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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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ok, see there is this boy that i dated a while back and I really liked him until he broke up wit me, but now i am back with another guy and I am completely in love with him and our relationship couldnt be better. but everytime my friends like my ex...i get so jealous and mad...why is this? i really need some help

You probably still have feelings for your ex. Sometimes it takes awhile to make them feelings go away. Just keep reminding yourself that he broke up with you and broke your hair, not you have a new boyfriend who you love. I'm sure the feelings will go away once you relize how much you love your new boyfriend.
♥ Krissy

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This might sound confusing.. but..

When you get your nose pierced, since the ending is bigger then the stick part that actually goes in your nose, do they have to stick that in there and you have to wait for it to heal over and then when you take it out you have to pull the ending part out which would hurt (im guessing) and would make it look really stupid. Thanks

Like theirs a little ball on the end of the nose pin? Your better off getting the nose pins that don't have the ball on it. The ball ones hurt. If you get one that is just the stick, it would be better for you.
♥ Krissy

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I have a friend who told someone I like that I was a slut, stupied, a freak, and a lousey girlfriend. only because I went out with him for a long time and then we broke up. I have no idea of what to do to get him to like me agian. Please help me

Firstly, your friend isn't a "true" friend if he's going around telling your crush that. I think you need to talk to him about what he said to the guy you like. This guy that's saying stuff probably still has feelings for you because you've been with him so long. As for the guy that your crushing, just tell him because you and this other guy have history he's trying to screw up everything between you and him. I'm sure your crush will understand and everything will be okay.
♥ Krissy

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I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me?

You'll probably meet a lot of new people in highschool. I know I did. I had some friends in middle school. But once I got to highschool I started to meet a lot of cool people. I'm sure you'll make a lot of new friends when you start highschool.
♥ Krissy

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hey
well he already took me to the movies this past friday and i sat down next to him and in an attemped to flirt i rubed his arm because his arm was leaning on mine but like i dont think he noticed that it was a hint lol and i put my head on his shoulder and he dident move...is that ahint for me?like he dident move cuz he dident care that my head was there?

thx in advance

He probably liked having your head on his shoulder, that's why he didn't move. That was a dead give away hint for you. You should just tell him that you have feelings for him. Maybe he's too scared to tell you because he got turned down last time he asked you.
♥ Krissy

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hey..

I'm a 15 year old girl and I have this big crush on my big brother's best friend.....this guy liked me last year but gave up on me because I didn't want to be more then friends....but since we havent bin talking all that much I'v realised that I really like him alot but I dont think he wants me because I didn't want him last year....how would I go about trying to get him?
thx in advance!

Maybe he still does want you. You never know until you try. Maybe you could give that hit out that your interesting in him. Do a lot of flirting and talking to him. I'm sure he'll get the hit by then. Then just maybe one day start up a conversation and say: We should hangout sometime, because I really like you. We could go to a movie or something. Then take it from there.
♥ Krissy

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Ok, so i am not cool with my friend going out with this girl i know. they are so not meant for each other. and my other friends like this guy too. I just don't understand why he has to be such a sweetie. it's so complicated! what am i supposed to do?

You should talk to your friend and tell him how your feeling. Tell him that this girl and him aren't meant to be. But if he decides not to listen to you, you can't make him. Maybe he really likes this girl and that is why he's with her. Try to give this girl and your friend a chance together. If she breaks his heart or anything, he'll have to learn from it. That is what crushing it always about.
♥ Krissy

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ok.... so there's this boy who i THINK fancies me. We hang out in the same group of friends and i've been to a few sleepovers with him, but the problem is he's in year 9 - 2 years younger than me. i'm a really youg in year 11 though so the age thing shouldn't be a problem. I'm not sure how i feel about him, but i'm thinking that i might like him... Argh i don't know what to do! if i do go out with him then people at school will start talking... i dont even know if i like him like that but im sooooo confused
help!

Maybe you could hangout with him, maybe go to the movies or the mall. That way you can get to know him better and see if you like him. People that are going to start talking just because your 2 years younger then him, need to get a life, seriously. You can't help who you like. If you like this guy, go for it. Don't mind what people say, their probably just jealous =)
♥ Krissy

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A few days ago..i had a small fight with one of my good friends which is cleared up now. However, during that fight..one of my more distant friends who gossips and gets into EVERYTHING said to the friend i was fighting with "oh dont worry, melissas always like that" (saying i get angry and have a lot of outbursts)This isnt true..and im sick of her getting into peoples business! I want to confront her because she talks behind everybody's back then when she talks to you face to face she pretends everything is ok. I dont want to start an arguement..but this is just annoying me. She gets involved with everything!!!!!! How should i confront her..or should i not confront her?

Confront her, but just not now. Maybe next time she gets into peoples buiness, you could confront her. Just tell her that you don't like it. You don't get into her buiness so she shouldn't get it to others buiness. Just say everything you want to say to her, don't hold back anything.
♥ Krissy

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Alright i recently got my hair cut to shorter then i ever had it before...kinda past my shoulders...and it's soo thinned out too but the point is my hair use to be where my boob was...around there and its about
------------------------------------------- this much. how long do u think will it take for me to grow it out again? my said a month but then again it's her...so please help! i've been depressed about this since wednesday! i'm never getting it cut at that place again. please help!

It make take awhile to grow, or it might take a short amount of time.. just depending on how your hair grows. Haircuts are good though, you always need to take off some of your hair. Then, your hair is heathy. It'll grow back, just give it time. =)
♥ Krissy

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Has anyone ever been in a depressed mood for no reason?

Totally. I think it's part of being a teenager. I'm always happy, but other times I'm really sad. I never have a "good" reason for being like that either, it just happens. Weird isn't it? It will pass though hun!
♥ Krissy

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I know that this might sound stupid but, today my mom was just telling me stuff that I don't know about my family, and she told me my sister got pregnant at the age of 21 (shes 28 now) and got an abortion, because she got pregnant not from being raped or anything, just with her boyfriends baby n stuff. I've been brought up to believe women have equal rights, and I have believed in abortions up until now. Knowing that I could've had a nephew//niece, and I don't because my sister got an abortion is really weird. I'm only 14, and I know I'm going to get a bunch of life altering situations, as this one. But, if my sister asks me one day if I believe in abortions, should I tell the truth, and say, no. or yes? Thanks.

You should tell her the truth. No need to lie about that. But, I can see where she's coming from to get an abortion. She was raped and she wasn't planning on getting pregnant. I'm sure she didn't want to have a baby with the guy that raped her. But even though you have to tell her the truth if she brings it up.
♥ Krissy

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I have a huge problem..im only 13 and weigh 98 pounds but i love to eat!! When i get home from school i eat like a bag of popcorn, some chips, and a salad just to make myself feel better. I excercise but not like a TON. and im healthy ..so whats wrong? I eat breakfast, then a snack, lunch, then a snack and dinner, then dessert. But, when im bored or sad - i eat. even if im not hungry..how do i stop this eating problem ?? =/

If you really think this will be a problem in the long fun for your health, try cutting back on the snacking. Eat a big breakfast so you won't be hungry until dinner. Or you could always eat a couple of little means instead of eating big ones all at once. That way you have time of burning off what you just ate.
♥ Krissy

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ok there is this guy...and i fell in love with him..but then he was really bogus...im not gonna tell the whole story..but lets jus say he "cheated" he told me he was sorry and i forgave him but then he did it again...ive been thru a lot of shyt because of him...should i forget about him? or forgive him adn give him one last chance?

This is totally your call. If you think he's good enough to have another chance, give it to him. You never know, he could have changed and will never cheat on you again. Everyone has to have chances to try to shape up. If he does anything that hurts you or cheats on you again, then I would think it's time to forget about him. No guy is worth your tears!
♥ Krissy

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My best friend Olivia invited me and this girl Whitney, her 2 best friends, to go get a manicure with her for her birthday. The only problem is that we're going on the 23rd, and it's the 14th, so i want to stop biting my nails but i don't know how-------any suggestions???????
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!$$$babiid$$$$$$

Use a rubber band. Put it around your wrist and everytime you go to bite your nails, snap the rubber band. Or, you could always go to a drug store and get this yucky nailpolish. It has this nasty taste to it, so you'll stop biting your nails.
♥ Krissy

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hi, I have this dumb problem.. with this compture. long algo I downloaded new beta msn messanger. and later then i can't able check my hotmail account. i try sign up new one. i went go ahead sign in still not work. when i go libaray or something I go check my hotmail. works. i want redown load msn back msn 6 but i can't. so any ides?

I had the same problem. I hate beta MSN Messanger. You'll have to go and delete everything that has to do with Beta MSN Messanger for it to download correctly. Once your done that, go to www.download.com and look for MSN 6 or 6.0 or anything above besides beta and click download.
♥ Krissy

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ive asked this question before but i have noooooo clue how to make an advice column and when i ask a question i dont know where to find it please help me ~~hollan~~

To make an advice column, you have to sign up. It's on the main page of this website. Once you made your advice colum you can make it all fancy and such. Just to the left hand side of this screen. There should be "Welcome, - Your advice column name should be here". Under it you have a bunch of things to chose from. Inbox; That's where the questions that people asked you go. Favorite Categories; This is your "best" topics that you like to give advice about. Your Advice Column; This allows you to view your column and see what it looks like. Your question; Their the questions that you've asked to other people. Favorite Columnists; Is peoples columns that you decided to add to your favorites. Edit Answers; Allows you to edit that answers that you already answered. Profile Settings; This is where you can write stuff about yourself that shows up in your column. Column Settings; This is were you can change the colors of your column. To ask a question you just to "Ask A question", and it is put out to everyone to answer. Or you could pick a column of your choice and have them answer your question. To find out if your question has been answered, just go to "Your Questions" and click on the question you asked. If you need any help, I'm here! Good luck.
♥ Krissy

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is it wrong to like ur boyfriends best friend?

I don't think it's right to like your boyfriends friend, especially his bestfriend. If your with him, you should like him. How would you like it if he liked your bestfriend? See, it's totally wrong.
♥ Krissy

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ok...I lost my virginity when i was 11...im 14 now..ive never messed around w/ anyone except one boy...but both of them boys i truly LOVED...does that make me a slut?...

I don't think your a slut. If you trutly love someone and you trust them, I'd wanna lose it too. 11 is kind of young, but only you could tell if you were ready. Even though, just because you did lose your virginity at 11 does not make you a slut.
♥ Krissy

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Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?

Yeah sure. I think it's possible to find "The One" at any point and time in your life.
♥ Krissy

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