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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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OK, so I've started "seeing" this guy that I ADORE and this weekend he was away. Anyway i went out with friends to this bar everyone goes to, and this drunk guy basically grabbed me and starts making out with me! I told him no, but he wouldnt listen, and i kinda reciprocated for a few seconds before realising it was a mistake.

I feel really guilty, and its poss he could find out as its a bar where lots of people know each other.

I dont wanna tell him what happened, what should i do? thanks

Well if he finds out, just tell him there was nothing you could do about it. Tell him that it wasn't your fault the guy started kissing you, because you told him to stop, and he WAS drunk so even he didn't know really what he was doing. If he doesn't find out, you should still tell him because once he hears from one of your friends he wont trust you much. Just be honest and everything will be fine. If he gets upset with you, then he doesn't trust you, and if he doesn't trust you, then he shouldn't be able to go out with you. Good luck and tell me what happens

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im new with this whole period thing. ive had it for about 6 months. i was supposed to get it a week ago, but i didnt. i havent had sex or anything, is this normal ? Will i get it soon, again?

[ not like i want it anyways :-p ]

Yes it's normal not to have it regulary for the first one or two years. You'll get it soon.

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In the last week or so, my one guy friend started flirting with me. And on Friday he sat with me and my friend at lunch. He sat by me and kept flirting by me, but I wasn't really thinking of it as flirting cause I didn't think he liked me. Turns out that night when we were IMing each other I said something like who do you think I should go out with and he said me. And i was just like...? And he was like you know I'm serious didn't you notice me flirting with you at lunch today. Then he asked me out and I said yes. Like an hour later he IMs me right when I came back from being away and said hey (my name) i was thinking and I like another girl too. And I don't wanna be going out with you when I like another girl too. So sorry but i guess its over. Does anyone have any idea why he did that in the first place? Or if it was just a joke? Or what?

I'll rate for good answers!

Well he probably is afraid that if he likes to girls, he might want to cheat on you, so it's good he told you the truth about liking another girl. You could've found out another way, which would be him cheating on you, so I'm glad he told you before you actually went out. I don't think this was a joke, because a guy wouldn't do that unless he wanted a reputation as a jackass. Tell him how you feel about this, and see what he says.

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What is the BEST energy drink for me to buy?

Coke
Mountain Dew
Gatorade
Coffee

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should i carry a purse to a homecoming dance tonight?

Sure.

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could someone give me a list of rap/hiphop/r&b songs that have a fast beat or that would be good for dancing?

Lose Control-- Missy Eliot
Let's Get It Started-- Black Eyed Peas
1, 2 Step-- Ciara
Gold Digger-- Kanye West
Get it Poppin'-- Fat Joe and Nelly (I think)
Let Me Hold You-- Bow Wow

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ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥

I was in the same situation before, and it turned out this guy was just messing with my head and giving me mixed signals. If he has a girlfriend, just leave him alone, and no flirting anymore. It's okay to be friends, but don't get into a situation where he already has a girlfriend. I was there, and it wasn't a good ending. I told him how I felt, and he got mad. So please, for your heart's safety, try your best to find someone who isn't taken.

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I love Rock. like TAKING BACK SUNDAY!! their my favorite band. I have hazel eyes, my name is Rachael, and i need a new screen name! Please help. I rate 5's for all help. NO STUPID ANSWERS PLEASE!!! and by the way, please remember that AIM sn's can only be 16 characters long.

Hazel_Hunni_05

Rachael_Rocks_x3

Lovely_Lady_x33

Hazel_eyes_rock5

That's all I got..

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in your xanga where it says comments, hoe do you change it to say something else.if you don't get hwta i mean then just say so.







^^ That's the code for it. Where us says "Chage here" put in the word you want to replace the comment and eprop. Then copy and paste in into your look and feel on your xanga, in Website Stats.

http://www.xanga.com/redchevylayouts_x3 is where I got this code.

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ok well im not aloud to date n im 13 years old is that like to young to date i mean cmon i am not little ?????

No, you're not too young (in my opinion). I think thirteen and fourteen are good ages to start dating. Even my mom said thirteen is a good age, and fourteen is a good time to get your first kiss.

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ok this is a disgusting question, i know! but lately... i have been having issues w/ farting. I fart all the time, and I try not to, its gross and awkward! It even happens to me at school! It's so annoying! Is this normal, or what is wrong w/ me? is there something i can do? This is disgusting! Please help me!
i'm 13/f by the way
*i rate!

Don't eat beans, and try not to eat junk food because that can cause gas. It'll be really embaressing if you do it in front of people you don't know, so try to lay off the junk food the best you can.
Much love,
mystical_breeze

Beans, Beans, the magical fruit.
The more you eat, the more you toot.
The more you toot, the better it feels,
so eat your beans in every meal.

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I'm 16f and i need help with this girl. Last year i really liked her but things didn't work out for alot of reasons. She says she's not bi but she had thought about it. Lately she's been giving me a ton of hugs, massages, touching my arm a ton. I like it but it's starting to send mixed signals and i'm starting to like her again. I'm not sure if she's just being friendly or might be interested. One minute it's like she's interested, the next she's not. It's confusing me but if i brought it up, it'd be for the 3rd time in the last two years and i dont want to hurt our friendship. I dont want to fall in love with her and then be hurt AGAIN!!! I couldn't stand that. Should i say something or is there some way to definitely tell???? I'd appreciate anything!!! I'll rate 5's!!!

Okay .. thanks for giving me a three =/

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ok well i've had like these little white worms come out of my butt for a little while. i've bin too scared to tell my mom. i was planing to tell her tomorrow while we are going shoe shopping. but i dont know how to come out and say it. so how can i say this to her? and if there is away to get rid of them on my own can someone tell me how?

Crap... Tell your mom and doctor a.s.a.p. This could be serious if worms are laying eggs in your body and if it's spreading from person to person.

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Hey my friend said this to me the other day:
My boy friend and I and having fun together and well when i give him a hand job he is satified but i haven't really given him HEAD yet.

What does hand job and HEAD mean? I'll rate 5 for the first 3 answers!!!

It's disgusting...

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im lookin for sites that have dolls and other graphics. i mean like uniques, preps and glitter images. if you know ne gud sites let me know please.thanx

Raex33333333

http://www.thedollpalace.com

http://www.funwhenbored.com

http://www.starlightmks.com

http://www.carrielynnesworld.com

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Alright there is this girl i really like her she is funny and beautiful and all that good stuff but i don't know if she likes me to. Well i want to know what is the best way to go on about this.

If you're already friends with her (or at least know her pretty well) then ask her to come over your house or to a movie. I'm sure she'll be flattered to hear she's really funny and beautiful, but save that part for when you've been going out for awhile. You dont want to scare her, so just take it slow, but show how you feel about her.

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Hello...
i recently just broke up with my boyfriend.
now, i am a tom-girl. i hang out with ALL boys. and 2 of my best friends have a crush on me. my boyfriend was not okay with this... at all. he told me he broke up with me because he can't handle me hanging out with 2 boys (that like me) all the time. he just doesn't trust me. and he's already moving on. how can i make him see that i love him, and i only want to be with him? words aren't enough... and i just want him back.

Well he probably trusts you, just not your friends. If he actually said, "I don't trust you," then just leave him alone. In a relationship you need trust, and he doesn't seem to have that with you if he says things like this. If he just doesn't trust your friends... well that can also turn into a difficuilt thing. He might not want you hanging out with them, and if he can't accept your friends, then don't hang out with your guy friends when you're with your boyfriend.
Tell your boyfriend you love him a lot and want to still be with him, but also tell him that HE needs to trust you. You need respect from him, and if he can't give that to him, let him go.

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i like this boy what do i do (13) and he's (14) i rate 5's

Become friends with him first, and then once you've known eachother for awhile, flirt with him by smiling or complimented him once awhile. Compliment about anything he does, not everything, cause that would get annoying, but just a couple things. See if he flirts back, and if he does, ask him out. If he turns away or seems nervous, then just keep being friends and see what happens.

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Have you ever died and woke up to think you are alive?

Um people who have died usually don't wake up, and if they died and experienced this, they wouldn't be answering you right now.

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hey is it better to have sex for the first time with a virgin or an experienced guy

WTH? It's about love and commitment, not if the guy is a virgin or not. Moron.

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