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she wont talk to me
okay so im a male and im 14 and i asked this girl out and she said yes but then shes like gotten all mad and i dont know if shes mad at me she wont talk to me when i try to talk to her. so i guess its my fault. any advice on how to fix this problem.
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hey how is is she whats her name e-mail taht to me and i can probly help u belevive me
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Well, knowing girls (since I am one), I would guess that you probably did do *something* that made her mad. Probably something that you had no idea would make her mad. Perhaps talking or flirting with another girl? Or not calling her or giving her the attention she thinks you should? Whatever it is, it might be something she really shouldn't be mad about... but for whatever reason, she is. Of course, you can't correct the situation if you don't know what it is.
So you need to tell her: "Look, I can tell you're mad at me for some reason, but I honestly don't know why. I want to fix the problem, but I can't if you don't tell me why you're mad. So please talk to me about it."
If she continues to act mad and won't tell you why, then unfortunately, it's probably best to move on. You can't have a relationship when there's no communication.
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wtf??? That has nothing to do with you... and if it does then tell her "you're not a mind reader either!". Don't stress her at all, and dont press to find out what's wrong, if she really wants you to know then she tell you but other than that gives her space to sort out whatever she's going through. Hope this helps
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Sure. Forget her and find someone else.
Really, if she's starting with the silent
treatment and guess why I'm mad routine
already, why put yourself through it?
Don't blame yourself. I'm sure you didn't
do anything. Even if you did, she isn't
saying. Let her know you are one guy who
isn't going to play games. :)
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