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so in a couple weeks my class is going swimming, and I have roughly estimated that I might get my time of the month then, it'll be summer so I cant just not go swimming, can I just use a tampon and go swimming?
any suggestions of what I should do?
I also cant take pills to make it go away.
Thanks:) (link)
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you can use a tampon just dont leave it in for a long time like change it every four hours.!
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i was just wondering does permenant marker attract the sun? like a sharpie? im going to the beach tomorrow and i want a star tattoo, you know, like when people go tanning and stick a star sticker on them and--yeah.
well the sticker will come off with all the water and such so i was going to draw one on with marker and i want to know if that would work?
would it block out the sun from my skin?
thanks!!! (will rate)
xxx (link)
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of course i did it last year and it worked!!!
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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more (link)
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its obvious on what you have to do. break up with the other guy. he has cheated on you and people don't change if they did then you would be a happier person correct? he does not have a say in weather or not if you guys can break up. its time to move on and start being happy again.
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k i want to do some thing cute for my one month only cuz hes my first real bf end same with him so any cute but simple and not expensive gift for him??? thanks (link)
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a kiss on the cheek or if thats like to cheap or w.e idk try giving him a chocolate in a shape of a heart like a small one though its cute and shows you were thinking about him.
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SO theres this great guy who i really like (14/f). Hes amazing and I've liked him forever but my friend has this thing for him and he kinda had a thing for her and they went out for a while. He made out with her and she was his first. Well i really like him and i think i might have a chance. Now heres the difficult part. Theres this great guy who i think of as an amazing friend that i never want to lose as a friend. He comforts me when im scared (hes a big guy and beats up any kid that is mean to me) and i love him. LIKE A BROTHER. nothing more. So he likes me, and i found this out from people. Now i cant even talk to him! I'm too afraid and i don't want him to like me but i don't want to hurt him! So should i tell him i know? or just let him get over me? OR WHAT?! ah i want to try to move on with guy one but guy two is too important and i don't want guy 1 to get over me. what should i do? thanks for reading (link)
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well i say you cant just autamatically think what someoene else says is true cuz it mite not be ya. so if he confronts you and says it then you just say i see you as a best friend im srry. i love you but not that in that way. hell get over it and just act like you dont know becuase if you ignore him then he will know that you know and you just hurt him more then if you say what i said.
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my friend jenn has been dating this kid eric for a year and a half now, shes liked him since like 7th grade (were freshman now) well in the beginning i didnt like him at all, i thought he was rude. she got mad at me and we didnt talk for a long time. well jenn is a really good student, class officer and normally awesome grades and AMAZING softball player (just made varsity as a freshman, only one) so school means a lot to her. eric's mom over rid the teachers reconmended levels from 1's and 2's to all level 3's (which is the most work and for hardworking and "agressive" learners) he shouldnt be in level 3's it is to much for him. he doesnt do his homework and now jenn is getting fed up with it. she always says do your homework. she told him "im going to put as much effort into this relationship as you do to your schoolwork" that didnt work. they "breakup" kinda under the scenes, like no one knows about it cause its like a day or 2 and that wont work. so this past weekend we went to friendlys me her and eric and somehow we started arguing about schoolwork. we spent 2 hours like yelling at him "not yelling just arguing and lecturing" he doesnt call her to say goodnight anymore and that bothers jenn, obviously and he sleeps all the time, i gave him suggestions and he just rolls his eyes (it sounds a lot worse than it really was) so after all that and even some tears we thought we got through to him. well we were wrong. he came to school today and nothing was finished. i yelled at him and so did jenn and they got in a fight and sometime throught the day they broke up. like now people know and jenn was upset (not those girls standing in the hall surrounded by a million people. just a few tears.) and she made jokes about it, so i know shes okay but should i
-talk to eric
*if so what do i say
-not do anything
-try to get them together
-how do i help jenn
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maybe theres something else going on with eric it doesnt seem that hes just not doing his homework. and its really none of your buisness now that you got in the way they broke up im not saying its totally your fault but kinda is and your friends b.c you shouldnt push ppl if they are going to not do thier homework then let them not do it its their fault not yours and they suffer not you. or her. i say stay out of it for the best.
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I'm 16/f
My older sister is almost 20, still living in our parents house, un-employed, and about to quit college. My dad doesn't really say anything about it, but my mom is now heck-bent on me going to a top-notch college, getting a job as soon as possible, and all the things I want to do socially with friends doesn't even matter. I understand that they don't want me to end up like my sister, but I find it unfair. They were never this hard on her, and let her decide. Heck, she didn't even get her drivers license until last year! And now it's gotten to the point where they are catering to her every need and pushing me out into the world without warning. With that said, How do I talk to my parents about this? I want to do all of these things (drive,work,etc.) but at MY own pace.
Thanks,
AngryYoungerSister (link)
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o i know your situation well! to start your parents basically messed up on your older sister and there is no chagning her now its to late. so they are trying to fix the mistakes on her to make you look like the perfect one yet you are not happy what you do is say i dont feel ready for this yet im still 16 and want to go on my own pase if that doesnt work rebel rebel rebel your a teen its expected what can they do nothing really.
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okay. i'll make this as short as i can. 16/f. i want to break up with my boyfriend of 3 months. he has no respect for me, he cheated on me and all he ever wants to do is makeout. he's also really pushy on sex. the only inhibition that is keeping me away from breaking up with him..is the fact that i'll feel really crappy after i do so. i've broken up with him before and i've taken him back. i can't take the crappy feeling of jealousy and heartache after breaking up with him..i don't think i can. what can i do? he's my agee (link)
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have him break up with u. if he wants to makeout just be like i dont want to keep doing it say you want to talk be annoying! but not to much so he tells other guys why they shouldnt go out with u
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Recently i saw my bf penis and its really bent
when he gets an erection he's insecure about it is it normal? (link)
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well of course im sure if your boyfriend was staring at your vagina wondering why he cant see you orgasm then you would feel the same way and cant perform!
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I'm a freshman, 15. All my friends are having sex with their boyfriends, I want to have sex with my boyfriend...but I'm scared you could say of getting pregnant, there are so many risks.. But I really wanna do it. Am I too young? Should I do it, cuz I do love my boyfriend alot? I'm just so confused. (link)
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pregnancy shouldnt be your only worry there other things like stds and what not and if you are thinking in the secne of the future. your future husband rite would you like to tell him how many people you had sex with at 15 or tell him i waited for you cuz i loved you when i was 15 and now. i assure you that it will break your heart that you didnt wait. just really think about it. are you ready because your friends "are" or are you ready becuase you know this is they guy your going to marry and love for the rest of your life.
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Okkay, Me and my boyfriend started dating like a week ago.
I think I already love him but im scared to tell him. Im scared because I think its too early to say it. Should I wait for him to say it or what?
Thanks. (link)
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wait fur sure b.c that could scare him off and he mite not think that you mean it and totally ruins that relationship even two weeks in it just doesnt mean the same ik your young but maybe your not feeling love you should deffinaltly wait a couple of months because you cant youse those three words like they are nothing and use them on every guy you think you love really think about it.
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ok ive been goin wit dis boy for about 4months and i love him and i lost my virginty 2 him so weve been havin unprotected sex.. but he takes out wen hez about 2 ejaculate but 1 time he was 2 late 2 pull out and i wanna kno am i pregnant? and does dat 1 time take enuff 2 get me pregnant? (link)
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ok precum can also get you pregnate and yes even that one time can too!
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Hey everyone,
I was "together" with a girl for over a year (meaning i never had the balls to ask her out). Then I actually asked her out and dated her for about 6 months. Out of the blue she decided that she doesn't feel the way she used to and she left me. 6 months later, I realize I still love her and she just wants to be friends. I don't know if I can handle being stuck in that frame of mind. what should I do? (link)
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there really is nothing you can do if the other person doesnt like you then how is a relationship supposed to work rite! but maybe over time when you guys start to hang out more and more you can tell her how you still feel and perhaps she feels the same way!
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why is cracking your knuckles bad for you? what are the effects? I do it a lot so how can I stop? (link)
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its not bad for people just say that so they dont have to hear the annoying craking sound its just air pockets between your bones. it doesnt make ur knuckles bigger of give you authorites
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ok my brother is in 7th grade and he is very curious. he always trys to look at porn but my mom always catches him. So tonight i turned on my laptop and a bunch of porn videos with boobs and stuff came up. I guess my computer died before it could get off the website. I don't look at porn but i am 100% positive it was my brother. also a website was up and it was a video game website. and i dont play video games. So my question is, should i tell my mom or not? i am thinking i should just so she knows he hasn't stopped. (link)
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well first the sibling code will be broken if you do that in a way you go to him you say you go on my computer again and youll suffer major consequences. its one thing to look at it on the family computer but when it comes to your stuff its a diff. story you know
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My dad and i get into many fights and i mean were im crying and her is yelling at the top of his lounges at me and ive gotton to the point where im extremly scared of him. I really ned help please help me!!!! (link)
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you need to tell your mom talk to him or her about it that it scares you.
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Heyy im a 14/f and i realllllllly like this guy.like the first time i saw him, i was like WOAHHHH.But i didnt know him at all.Only his name.So my friends all knew i thought he was super hot and all, and even though at the time i didnt like him, i just thought he was cute, they told him i liked him and stuff.and he said he thought i was cute and wanted to get to know me more. :D
So i was all happy and now its been a few monthes and we're like really close.
Like i KNOw he likes me.
When he texts me, he puts like " (link)
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well its really tuff with situations like this. if i were you i would take a HUGE step and ask him out. i dont think hes getting bored with you i think hes thinking that this is going no where so why talk to her. you shouldnt be one of those girls who throw themselves at guys for them to notice. be you thats why he likes you. i dont think hes going to reject you. so try it.!
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broke up with me monday night IN A TEXT MESSAGE !
I know its stupid... we have only been dating for like a month.. but I realllly liked him..
& I still like him but I know there is nothing I can do about it or try to get back with him, because now he wont even talk to me..
I havent done anything for him to do that.. My friend asked him why he broke up with me and he said "because im _____ _____ and i have too many girls in my life" The blanks is his name..
He never told me why he broke up with me.
Or give me any good reason.
& EVERYONE is asking him why, and he wont tell them..
Everyone says that I deserve better, & I know that. But I still really like him..
What should I do? (link)
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well really he was saying i want more girls hell soon realize that you were the girl for him and want you back but dont say yes hell just break you heart again you do deserve better thers nothing to do but find a guy better cuter for you.
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im a freshman girl, ive been in relationships before but only w/ guys my own age in like 8th grade were we kissed and thought it was a big deal. ive been flirting with this junior guy, (gorgeous and could get anyone) he called and asked me if i wanted to hangout last night so i had him over. lets just get to the point, we made out a lot, he felt me up, and i wouldnt let him do anythign else. I feel kinda bad, i dont like this guy really he's cuteee and so sweet to me (and when he met my parents). i dont think he's using me but im kinda using him i mean i dont love him or anything like that not even a crush. is this slutty? its highschool your supposed to have fun right? (link)
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well there is fun to a degree its only making out you guys didnt have sex and you didnt give him head or anything like that im glad you didnt have him do anything else to you and no that doesnt make you a slut in my book making out is no big deal i think. just dont do it with every guy you see and your no slut in my book.
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I was watching this show and a pastor of a church was on there and he said to streghthen or save a relationship you should have sexs for thirty days straight. I've only been on birth control for a little longer than a month and i was wondering if i had sex everday for 30 days will there be more of a chance of me getting pregnant? (link)
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well the birth control is never 100% protective so i guess there is a chance just be careful
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