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Every time i sleep with my bf, he hurts me, although i do not tell him this. he pulls at my hair and slaps me to the point im in pain and in the past he has pulled my back out. How do i go about this without hurting his feelings?
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Tell him to fucking cut it out?
I don't understand why you don't speak up. If something hurts, you say so. His emotional pain is less important than direct physical pain.
You are not ready for sex. I don't care if you're in your 50s, you still haven't grown up. If you're under 20, stop having sex and stop dating this asshole.
He's using you for his own enjoyment. You either have to be the biggest idiot imaginable, or you have to not care, to fly past your partner being in pain and having her back thrown out.
Slapping? What the fuck do you think your life is? Stop treating yourself like a fuckdoll who's supposed to please her boyfriend and start acting like a human being who has a right to her own comfort and enjoyment of life.
Christ.
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Sometimes being honest means being critical, Sit him down and explain to him that sometimes in his sleep he is a little rough...Maybe try sleeping on his side while you curl up BEHIND him instead of in front...
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Wait....he hurts you during sex??
I don't understand. Do you think he is justified in hurting you? Is it rough sex? Whatever is going on it should not be happening and you need to not only tell him about it but also make sure that it stops. Please do not allow someone to hurt you. If it's not his intention then I am sure you will not hurt his feelings, if anything he'll be glad to not hurt you anymore. And if he is doing this on purpose then this should make you question why he would WANT to hurt you. That isn't how people show love :(. Please talk to him and if he responds negatively then you need to make the choice to leave. Remember that this stops when you say that it does.
Take care. I hope all goes well.
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