and your choice of words are a bit rude in themselves.

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hes was joking about the coat thing but thankyou anyways (: &idn i dont wanna make things awkward between me & him if he doesnt feel the same way.

excuse you, I was asking how do i get more members!!! MEANING of how is a QUESTION. not advertisement.

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