about

I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

ok i really want a new sn but i dont no what to make it. I want something really origional and possibly lyrics to a song. I want it to make sence and not to be tons or words blended together. I like softball dance hollister the color pink and stuff like that. please send me as many things as you can thing of. Also my name is Devin and my xanga is xanga.com/sugarysweet89 if you wanted to no more about me for idea but i dont want it to be anything to do with sugarysweet89. also my lucky number is 8 and i was born in 89

H0LLISTERDANCER8
L0ViN x PINK 89 o0R L0ViN x PINK
S0FTBALLxBABE
EHX oOH DEVIN
SOL0NG&G00DNIGHT
HC0 x BRUNETTE
CALi x BREEZE
BRUNETTE SWEETIE
I H0PE TH0SE GAVE YO0 S0ME IDEAS! GO0D LUCK ♥//ALMA

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ok theres this one guy i really really like and he has a girlfriend. i told him i liked / loved him a lot! but he dont like me! wat can i do to make him like me! i went out with him before but hes soo hott i cant stop thinkin bout him! soo please help me!! wat can i do to make him like me? i rate high! thanxs alma

WELL YO0 CANT REALLY MAKE S0ME0NE LIKE AN0THER PERS0N.. BUT WHAT YO0 CAN D0 IS LIKE FLIRT WITH HIM AND IDK .. TALK T0 HIM GET HIM TO0 N0TICE YO0.. YO0 CANT REALLY DISIDE [SP??] 0N FAITH.. IT JUST C0MES AND IF ITS MENT TO0 BE ITS G0ING T0 BE AND N0 B0DY CAN//WILL ST0P THAT! BUT LIKE I SAID JUST FLIRT WITH HIM ! ♥//ALMA

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i herd that yu wear the color of yur thong the same as yur shirt is this true

HAHA WH0 DID YO0 HEAR THIS FR0M HAHA ! IT IS TRUE S0METIMES TH0 ! L0L !! HAHAH !! :-[ ♥//ALMA

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I wanna wear some gangsta ghetto style clothes where can i get them and wat brands and what should i get?? thanks a lot by the way im a male thx.

IM N0T S0 SURE IMMA ANSWER THIS RIGHT BUT ILL TRY UHM.. I THINK FUBU AND R0CAWEAR AND UHM.. U.S POLO AND EK0 [SP?] IS KINDA 0F THAT STYLE I D0NT THINK THERES ANYTHING ELSE.. BUT UHM JUST WEAR JEAN SH0RTS T0 LIKE YO0R B00TY HEHE AND WHITE TEES AND 0THER L0NG TEES AND S0ME BLING AND YO0 G0T IT L0L ! AND I THINK YO0 CAN GET THIS AT LIKE THE MALL O0R JC PENNEY O0R YO0 C0ULD LO0K IT UP 0NLINE! GO0D LUCK! ♥//ALMA

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What is that song on you xanga called, and who is it by? It goes something like "And I can make it on my own.............". Thanks!

THE S0NG IS CALLED OHIO IS FOR LOVERS BY THE HAWTHORNE HEIGHTS AND THE LYRICS R ::

AND I CANT MAKE IT 0N MY 0WN BECAUSE MY ♥ IS IN O0HI0 S0 CUT MY WRISTS && BLACK MY EYES S0 I CAN FALL ALSEEP 2NITE O0R DIE. BECAUSE YO0 KILL ME` YO0 KN0W YO0 D0, YO0 KILL ME WELL. YO0 LIKE IT 2, I CAN TELL YO0 NEVER ST0P UNTIL MY` FINAL BREATH IS [ G 0 N E ] `SPARE ME JUST THREE LAST W0RDS ," I L0VE YO0" IS ALL SHE HEARD. ILL WAIT F0R YO0, BUT i CANT WAIT F0REVER X|3

H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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is there any way i could loose some pounds before school starts cuz im fat im 13 5'4 and 130 pounds !! ohk thanksz ♥

WELL I ALREADY KINDA ANSWERED THIS QUESTI0N BUT 0K JUST KEEP A G00D DIET ; EXCERSISE REGULARY ; AND UHM YO0 SH0ULD BE FINE ! JUST D0NT LIKE ST0P EATING .. THATS N0T GO0D ! ♥//ALMA

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okaay im thirteen and iim 5'3 and 135 pounds .. school starting soon and i dont whant to be fat like i am now what can i do thanks

siqned ,
wishing i was skinny ♥

JUST EXCERSISE REGUALRY AND KEEP A HEALTHY DIET! AND YO0 SH0ULD BE FINE! G0OD LUCK ! ♥//ALMA

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ok on your sn you have a icon that ssays hardcore prep whats that mena ?

IT MEANS THAT IM A T0TAL PREP .. LIKE IM REALLY INT0 IT L0L ! H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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is it ok if your best friends mom wants to fuck you?

N0 H0W 0LD R YO0 ANYWAYS !? ♥//ALMA

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uhmmm how do i start well i never shaved my pussy and i was gonna have sex and de guy couldnt get 2 my hole cause it was all tangled so the next day i tried to shave it off and first i had 2 cut the hair so it didnt fall apart and it looked like a tupe in the toilet and den i still couldnt shave it off do you hav any ideas for wat i should do

HAHAH! THIS IS SAD.. I MEAN SERIS0ULY. I W0NDER H0W 0LD YO0 R ! ANYWAYS WELL UHM TRY USING SMALL SICC0RS T0 CUT S0ME 0F IT O0F THEN JUST SHAVE IT 0FF O0R HAVE IT WAXED O0F BY A PERFESI0NALL.. GO0D LUCK HAHA ♥//ALMA

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ok i went to gf's house and she had 3 friends over all really horny so i had sex wit all four of them and sumthin must have been wrong with my condoms cause they are all pregnant now and i have no idea what 2 do so help me out

HAHAH ! THATS S0 FUNNY ! ANYWAYS UHM WELL 0VIB0USLY IT RIPPED ! MAYBE YO0 WERE D0ING IT WAYY TO0 HARD BUDDY L0L !! BUT YEA YO0R 0NLY 0PIO0N IS TO0 BE A GREAT DADDY F0R ALL TH0SE BABYS ! O0H YO0R G0NNA HAVE A L0T 0F FUN! BUT SERIS0ULY C0ME 0N! WHATS WITH THE F0URS0MES N0WADAYS N0 0N D0ES THAT ANYM0RE HAHA ! YO0R BABYS MAMMAS C0ULD ALS0 JUST D0 T0 AB0RTI0N.. BUT THAT SH0ULDNT BE AN OP0I0N.. THATS SAD.. AWW.. ITS LIKE KILLING A BABY// WAIT IT IS LIKE KILLING A BABY.. AWW D0NT ! ♥//ALMA

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how do you make those heartsz is it like this ♥

YEAP ! ♥//ALMA

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i need help when you masturbate what if your parents walk in what do you say ? thanks ♥

WELL USUALLY YO0 WANNA D0 IT IN A BATHRO0M O0R WHEN YO0R AL0NE IF YO0 D0NT WANT ANY0NE TO0 WALK IN 0N YO0 BUT IF THEY D0 WALK IN 0N YO0 .. THEYLL ASK YO0 WHAT YO0R D0ING.. THE BEST THING IS TO0 TELL THEM THAT ITS HEALTHY F0R AND TELL THEM THAT THEY SH0ULD BE RELIVED THAT YO0 RNT 0UT THEIR D0ING IT WITH S0ME 0THER GUY.. GO0D LUCK ! ♥//ALMA

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hey...ok i heard somewhere that frozen bananas are rele good to pleasure yourself with...i was wondering if you think thats healthy and if not what is?...i also heard masturbating is healthy...thanx! much love!

I NEVER HEARD AB0UT THE BANANA THING BUT I GUESS JUST TRY IT AND IF YO0 LIKE IT THEN I GUESS ITS G00D L0L .. I NEVER HEARD0F THAT S0 I D0NT KN0W AND YEA MATURBATING IS HEALTHY F0R YO0! YO0 CAN ALS0 USE 0THER VEGGIES L0L .. HAVE FUN ! ♥//ALMA

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do u think a 7in cock is big for a 13 year old?

H0LD 0N I G0TTA GET A RULER AND SEE H0W BIG THAT IS HAHA .. UHM 0K.. IM N0T A GUY S0 I CANT LIKE TELL YO0 EXCATLY THE RIGHT ANSWER BUT UHM MAYBE ITS A LIL BIG.. I D0NT KN0W .. S0ME GIRLS LIKE THAT S0ME D0NT.. IT ALL DEPENDS 0N THE GIRL.. H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?

Thx

INVITE HIM 0VER T0 WATCH A M0VIE O0R JUST CHILL 0UT ! ♥//ALMA

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when you make out w. some1 how wide do you open your mouth ? where do you put your hands ? when do you kno when to stop ?? && when you are do you simply just move your tongue aorund in his mouth ?

O0K UHMM ILL G0 IN 0RDER 0F YO0R QUESTI0NS
- H0W WIDE.. THERES ACTUALLY N0 MEASURE
- YO0 C0ULD PUT YO0R HANDS AR0UND HIM O0R PLAY WITH HIS HAIR
- WHENEVER YO0 WANT T0 ST0P
- JUST START KISSING HIM 0N THE LIPS AND JUST G0 F0R IT O0R UNLESS HE G0ES F0R IT FIRST! JUST OPEN YO0R M0UTH AND USE YO0R T0UNGE .. ITS N0T REALLY HARD ITS PRETTY EASY YO0 CANT MESS UP A KISS
♥//ALMA

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ohk i need a good bday party idea !! itsz in october .. and ` i have lotsz of friendsz and somethiinq not gaay and lame and cheap !! loL

WELL YO0 CAN D0 A L0T 0F THINGS .. I MEAN A FUN 13TH BIRTHDAY PARTY C0ULD BE JUST A PARTY AT YO0R H0USE WITH A T0N 0F YO0R FRIENDS AND YO0 C0ULD PLAY LIKE 7MINUTES IN HEAVEN AND SPIN THE B0TTLE TRUTH O0R DARE HAHA .. ITS ALWAYS FUN I MEAN JUST D0 WHATEVER YO0R IN THE M00D F0R ! I MEAN THATS PRETTY CHEAP AND ITS N0T GAY O0R LAME.. WELL ITS N0T T0 ME. YO0 C0ULD WATCH A M0VIE TO0 .. PR0BABLY A SCARY O0NE AND A FUNNY 0NE .. YO0 C0ULD HAVE YO0R BEST FRIENDS AFTER THAT SPEND THE NIGHT AND WATCH S0ME M0RE M0VIES AND JUST HAVE A GIRLS NIGHT 0UT KINDA 0F A THING.. I PERS0NALLY LIKE H0USE PARTIES BETTER THAN I LIKE 0THER KINDS 0F PARTIES.. THEY R JUST TO0 MUCH FUN AND S0 MANY THINGS C0ULD HAPPEN! JUST HAVE FUN AND YO0LL HAVE THE BEST BIRTHDAY PARTY EVER! ♥//ALMA

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ohk im having i problem . my b/f wants me to makeout w. him and i want to but its my 1st time and im kinda nervous & confused cus i dunt kno how 2 . help me please

WELL ITS N0THING YO0 CAN PRACTICE F0R ! JUST KISS HIM AND USE YO0R T0UNGE I MEAN YO0 CANT REALLY UHM TELL S0ME0NE H0W T0 MAKE 0UT.. JUST D0 IT YO0LL HAVE FUN! D0NT BE NERV0US .. YEA I KN0W THAT A STUPID T0 SAY BUT JUST G0 WITH THE FL0W AND EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT.. G00D LUCK BABE! ♥//ALMA

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Hey! well my friend keeps telling guys that she had sex with some guy. & I told her that Guys will loose respect for her. & I talked to some of the guys she told & they think its not hot at all. & Maybe shes just doing it so guys will think shes unprude. & whenever i talk to her about it shes all like " NO OMG I ONLY TOLD LIKE 2 GUYS & I WAS JOKING" & ya some of the guys she tells like a day later she'll say like Oh just kidding. Im like..ya whats up with that?? & I dont think she understands how fast gossip spreads..Ya so what can i do to Help her stop?? & shes only 13!!! thanks! xox

YO0 NEED T0 TELL HER THAT THATS A MAJ0R TURN 0FF! AND SHES TRYING T0 GET ATTENTI0N .. W0W YEA "IM 13 AND IVE HAD SEX" YEA 0K THATS T0TALIE SLUTTY.. G0SH I HATE WHEN GIRLS D0 THAT .. THEY THINK L0SING THERE VIRGINITY IS SUCH A BIG THING ITS N0T YO0 SLEEP WITH A GUY O0R GIRL AND THATS IT - N0THING THAT BIG G0SH .. JUST TELL HER T0 GET 0VER HER SELF AND T0 ST0P BEING S0ME0NE SHE ISNT IF SHES N0T G0ING T0 ST0P THEN I BET YO0 CAN FIND A BETTER FRIEND .. BECAUSE IF YO0 HANG 0UT WITH HER S0 MUCH YO0LL GET DRAGGED INT0 HER BAD HABITS H0PE I HELPED ♥//ALMA

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