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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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OK well there's this boy and i have 2 periods with him . I am totally in love with him. I sit near him in the 2 periods. I think he likes me but i am not sure its almost the end of the year and i really want to be his girlfriend before school is over... what do i do ?
Love I Need him

first off, get to know him. maybe ask him to hang out outside of school, doing something fun. like a run(if your both active) or go laser tagging - maybe do a big group thing with a buncha friends. i found a couple sites for you to figure out if he likes you or not.. hopefully these are what you are lookign for.
[ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/doeshe.html ]

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okay so i have this shirt and i am having ppl sign it for the end of the year well my ex b/f keeps wanting to sign it so i finally let him and he said "ass" so i changed it to "ask" well after my last period at school he was waiting outside my door for me and he asked me how i liked what he wrote i said i liked it but i changed it to "ask" then he was like well let me wright something nice on it so i let him it said "fuck u" and he was laughing well then i changed it to "have fun u" and now he wants to change it again he is even trying to get inside my pockets to get the marker is this a sign that he likes me still (he was the one that dumped me)

honestly, i doubt hes interested like that. your ex-boyfriend sounds like a complete jerk. and even if he was interedted in you again - i highly advise you not to get involved with him again. those things are really rude, and i could see like loser or freak or something but those are just pushing it too far. im sorry if you still have feelings for him, but i think you should just move on. without him in your life. you dont need him. i promise. good luck

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hey does anyone now how to put pictures and avatars onto your myspace liek under the about me section? thanks

you have to upload the pictures on a site. heres some sites you can use..
photobucket.com,
tinypic.com ,
imageshack.us ,
imagehostingonline.com ,
picturetrail.com ,
imagehosting.us .

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i was at a guys house and he had a friend over and i came with my 2 friends (2 of us girls were 14, one was 13. the guys were both 2).we werent doing drugs or drinking i guess we were all just really horny. so we are all going at it. the guys have bonners and me and my friends were sucking and then they were fingering us. it was so hot i loved it! so i was giving 1 of them a blow job and he said "i'm gonna bust a nut" and i said "ok". i didnt know what that meant. so then he ejaculated all over my face. i didn't know what to do so i kinda rubbed it around and i swalloed some. does sperm on your face cause acne? and if i swallo it can it harm my body. so anyways more stuff happend. we were all in a big orgy and it was awsome. we promised not to tell anyone but that we would do it again. so i keep asking them if they want to do it again and nobody ever says yes. they look at me like i'm crazy. i want to do it again so bad what should i say to convince them?

first off - im just gonna start by saying next time think twice what your doing. and your age. okay thats all. so, from what i know and read, sperm/cum actually helps prevent acne. it doesnt cause it (from the research ive done on it). and swallowing it, will not in fact harm your body. people do it, and i promise they are still living today - so dont worry about that. as for doing it again, maybe it was a one time thing. and if the oppertuinity actually does roll around sometime - and you guys happen to try/experient with doing this again maybe it wont be as fun or as special and you might not enjoy it as much. maybe it was just a ONE TIME thing. the longer you wait - the more and more your gonna wanna do it. so maybe you should wait a little and then your wanting will just build up more and more. then maybe mention a party one day and makesure all the same people are invited.

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Hey. Well, I'm like 5'6 to 5'7, and I'm 14/f African American (if that helps) and about to enter the 9th grade as a freshman in August. Anyways, I was just wondering if you guys thought that I was tall for my age, average height, etc. Also, can you guys tell me if long legs look good in mini skirts. Thanks.

P.S.-I have like a couple scabs on my legs and I'm brown skin and the scabs are like a dark brownish color, so I was wondering if that would look good in a mini skirt as well, and also whatI can do to clear it up quickly. Thanks again, and sorry for all the questions.

well, i wouldnt consider you really THAT tall. i would prolly consider you on the high end of normal/average. im also entering 9th grade this fall, and im 5'5. you are in the 75%ish percentile for your height. if you wanna checkk.. then go here [ http://www.halls.md/on/women-height-b.htm ]. i dont think that super tall girls look good in mini skirts, it looks like they're legs are like TOO long. and its unproportional. but sicne your not super tall, i think it would be fine. and as for the scabs - they dont last that long, unless you keep picking at them and/or fall alot. so, i wouldnt worry about that.. everyone gets those.

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um.. ok. i dont know like how to shave my u know what. like im like scared its gonna hurt . but i do know ppl who want to get in my pants. and i do not want to be embarresed. but like i dont know what to do! help?

well, i dont really know how to explain it too you.. so i found you a site instead. it give all the ways your can do it, and the pros&cons about each too. i hope this is what you were looking for [ http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1797.html ]. good luck. and if you need moree advice - leave one in the inbox and id be glad to help.

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heyyy kelll!!!
ok sweetiee.
i was wondering.
do guys prefer for girls to shave it all off. or
idk WHAT DO THEY WANT cause my "guy friend" wants to get down my pants;; butt i dont wanna be embarressed when he does.. soo helppp mee babee

well - this is a pretty interesting question. i honestly had no idea, so i asked a couple guy friends [ i know totally embarressing - but hey, your worth it. ] and they pretty much all said its a personal preference depending on the guy. but they all like it somewhat under control. nothing like crazy natural. like they dont want like a huge crazy bush. i dont know. sorry if i wasnt much help. i just dont really know.. eh.

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(14/f)
What is the age ( or around the age) that you have to start getting your vagina examined by a doctor?

Can the doctor tell if you've have sex before? Would the excuse "I pushed a tampon in too far" work?

Are doctors allowed to tell your parents you've been having sex if you dont want them to?

really, you can go to a gyno anytime you feel the need or want to. theres really no SET age. just when you need to. im not sure whether or not the doctor can tell if you have had sex or not. im pretty sure theres a sheet you fill out and it asks if your sexually active or have been. but, i doubt that the tampon excuse would work. because they are professionals and know what they are doing. and if you tell the doctor that you dont want your parents knowing, then no they are NOT allowed to do that. its a relationship or bond that a doctor has with a patient. you can ask or tell your doctor anything and everything. and they wont be able to tell your parents [unless they feel you are in danger for your life or something]. but i really suggest you not having sex at 14. thats really early. you shouldnt be having sex unless you'd be comfortable with telling your mom/dad about it. what if you got pregnant? at 14. thats just kinda crazy. but its not my place to judge.

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i have a big scare from my pimple.(its been about 2 weeks..it wont go away!!)well...its pink,it doesnt have a bump,or an indent.its just..pink and round.What are some medications to make this go away?are there any home remedies also? how long does it take for a scar to heal? (well,in my case its just pinkness...so how long will it take for the pinkness to go away?) ANY HELP !! I RATE TO FIVE!!

earlier today - i answered a question just like this. the same answer works for you as well.. so im reposting it
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im sorry about this. it must stink. i found you a site that has a product called MaMa lotion. it gives a lot of information about acne scars and what the lotion can do for you. [ http://skincarerx.com/acne-scarring.html ] and i know that if your face is really bad, then you can go to a physician or dermotalogist and get OTC (over the counter) products. if you want more information about going to the dermotologist or physician then go here [ http://www.ivillage.co.uk/beauty/skincare/conditions/articles/0,,547683_183463,00.html ] or here [ http://wo-pub2.med.cornell.edu/cgi-bin/WebObjects/PublicA.woa/7/wa/viewHContent?website=nyp&contentID=255&wosid=3vy7r1Y6FqRTTqSycUbLGg ] good luck.
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ive heard that lemon juice (natural bleach) helps as well.


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Hey, first of all, thanks so much for reading this.
My parents fight ALL the time. I feel so terrible for my mom because she raises all three kids without any of my dads help. My dad is always out working..i think. He hates spending time with the family. Also, if he is having an issue with anyone in the family, he does not talk about it. He is one of those people that does not talk about how he feels. It is very irritating because there is always tension between my parents and I can always sense it. Last night, my dad told my mom that marrying her was the worst mistake of his life. Today, (mothers day) they are not speaking. At all. I would rather them get a divorce then them staying together unhappily. What should I do?

Thanks~

i know this isnt what you want to hear, but you really cant do much. you have to just let them fight it out. im really sorry you have to go through this, but they prolly feel they have to stay together [for you and your siblings' sakes]. maybe you should try having them see marrige counciling, to see what a prefessional thinks they should do. there is always bumps in a road, but if your dads never home and they were fighting over mothers day - then i think theres a problem. now to when your dad said that thing to your mom- when people fight they always say things they dont mean, but sometimes they go to far and thats what it seems he did. most liekly he didnt mean it, but he was just really mad. if you feel really uncomfortable with it, then maybe talk to a school councelor and they will most likely be able to give you advice on what you should do.

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I asked my brother what 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base was but he said to ask someone else. I'm guessing it's not the most conversational thing to talk about. What are those things though?

no, you dont ususally ask people what they are-especially your brother, unless you have agood relationship with him. 1st base is to make out/french kiss. 2nd base is touching of other peoples private areas(fondling). and 3rd base is getting either a hand job, fingering or oral sex. if you need more information or questions then go to like urbandictionary.com and type in what you wanna know.

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Does anyone know how to change the privacy settings on LiveJournal?

yah, heres the steps. after you have typed in your update or whatever .. then
*scroll down to the grey box that has like music, mood [ ect ]
*the first thing says security and has a ? by it
*change the security to friends
and that will make your entry only visible to friends. if you do private, its only for your eyes, and if you do public - everyone can.

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I need some ideas for what I can do today. I've been terribly bored and:

1. My parents won't take me anywhere
2. It's raining outside so I can go out
3. My brother isn't home
4. There's nobody to watch a movie with
5. None of my friends are home
6. Nothing on TV

It seems like the only thing left is homework. And that's no fun. Plus, what can I do after I get that done? Help me out guys.

*do your nails
*read magazines
*take a nap.. yum
*look for different outfits in your closet
*read a book
*look for hot guys online
*play games online
*look at old pictures
*make a cd
*work out & get your body in shape
*paint a picture
im sure theres more.. but i cnt think right now, sorry. good luck

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so ya i liek dis girl and i cant stop thinkin botu her and stuff but like when im around her im all shy and always think im gonna say something stupid but when i talk to her online i can say everything to her ant talk to ehr for hours and im to scared to ask her fi she lieks me or something

aw, im sorry. you really should just try and get more comfortable around her. and remember small talk = BIG results. ask questions and listen to her answer. whenever you can, bring up something she said earlier. it will really catch her off gaurd that you really listen. for telling if she likes you, i found you a site.. [ http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting.htm ] its specifically about telling if she lieks you. online talking is almost always alot easier to do, because you can take your time and make sure you dont say something dumb or something. but thats the fun of getting to know someone. dont be someone your not. dont be scared to be yourself infront of her - even if your the biggest dork. its okay that your shy, but dont be so reserved because then she wont think of you as anything other than a wallflower. make an impression and make her remember you. heres a convo started site. when you guys are talking [ inperson or on the phone ] and you get a silent moment - heres ideas [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/convo.html ]. good luck. and just be yourself =)

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is there any thing that makes your hair grow faster?

Here are some other hair growing tips:
*get ride of or cut back on smoking, caffeine and carbonated sodas which weaken the body and block maximum hair growing potential.
*eat a healthy diet. avoid foods that are high in sugar or fat.
*treat your hair like a piece of fine old lace. treat it carefully avoiding any unnecessary brushing, combing or handling.
*avoid use of hot water, hot blow dryers or other hair care tools that may stress the hair.
*have a weekly scalp massage to provide stimulation to the hair follicles.
*do a series of ongoing hot oil treatments to protect the hair's shaft.
*have regular trims to eliminate split ends and allow the hair to look and feel healthier.
*get plenty of rest and sleep to allow your body to grow hair.
*there are hair growing suppliments or viatamins you can buy. good luck

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what's a good foundation thats not heavy, for combonation skin? i have some acne around my forehead and nose, but it's dry at the same time. idk its weird. and also my face can be pretty blotchy, so i want it to even out my complexion.
thankss

omgg, im the same way. like same everything. so ill tell you what i use.. i suggest using Cover Girl Clean Makeup. its fragrance free, oil free and wont clog your pores. ontop of all that its lightweight and blends in super well. then on top of that [ sometimes ] i use Clinique Superbalanced Makeup. again, its oil free and no fragrance. then usually i put a bronzer over it that has biult in sunscreen. also, i knwo that Dream Matte Mousse works amazing. good luck

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Is it possible for a 13 year old to stop growing breasts? I'm 32A, my mom is 32A, and I started growing when I was 9. They haven't grown since I was 11 or 12. My breasts are identical to my mom's, and she developed really late. Does this mean that I'm done growing?

your body doesnt stop growing until your 18. you still have a couple years to look forward to. and because you havent finished your growth spurt, you are not done growing.

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i know this may sound stupid but what does it mean when someone is outspoken??

thanks in advancee!!

ps
5s for anythinggg!

first off - theres no such thing as a stupid question. your just curious. anyway- check this site out to find out. [ http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=outspoken ]

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why do all girls shave their hair down there? i enjoy a nicely trimmed bush. do all girls shave?

i guess saving is just a personal preference. most girls shave down there because it gets out of hand and they get self concious. especially while wearing a bikini or something. i couldnt tell you whether all girls shave or why, but maybe thats somehting you should consider. also, maybe not all guys "enjoy a nicely trimmed bush". just something to think about.. but like i said - just a personal preference.

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i have really wanted a trampoline for a long time and my dad said we will get it for you but i would really like to see you raise the money on your own instead of us just handing it to you.. so he told me to ask some of the neighbors if i can do anything to earn some money! so if anyone has any other siguestions on how to make money, please help! **i WILL RATE 5'S!

*babysitting
*dog-walking
*lemonade stand
*raking leaves
*local summer camps
*lawn mower
*weed picker
*pet sitting
*car wash
*bake sale
*pick flowers and sell them
*house sitter
*chores
*elderly helper
*make some jewelry & sell it
*draw some designs
i bet theres a lot more, but i cnt think of them right now. [ sorry for any repeats also ]

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