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Lover no longer


Question Posted Monday March 3 2008, 1:13 am

Hey everyone,
I was "together" with a girl for over a year (meaning i never had the balls to ask her out). Then I actually asked her out and dated her for about 6 months. Out of the blue she decided that she doesn't feel the way she used to and she left me. 6 months later, I realize I still love her and she just wants to be friends. I don't know if I can handle being stuck in that frame of mind. what should I do?


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m_howard_651 answered Monday March 3 2008, 6:02 pm:
oh my brother i know the feeling. im goin through somethin like that right now. but i've come to find out, not awhole lot you can do. it takes 2 people to make a relationship. but my best advice would be, suck it up, for awhile its goin suck. but you'll be alright in the end.

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sml111992 answered Monday March 3 2008, 5:11 pm:
there really is nothing you can do if the other person doesnt like you then how is a relationship supposed to work rite! but maybe over time when you guys start to hang out more and more you can tell her how you still feel and perhaps she feels the same way!

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Brandi_S answered Monday March 3 2008, 2:11 pm:
Best thing I can tell you is to spend time away from her until you can get your frame of mind straight.
I mean don't see her, don't call her, don't talk to her.
It's pretty hard to get over someone you love while still playing the friend roll.

Just be honest with her and explain why you are doing this so she doesn't get all hurt.

ygs-29/f

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mimzy3 answered Monday March 3 2008, 1:22 pm:
What is meant to be will happen. If she is your true love she will come to the same realization as you. There is nothing you can really do. If she really doesn't like you try meeting new people. You can find another girl that you like even more.

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