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I need help!!!!
I'm 16f and i need help with this girl. Last year i really liked her but things didn't work out for alot of reasons. She says she's not bi but she had thought about it. Lately she's been giving me a ton of hugs, massages, touching my arm a ton. I like it but it's starting to send mixed signals and i'm starting to like her again. I'm not sure if she's just being friendly or might be interested. One minute it's like she's interested, the next she's not. It's confusing me but if i brought it up, it'd be for the 3rd time in the last two years and i dont want to hurt our friendship. I dont want to fall in love with her and then be hurt AGAIN!!! I couldn't stand that. Should i say something or is there some way to definitely tell???? I'd appreciate anything!!! I'll rate 5's!!!
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You have to understand that females in general can be very touchy feely. I hug, touch, push, alot. I am not attracted to females. If she thought about it in the past she might be trying to figure out for herself and even if you ask she may not be ready to answer. She might get frustrated with not knowing herself. I am not saying that you should not talk to her about it, but if you do decide to ask, then you should know that she might not be ready to answer. That could lead to some tension. Let her know that it was just something you had to discuss with her and that you will try to understand. No matter what the response. Patience will help.
Eva J
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Just ask if you could talk somewhere privately like a little cafe and then just ask if her if she had any feelings for you. Then if she gets mad at you for that that means she wasn't your true friend in the first place.
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