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i cant do anything right with my dad. he acts fine around my mom and when im with my sister but when im alone with him, whatever i do he gets mad at me and blows up and screams and yells. when i call my mom at work to ask her for a phone number or to ask where something is he screams at me, then when i try to tell my mom she says no he would never do that...lalala. i dont know what to do anymore. it really upsets me because i just want his approval but im afraid to tell him to stop. hes thrown things before, not at me, but like thrown a lamp and a carton of clementines. i dont want him to do it again. what should i do to get him to approve of me?
First, tell your dad how much his approval matters to you. Second, realize that this is his shortcoming, not yours. You should not feel as if you have to search out the love of a parent, but obviously he is making you feel insecure. You are going to have to take the plunge and bring this up when the family is sitting at dinner, or something like that. Think about what you want to say first, and try to do it in a way that isn't going to put him on the defensive because then he will just close off and not bother to listen. Start it off with something like, "Dad, I love you, but I always get the feeling that I just annoy you. I want your approval, and I want harmony in this family, but I feel like I can't do anything right in your eyes." Bring up a couple of situations that he flipped out. If he gets defensive and starts to yell, deny, whatever, realize the conversation isn't going well and give up on it for the time being. however the conversation goes, your mother will have to start thinking about what you said. If all else fails, remember like I said, it is the parent's resposability to make a child feel loved and secure, and if he is coming up short it is his shortcoming, not yours. If you can't get a word in edgewise, a letter is something they can't interrupt.
Hey,okay this might sound really pathetic, but recently I was talking to this guy who is friends with a guy I kissed randomly at a night club before.
The guy i was talking to told me what the guy i kissed said about it he said "it was shit"
so now im really worried that i could be a bad kisser..! I havnt had anyone say anything before as far as i know i dont use too much tounge or bite or do a washing machine on it and i put alot into it. what else could i be doing wrong?
should i be worried? or could it be just the guy saying this in spite because now were not really friends. it has me feeling kinda self concious! and the next time i kiss someone it will be at the back of my mind. anyone any advice?!
First of all, the "it was shit" is taken out of context. He could have meant that it was just a kiss, so it wan't a big deal.
But....kissing..
I think the most important thing about kissing is you don't want it to get sloppy. You have to take a good swallow every so often. Too much saliva is a turnoff. Some of the best kissers have very little tongue action and a lot of lip action. If you take his top or bottom lip in between your lips (which is also a god time for a swallow), it can be far more sexy than tongue. When you do involve the tongue, keep it slow and don't put it really deep into his mouth. Make him come searching after your tongue. Enjoy the kiss rather than analyzing your performance. If you are focusing your energy on other things, he will feel your hesitence. The best kissers are those who are having a good time enjoying the sensation. Think about nothing else but the way the kiss is feeling at that very moment, and he will do the same. Another thing, your hands...It is sexy when you run your hands through his hair, over the back of his neck, even pull his hair a little if you want to take control.
i don't know why but i don't really have any guy friends. i'm 17 (female) and guys barely talk to me. when they do i'm not really shy or anything but the guys i hang around just never have anything to talk about so our conversations are brief. i dont really have a crush on anyone but i do find some guys at my school attractive/i would hook up with them but i don't know how that would ever happen. i dont feel like any guy would ever want to hook up with me... but i don't know why. i'm pretty "normal," not ugly or anything, in shape, good sense of humor, and i have a pretty wide circle of friends. i'm nice to everyone and i don't talk badly of anyone... im not clingy to guys either. i really need help, im woried about even getting a prom date!
I am going to only focus on the guys you think are attractive. Pay attention to them, watch how they interact with other people. Are they funny and loud, or serious and quiet. Once you start actually watching (without coming across as a stalker) you will be suprised at how much you will learn about them. Don't bother with the ones that you ultimately find obnoxious, but there has got to be one guy out of them that you become even more interested in once you pay attention. Then-and here's the hard part-you are going to have to put yourself out there. Guys are just as nervous as girls when it comes to asking people out, and the fact that you aren't clingy gives them nothing to go on. You don't have to be clingy or even flirtacious, you just have to show a little interest. Pick the guy that you like and show him a little interest to give him something to go on. I bet he will be hugely flattered, especially if you aren't the kind of girl who normally flirts.
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I'm a virgin. Is it REALLY that important to lose it to someone you love? I don't plan on falling in love anytime soon. My first kiss wasn't special. It annoyed me at first. My second kiss wasn't special either, but I found the guy attractive and realized that was perfectly fine with me. I'm not about to go have some unsafe rendezvous with a stranger or anything, I'd just like to know.
You don't have to be in love with the person you lose your virginity to, but it is really important that you trust them to respect your feelings. When you have sex with someone you would be surprised at how much your relationship can change, and a lot of people end up wishing they waited because of all of the drama that happened after. The person who you choose to have sex with should know ahead of time that you are a virgin, and you should be able to feel that they think it is just as big of a deal as you do.
I have a thing with a boy. How do I get it to go from casual to serious relationship? Im 15 hes 16
If you like him, you have to find out how he feels about you. The problem is, if the two of you have a good friendship, you could be making things uncomfortable if you tell him you like him and he doesn't feel the same. The best thing to do for now is to listen when he's talking, and maybe be a little flirtacious with your eyes, etc. Start calling him and talking about more serious things like the future, or your morals. If he doesn't get the message you might have to come right out and tell him how you feel. If the two of you have already been messing around, pull back a little, and when he asks why, tell him that you are looking for something more.
For a while now it seems like my life has been on pause. Nothin is happening to me, im not saying im sad, more like bored with life. Im very active though, im training to fight, i workout whenever i can, work every day, hang out with friends almost every night. I dont have a girl friend but that only leads to pain and hate in the end. I have a few girls that i like and talk to very often but it seems like id give them up in a heart beat for something more.Its not that i dont care about these people, it more that im waiting for something. Does anyone know whats wrong with me, because i have no clue what i want or need anymore?
You have to read the book, "Oh The Places You'll Go," by Dr. Seusse. And remember, there is no pause button. Your life is going on, and it is all about your point of view. It seems as if you have ambition and asperations, and maybe you are growing up a little, so all of the fake things that used to pass are no longer satisfying. The absolute best way to change your life is to help another. I know it sounds cliche, but if you were to mentor a kid, maybe help them learn to fight, or do something else that helps out another person, you will get more out of it than you can imagine.
okay so if i wanted to make my down stairs tighter and like smaller..
a) is that possible?
b) is there any exercises to do this?
c) no i'm not a slut by the way.
Thank you everyone for you help!
It is called the Kiegel (not sure how to spell it) excersize. Basically, you pretend that you are stopping the flow of your urine. Hold it for a few seconds, let go, do it again. You can do this any time because noone will know. This will not make your vagina smaller, but it will make the muscles stronger, which has basically the same effect. The vaginal walls are muscles, so don't overdo it, because they can actually get sore. If you do this excersize every day, it will work miracles.
For a long time I had a friend who I didn't know so well and wouldn't see very often, who really liked me. He told me he liked me but at the time I really didn't feel the same way. In all honesty, I never thought I'd like him and I told my mom about the situation. I really cared about him and knew that he was really hurt because I didn't like him. So months went by. Then we hung out again, and I felt something small for him that day, but I denied it and tried to make it go away. Then we hung out again. My best friend was with us too but she had to leave early. After that I was alone with him for a few hours. It was awkward at first but we started talking and I felt connected to him. I feel like I started seeing a part of him that I had never seen before. That day I accepted that I liked him and told my friend. So after that we hung out more and I told him that I liked him. I went on a date with him and it was really fun! I mean I was really happy to be with him and everything. So a few days ago he asked me out. But today my mom was talking to me and she brought him up. So she knows something is up with us because we are together a lot now and she basically told me that I should only do something because I want to and not because someone else wants me to. She went on and on and now I'm doubting my feelings for him?!?! But he couldn't have convinced me to like him right? How is that possible? I don't want to doubt my feelings for him but I can't have a boyfriend when I'm not sure how I feel about him. Maybe if I explain it to her I'll feel better but I don't know. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.
Every single relationship is so because one person convinced another person to like them. Tell your mom that you weren't really attracted to him physically, but the more you got to talking to him, the more you realized that you really liked his personality. your mother will appreciate the fact that you are getting more mature and not only going for looks. If you aren't really sure about your feeling for him, let him know that you are a little confused. Tell him that you really want to keep things light right now, and you're not into putting a label on your relationship, and you want to get to know eachother a little bit better.
how to help my kids become tall whereas me and my husband both are short
The advice you got is good, but height is one factor we can't control. Tallness is a dominant gene, meaning that it is likely that if there are tall members of your family their genes will kick in and give height to your kids. Smoking while pregnant can hinder your kids growth.
I am 17, My son's bio father is 18 (John), My fiance is 19 (Nate) and my son is 2.
I am going to first list the reasons why my son's bio father isn't allowed to see him.
*When my son was a baby baby he never woke up with him in the middle of the night he just ignored him.
*I have a police report filled against my sons fathers father for saying he was going to preform a sexual act on my son.
*My sons father made the same comment and called him a BAS****
*We had an agreement of him seeing the baby every other weekend and him helping pay for diapers and milk, etc. and two months came around he never helped at all i was providing food and milk for my son.
*He brought him to my house after the weekend, snot running down his face, his feet were black and he was all sticky. thats when i drew the line. and stopped letting him over there.
*he tried to have his sisters jump me and take the baby the police told me to move so now instead of ohio im in missouri.
Which now he wants something to do with him son and trys to call my phone etc.
I am engaged and when married i want my son to have my fiances middle and last name.
I dont have regrets but is my reasons good enough reasons to why i am doing this to better my son. thank you for your advice!
PS. my fiance raises my son as if he is his own child, plays with him, feeds, changes him, calls him son, etc.
Listen, whether you want it or not, this guy is your kids father, and if you prevent the realtionship your son is going to blame you, instead of his father for it. He is only 2 right now, but he will go looking for his father one day, and if you are out of the loop, you will pay the price. The best thing for you to do is to take the father to court for child support. I have a feeling that he hasn't gone to court for visitation rights because he doesn't want to pay child support, and I know you think you don't need that jerk's money, but you really need to do this. First, a two year old doesn't really cost alot, but a teenager is a very different story. If your ex is a bad father, you will have the court to back you up. They will say that he can only have supervised visitation, or maybe they will say he can't see him until he has completed some parenting course. Either way, the whole time he will be giving you money to help out with the baby. If you and your fiance get married it is possible that he could adopt your son, but not unless the bio father says. If the court sets some visitation dates and the father doesn't keep them it will help you out because then you can show that to the court. You need to get the courts involved because if you just deny him visitation without backup it could make him look better in the eyes of the court. I know that you wish this guy would dissappear out of your life, but that is not an option. You are going to have to deal with it. Throughout your kids life, his father may hurt him by promising to come and not showing up, or all kinds of things. You don't want him to be able to say to your son, "I wanted to be a father to you, but your mother wouldn't let me," and if you keep things this way, your son will blame you for all of it. Get the backing of the court, get some money for child support. The longer you wait the more the court is going to look down o nit. The court feels as though child support is your sons right, and if you don't go for it you are denying your son his right. I know that this isn't what you want to hear, but it is what you have to do.
well my cousin recently seperated from her husband and went to live with her parents for a while. one day i call her up and she tell asks me to call him and tell him to call her since she ran out of credit on her phone. i call him and tell him to call her but it was already and we began to talk about something that happend a week before. i stayed at there house one night and i slept in there bed with them. i didn't have any intentions of anything but he kinda put his hand in a certain place and i didn't stop him, so on the phone we talk about it and he picks me up and i go to there house, but my cousin wasn't there since she stayed at her parents. so we have sex and i stayed the night. in the morning she drops in and he jumps up the bed and lucks the door, so i stayed trapped in there as she knocks and knocks and cries and yells for 3 hours and than he finally takes her to her parents and i sneak out. so everyone in the family knows he cheated, but they don't know its me. but i kinda think she suspects its me. :S i don't what to do? act normal? tell her the truth?
There are two things to consider here. First-does your cousin want to know? What happens if you tell her and then it just separates her more from her family and support system? This guy played you, so you should stay away from him as far as possible. A lot of times when a relationship is going down hill, a guy will use another girl in order to make his girlfriend/wife jealous so she won't leave. I'll bet that once she caught wind that he was with another girl, she came back to him to prevent him from being with someone else. They probably have a long history of playing games like this in their relationship, and unfortunately you got caught in the middle. You say that every one in the family knows what is going on, so you have to talk to someone about what your next step is. If you totally avoid it, you are going to look like you are the one responsable for this, and everyone is going to think they can't trust you with their husbands. Talk to a person in your family who knows the situation and ask their advice. If you have a male cousin, or uncle, or even your father, they might be less likely to judge you and gossip, where as the women might react differently. They aer probably going to tell you that you should come clean with your cousin. It would probably be best if the person you talked to could be there to mediate. Know that no matter what, the husband is going to try his best to make it look like it was all your fault, but he is the one who came to pick you up. When you do talk to her, try not to spend a lot of time defending yourself, because it will come across as if you don't think you did anything wrong. Admit that you made a huge mistake and got caught up in the whole mess. She is going to ask you some hard questions, and you are going to have to answer them honestly. Tell her that you are ashamed of your actions, and even let her know that some of it might be because you are a little jealous of her. Keep in mind that if she chooses to stay with this guy she is going to try to badmouth you and make it look like you are the one who seduced him in order to defend her decision to stay. This is why you are going to have to admit what happened to your family, and take responsability for your part. From now on, remember that when people are breaking up you should stay far away. Think about your relationships. Have you ever had a guy who was leaving you, so you try to make him jealous with other guys? This is what has just happened to you. Your cousins husband used you, and you don't want to be used by anyone. When people are breaking up it is a good idea to stay as far away as possible. I'm sorry that you are in this situation, but you are not a whore, you are just an innocent person who got caught in the middle of other people's games. I wonder why she called you to have him call her, I mean, her parents didn't have a home phone? Do your damage control with your family, and tell them that you feel as if you did the wrong thing, but you got caught up in the middle of a sick game. Good luck.
ok so... i'm not like a perfect kid or anything but I'm not a bad one either. I'm 18 years old and I don't drink, do drugs, have sex, nothing. I never have and I don't plan on it. My 15 year old sister on the other hand has been mixed up in just about everything. She even got a tattoo and tried hiding it forever. My mom used to get on her so hard when she knew she was getting high and stuff. It took a huge turn at some point and I just don't know where. She keeps everything about my sister from my dad and it makes me so frustrated. My sister has this 19 year old boyfriend we'll call Dustin. Dustin in 19 years old and a loser. He doesn't have a job or anything. My sister would say she was staying and then go to his house instead.. at first my mom cared and then she just like stopped. she would tell me and my dad she was at her friends when I knew the truth... and thennnn she had the audacity to let him stay here at our house. Well... about 2 weeks later guess who's pregnant.. yep.. my sister. They think they're ready to "have a family".. how can they have a family when neither one has a job or any source of support besides my parents. Dustin is in and out of jail and it disgusts me. My dad goes to sleep every night at about 8:30 and around 945 or so my mom goes to get her from Dustins and guess who has been coming with her every single night?! I know it shouldn't be my problem but it is. I don't feel comfortable in my own house an I get so stressed from having to keep it from my dad. Whenever I try to tell my mom how I feel it turns into how "I think i'm so perfect and how I build off of her screw ups" My mom always makes it sound like i'm a bad kid and i'm tired of it. I am such a good kid compared to her.. and not because I want to be better than her, it's because I respect myself...... please help me, I would appreicate it so much .
Isn't it messed up that the bad kid gets more attention than the one who is doing the right thing. First of all, know that your sister is in a whole lot of trouble right now. You think she's getting everything she wants, but I promise you, reality is going to come crashing down on her for the rest of her life. You truly should feel sorry for her, because she is going to be stuck with this loser for the rest of her life and she's going to have the responsability of a baby, to boot. Your mother's head is spinning right now. She knows what your sister is facing, even if your sister thinks this is all fun and games. I don't know why she is allowing this guy to spend the night in her home with her 15 year old daughter, or more importantly, risking family harmony by lying to your dad, but it seems as if your mother needs a reality check. You should talk to your mother and tell her that you don't feel comfortable sleeping while some near stranger who has been in jail is wandering around the house. I have a feeling that she is letting Dustin stay over because if she doesn't your sister will stay over there, and your mother is worried. She can't think straight because she is allowing a fifteen year old to call the shots. you could even research places that your sister could go. Some places have himes for unwed mothers that will teach them parenting skills, set them up in apartments, etc. Maybe your mother is going to have to let your sister go. I really feel for you, because you are stuck in a bad situation that you didn't cause, and you don't have any control. The only thing you can control is your own actions, and if it makes you feel any better, soon you will be off beginning your life, and your sister will be facing a lot of struggle. I know right now she is thinking about her wonderful family she is starting, but I promise you, her wake up call will come soon. In the meantime, her unborn baby is another totally innocent person who has less control than you do. Hopefully, your mother is trying to placate your sister so that she can get her the prenatal care she needs. Whenever you start feeling too sorry for yourself, think about that baby who didn't ask for any of this, yet is going to be born to a teenage girl who has nothing, and a father who is in and out of jail, and will probably continue the pattern. Think about how you are going to be the auntie who might be the only one responsable enough to teach this kid about life.
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Lately, it feels like my girlfriend is constantly saying hurtful and/or disrespectful things to/about me. And I can't tell if she's oblivious or not about how it affects me.
How do I make it clear that I still love her, but that what she says affects me a lot.
Say the things back to her. When she says something hurtful, wait about five minutes and say it to her in different words. When she gets upset, or hurt, tell her that is exactly how you feel when she says it to you. Alot of girls think guys aren't sensitive to that kind of stuff, so they feel as if they can say anything they want. Let her know that you are not a robot, and when she says mean things it hurts you. Also, most of the time a person will put down their boyfriend or girlfriend because they have a low self esteem, and they are trying to bring you down because they don't want you to feel good about yourself or else you might realize you are too good and leave. If your girlfriend does have a low esteem and she is saying things to bring you down, let her know that you get her game, and you're not down with it. Turn it around and tell her that she obviously doesn't think you are good enough for her, and if she wants to break up, she should just say so instead of hurting you all of the time. Don't be her punching bag.
"If you have it [ Love ], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, It doesn't matter much what else you have...",,,or so the saying goes. You see, I am in this relationship with a different nationality and religion as I am. We are both currently in a country where we are both expatriates. We've been together for more than one (1) year now. We both love each other, we have the normal quarrels that couples have. But deep in our hearts we love each other. We're like bestfriends where we can share each other anything, be there for each other no matter what. We have shared laughter and tears. But the thing is we both know that as soon as our visa expires and we are to go back to our respective countries, that would be the end of it. We both know it, its inevitable. It was hard for me to accept it before, until now actually, but slowly I have come to accept our situation. Thinking about our "doomed fate" made me feel a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Some of you might say, "then why the heck are you still in the relationship?!?". The truth? I don't know. I guess its something you can call L-O-V-E? Pretty stupid and lame huh? Or it could be I'm scared to be alone in a foreign country where you cannot trust everyone that you meet. Or perhaps because of the special bond I share with this wonderful guy. Deep inside I know I should let go before I fall too deep-in-love and later I won't be able to recover from the excruciating ache and grief...
Yeah, you could get out of it before you both have to leave, but what will that be saving you from? So you won't have the sad goodbye at the end, but you will still feel the pain of losing him, and then after it is too late, you will spend a lot of time wondering what could have been. Breaking up now isn't going to save you from all of the pain, it is only going to let you feel like you were able to control things. If you stay together until it is time to part, you won't have control of the situation, where as if you break up now, you will. I say, if you love eachother, continue the realtionship for as long as you can-even after you both go back to your countries you can talk on the phone, email, whatever. If you break up now the future is certain, if you stay together who knows what will happen?
what sbrush should i use to apply cream eyeshadow?
a concealer brush?
a regular "fluffy" eyeshadow brush wont work!! at least i doonnt hink so
Finger next to your pinky.
Okay...is it possible for guys to get an erection while they're...being sexual with a girl they have no attraction to? Like if they were hugging, the guy wouldn't...would he?
A guy can get an erection if a cat walks across his lap.
well for theater arts, me and a partner have to come up with a good skit. we are going to make a video of it and make it into a movie and stuff. but my drama teacher seems to hate every single idea we propose to her. i really need some good ideas that would be easy to preform in about 5-6 minutes. it can't have anything dirty in it. and maybe about 3-7 characters.
it needs to have a good plot and resolution.
thanks so much.
i would really like to get this answered by thursday. because we only have 1 day left so PLEASE HURRRRY!!!
thanks.
Teachers are all into things like public service announcements. Do a funny skit that sends a positive message.
Hi, I have a huge problem.. well I'm in the worst position ever! my boyfriend well [ex].. is going to iraq on may.. and I'm moving to PA on june. We had to break up because of the situation were in.. We recently started going out and we felt so close together, like its amazing.. and for once in my life, my life is actually settled I know what college I want to go to is culinary [I want to become a chef =)] I have a great boyfriend.. which he is very sweet and respectful. & I've I had my bad luck in relationships. but to get straight to the point. the reason why we broke up is because we don't want to get hurt in the long run. because we got so attached & close to each other.
he calls me baby & sweetheart everyday.. but I can't listen to that because I miss him so much and I want to be with him.. do you think I should tell him that " I don't care about the situation and that I want to be with him" or should I just leave it.. and wait to see what happens. and I know he misses me because everytime he sees me, he says all I want for the new year & christmas is for you not to move & stay with me.. it isn't fair.. stuff like that gets me thinking you know... I don't know what to do or say!
please help!!!!!!
by the way I'm 18 & he's 21. we've know each other for 2 years. but actually started talking around august and started dating september.
Wait a minute...I think you might be saying that you broke up with him because you like him. Don't punish yourself. You deserve to be with a guy that makes you feel good about yourself, so get used to it. Maybe he won't be the guy you're with forever, maybe he will, but either way you should be with him right now because you want to. Don't worry about the future, it will work itself out. The important thing is now, and you getting used to being happy.
Okay, so friend and I were friends with a now former friend for about three years almost. It would have been four if she did not blow her chances. A few months ago, she lost her temper with the both of us. My friend send her a package for her birthday in the Summer of last year. So this former friend got mad over that she had to sign it, but so what big deal? If you have to sign it, then sign it. Don't make a huge fuss about it, well apparently she did and she called us names for no reason as we didn't do anything wrong. Shes told us to stop writing to her(we were penpals before she did this) and said she would throw everything away if we sent her anything, etc. We have not send her well at least I have not send her a letter, etc since this happened. This really hurts. I mean, she never really got to know us over the three years we have been friends with her. We were trying to be good friend to her and all, but she blew it several times. She never got to know us or about us. When we were friends with this former friend of ours because all she cared about was herself and her constant rants about her past with her former boyfriend or her former friend(let's call her "Kate" to protect her real name) which she has done this for years, its like "move on already" She usually just bashes Kate and it's like "what kind of friend is this if she is going to just bash people and all and not get to know you"
She has constantly bashed us on various websites for no reason and most recently on another site we are all on. Again we aren't doing anything wrong to her as we are just going on with our daily lives and all. We have asked her to stop the bashing and all and she would for about a day or so and then she will go right back at it again and yeah we have given her plenty of chances to prove she can be a friend and all. She just doesn't and she just doesn't care. She goes on apologizing though but her sorry's don't mean anything because the minute she says "Im sorry" she is back at bashing us, etc again. If she really means she's sorry, then she wouldn't keep on bashing us and all. Everytime she says sorry though, she goes right back to bashing us again for no reason and yeah she even admitted she doesn't know how to be a friend. I mean, shes in her 20s and doesn't know how? Wow. That says alot. In an Instant message, she says she uses people to spy for her to see what we are saying about her and all and nope. None of our blogs and all say anything much about her at all. Also she likes sending people used stuff as she calls them care packages. Care packages are usually for people overseas and from what she sends, It's usually used stuff no one wants. She wastes her money on people, stuff no one wants when she should be paying off her debt an yeah she said she says she is in debt. Also most recently she does not reply to the blog topic because that is where we blog most, etc because everytime I post one or a friend posts one, she usually doesn't post to what the bog is about. It's usually about her or having us to ask her former friend Kate to talk to her and all and Kate bought this up. Kate, another good friend of mine and I don't blame her for not wanting to talk to this former friend because she bashes her too for no reason. This former friend says Kate should get beat up and get hit by her former boyfriend and yeah Kate is getting married sometime this year maybe to her current boyfriend. so yeah I don't blame her for not wanting to talk to her former friend and all. We have told this former friend to stop all this but she doesn't listen. Also we have told her many times to just move on from her past. Nope. doesn't listen. she doesn't like listening to the truth as she doesn't like the truth. She also makes up lies about us and it hurts and what's worse is the name calling and all. for no reason. And Oh yeah, since my friend and I have been sick she has been claiming to be sick too which everytime we are both sick, she says she is sick, so I think she's just copying us what we say and all for attention, etc. But what hurts is the name calling and the lies. We have not done anything wrong to her to deserve this as we all have lives. My friends both work, etc and I'm trying at least find a better job myself. People have told us and stated what this former friend is doing is wrong and we have been told to get an authority figure involved. I have her address but not sure how much anyone would help and all. So I dont think it's an option. So I would love some advice on this.
So any advice on this on what to do? Thanks
If this girl is writing damaging lies about you, you have every right to get the authorities involved. The defense to slander/libel (which is what she is doing) is the truth. If what she is saying is true, she can say it all she wants. If she is lying, it is an offense.
I work out a few times a week, and dread not being able to go the first couple days of my period out of fear of leaking.
Which tampons work best for an active lifestyle?
I think that all brands of tampons work about the same-even the cheap store brand. The difference is in the size. if you usually use regular, switch to super for the first couple of days. Also, if you use a thin panty liner when you are working out, nobody will know, whether you leak, or not.