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My parents relationship
Hey, first of all, thanks so much for reading this.
My parents fight ALL the time. I feel so terrible for my mom because she raises all three kids without any of my dads help. My dad is always out working..i think. He hates spending time with the family. Also, if he is having an issue with anyone in the family, he does not talk about it. He is one of those people that does not talk about how he feels. It is very irritating because there is always tension between my parents and I can always sense it. Last night, my dad told my mom that marrying her was the worst mistake of his life. Today, (mothers day) they are not speaking. At all. I would rather them get a divorce then them staying together unhappily. What should I do?
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trust me deep inside your daddy heart he loves your mom and you and yous siblings...your daddy is probably stress from work...and probably take his stress out of your mom...what your daddy said to your mom about ''it was a mistake marrying her''is just anger talk...your daddy don't mean it...bevause he wouldn't marry a person for fun...nobody do that...i hear that alot...and i don't even have a dad..but anywayz taLK to your dad...and tell him how you feel..you,you mom,your dad,and your siblings together and tell each other how ya'll feel..and bsecond thing pray to god to keep your family together have faith in him and god will answer your prayer...tell me how it went okay...HOLLA...PEACE...ONE LUV..
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my parents fight all teh time. im kind of used to it by now. my dad has sed the same thign to my mom n it scared me bc i aws only a little kid. when i heard them yellin when i was little i would run upstairs n cry my eyes out. i had a sisetr n older brother but they didnt do much help to me. now im older n i have a little brother who is 3. when ever my mom n dad fight my brother gets scared n startes to breath rele heavily. when isee this i grab him n bring him up to my room. i play loud music so i can block my mom n dad oout. i try to comfort him n i hodl him tellin him everythings alright. gfiannly when they stop talkin i go bak downstiars. sumtimes they get into hUGEEE fights n others just little. i think you need to tlk to your dad about his behavor. he might say SCREW U.. but then he'll think about it. and he will say worry. also if he says that dont tlk to him. if he asked a ? just be liek hmm i dont tlk to people that are mean to me. he'll get the message. trust me. if he is will to tlk, trry to tell him how is actin. tell him that it is affectign you. no dad could take the pain of his child. i hope everythings turns out okay.
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What happens between your parents is up to whether your mom is going to take it or if your dad decides that he should divorce your mom to fix his 'mistake'.
I doubt that your dad meant what he said, but you have to wait until your mom decides that she's had enough with his constant bickering while trying to raise you and your siblings. The truth is that you have no control in what happens between your parents. I'm sure you'd be glad to take them to sign divorce papers but you can't do that.
The best that you can do is try not complaining so much about things. If she wants to eat something from a place you don't like, just eat their once in a while. But I want to make this clear: Don't let your mom's unhappiness keep you from talking about your problems or if you need advice. I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't ask her for help when you need it. You matter too.
-TheTeenGirl
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i know this isnt what you want to hear, but you really cant do much. you have to just let them fight it out. im really sorry you have to go through this, but they prolly feel they have to stay together [for you and your siblings' sakes]. maybe you should try having them see marrige counciling, to see what a prefessional thinks they should do. there is always bumps in a road, but if your dads never home and they were fighting over mothers day - then i think theres a problem. now to when your dad said that thing to your mom- when people fight they always say things they dont mean, but sometimes they go to far and thats what it seems he did. most liekly he didnt mean it, but he was just really mad. if you feel really uncomfortable with it, then maybe talk to a school councelor and they will most likely be able to give you advice on what you should do.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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