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i want to break up but can't
okay. i'll make this as short as i can. 16/f. i want to break up with my boyfriend of 3 months. he has no respect for me, he cheated on me and all he ever wants to do is makeout. he's also really pushy on sex. the only inhibition that is keeping me away from breaking up with him..is the fact that i'll feel really crappy after i do so. i've broken up with him before and i've taken him back. i can't take the crappy feeling of jealousy and heartache after breaking up with him..i don't think i can. what can i do? he's my agee
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lose him.
when you usually break up you feel cruddy still but you have to and MOVE Onnn.
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if a guy dnt hav respect for you. you shuldnt hav respect for him. because he cheates on you and treats you like that because he knows that he intimedates you n oyu dnt wunt 2 break up with him. so if you show him that you dnt wunt him dnt more n dat you dnt care. u wuldnt feel bad. n he knows that if he cheat again you wont take him back. so good luck
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again good luck.
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I totally understand where you are coming from and have been there myself. It is really hard to break up with someone, even if you want to, because you always think about hurting them. But you have to think about you for a second. The guy cheated on you, pushy, and disrespectful and you deserve better than that. Before you decide to break-up with him you really need to decide if that is really what you want and think about what is best for you. Yes, it will be hard and it might hurt a little bit but you will both get over it and move on and probably be a lot happier.
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Well, with the way that you started off... If your objective is to "really" breakup with him anyways... Personally, I dont think you "want" to breakup with your b/f at all, but it rather seems like you "know" that you "need" to. Its not a thing of you "can't" its more of a feeling that you "won't". You are prolonging the compromise of yourself by the inactivity of not making a definite decision. You are holding on to him internally for some reason. Sometimes people hold on to really crappy relationships to fill a void somewhere. Only you would know what void he's currently filling for you..... Once you realize exactly "why" you're holding on, maybe it be a lil easier to let him go. Like you said... "he has no respect for you, he cheated (cheats), wants to consistantly makeout and have sex" with you when there are bigger problems at hand. All of which makes you feel crappy, jealous, and heartbroken. Being human and all... you may not "feel" like you can breakup with him, but please don't tell yourself that you don't "think" you can either. You'll realize that your relinquishing your personal power and self esteem for something that's not beneficial to you at all. Hope this helps.
P.S. Age has nothing to do with bitchassness and assholes. Its just a terrible epidemic of the mind. lol
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have him break up with u. if he wants to makeout just be like i dont want to keep doing it say you want to talk be annoying! but not to much so he tells other guys why they shouldnt go out with u
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