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Q: where do i get those henna necklaces? you know..the cool ones that look like tattos on your neck that are black...is there anywhere that would be at a mall (such as claires or something)! i rate well!

no way but at the beach you can get them but you could probaly find them at cvs or something

Q: Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike

well i dont think it is that healthy to be ebsessed with any1 but i no how you feel. why dont you tell her that. try seeing her a couple of more times. if the same thing happenes i would go to a shrink they r not that bad

Q: me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways.

well i do he just thinks ur cheating on him. talk to your friends that is not his decision. if he cant trust you with that then break up with him he is so not worth it

Q: are there any home remedies that can get rid, or help treat pimples. I have some of that perscription stuff...but I'd like to try something new. I rate high. Thanks!

TOOTHPASTE truse me lol it WORKS

Q: my x-b/f tried to make me sneek out of the house to go over to his friends (to watch porn) w/ him and his hommie . he made the commentthat anything he say or he got his hommie would see and get. i alreaddy broke up w/ this boi but im scarred that he might try to rape me. what should i do?

as hard as this might be i would go tell your parents or write them a letter explaining this. or you can IGNORE this person and NEVER talk to him but u HAVE TO tell a grownup be careful

Q: okay well i like love my best friend, he means everything to me, but the thing is i dont wanna like him. i mean, he knows i like him, but he doesnt know how much. i like cant ever stop thinking about him, hes everything to me. i would give my life for him. i have a boyfriend right now, but i still love him. how can i get my mind off him?

lol i got the same problem. just realize it might not ever happen and you have to let it go

Q: I have a bunch of friends at school, but none of them have called me over this summer! I've invited a few over and we'll have a blast but they never invite me anywhere. I feel so left out, what do I do ?

well why dont you tell them that. and try hanging out with them more.

Q: My friends all turned on me and now im alone. It's cool sometimes but when something big happens or when Friday nite comes I'm lonely. I have a boyfriend to talk to and I still have a few friends that im not close with. What should I do?

well first of all try to find new friends and ask your old friends what you did wrong and when you feel lonely go out and do something like a movie with your boyfriend

Q: o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???

i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*

well this might seem hard to do but like call her and ask her like that you want to be friends and chane whatever your doing wrong it could also just be a stage shes going through or something

Q: I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean?

ok about the breaking up thing haha i have broke up with 7 out of 8 of my bf's lol. but really it is worse for your friends to break up with them. what you should do is go up to him in his face and say (NAME) you are an awesome friend but that what i want to be JUST friends. that might be really really hard for you but thats the only right way to break up with him. ~JORDAN~

Q: I want to really straighten my hair, I have a vidal Sassoon, and a black revlon straightener. I also have the Got2Be straightenin serum but I still cant get it all that straight.
Can some one please give me some step-by-step instructions on how to really straighten my hair?
I'll Rate BunChezZ!

ok i will but first of all let me tell you DONT STRAIGHTEN YOUR HAIR i got addicting to it for a year and it ruined my hair so i had to get it cut. seriously it is bad but firt of all you need a REALLY thin straightner that you can buy on ebay for like $20 so first of all just take little strands of hair and straighten it one by one and also make sure that your hair is dry before straightening it because if it is wet it will burn your hair. and after you straighten your hair use a shampoo and conditioner like pantene proven because it will work better. hope i helped ~JORDAN~

Q: why dose it seem like my bf dont really like talking to me? he seems like hes mad.?

ok he is not mad. this happenes to the best of us. he is just nervous and waiting for you to talk to him. if he has talked before to you and just suddenly stopped talking to you he might think that he wants to ask you something but is to imbrassed try talking to him.

Q: Say you are thinking about someone, and about whether there's any chance they still like you or will ever talk to you again....then a big truck comes past with their name on it in Big Red Letters...and you get stuck in traffic so you can constantly see their name next to your window...
Would you consider that to be a sign?
And what would it MEAN?

well if there name is a name that is always on trucks then no i would not condisder it to be a sign. but if it is an uncommon name like FANCHESCO lol then yes or course and there is always hope. but why not try talking to him/her ~JORDAN~

Q: ok, i need a good voice mail to put on my cell phone, i don't want to use the old "hey you've reached ______, leave me a message and i'll get back to you" if anyone has any good idea for one, please help! i'll rate high!!!

well this one is my favorite "hey how are you i have been missing you" and then they talk thinking it you haha funny rite then you say "well actually i dont know who you is because this is a message machine but leave a message and i will get back to you who ever you are soon" isnt that great lol yeah if you dont like it no prob. idk ~JORDAN E~

Q: ok i want to put highlights in my hair with the lemon juice.... could i just get a lemon and put juice on my fingers and streak that on my hair and lay in the sun? im confused!!! help!!!
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well no because i have been doing the same thing. i am really good friends with this AMAZING hair dresser who just told me to put lemons in my hair just sqeeze them around your head and it will ng out your natural highlights. it worked for me cause now i have dirty blond hair. hope it all works out ~JORDAN~

Q: What the hell is a break...I am a 16 year old female and my boyfriend(or w/e hes called at the moment is 18) and he said that i hurt him (inside on this is that...we were talking and he said i dont trust him but i really do trust him i just made a joke after he said it saying i didnt), and that he really wants things to work, but we are going to go on a break for this week and then talk and see where we stand as a couple and what we want to do about the realtionship. Im really hurting, i cry all the time, and i want to stop...what should i do to stop the pain? What is a break? and how can i save the realtionship?? GUYS HELP PLEASE

well a break is just a period of time where you guys dont really see each other and take a BREAK of each other. there is not a lot you can do about the pain just try to forget about it and remember you didnt break up your just not seeing each other for only a week dont worry it will pass soon. ~JORDAN E~

Q: i've recently become a vegitarian. my mother is worried that i wont get enough protein, what are some foods that i can eat that contain protein (besides meat, obviously)?

well to tell you the truth there are not a lot of foods. but my cousin is a vegetarian and she eats a lot of beans. also even though its not protein eat vegetable. but to be honest i would not be a vegetarian if i were you because it is bad for you and no effense but there is nothing you can do about these animals even though we all feel bad for them ~JORDAN~

Q: i dont want to choose between my friends bc i love them both. i have 2 of the closest friends in the world. if i do something with one of them, the other one will get mad and say "oh well your leaving me out a lot and i feel left out" and all that and then i go over to the other one and hang out with her for like 12 minutes b4 the other one comes over and says "oh well your leaving me out a lot andi feel left out" so i do things like go to the movies with both of them and if i lean over and say something like "this movie is awesome" the other one will be like "YOUR LEAVING ME OUT AGAIN! WHAT ARE YOU SAYING TO HER?" so i talk loud so they both can hear me and boom...."DID YOU SAY SOMETHING TO HER THAT YOU DIDNT TELL ME?" and im like "NO!" so.....this goes on and on and on and on! im tired of it! I love them both to death but they are sooo annoying!!! I always do things with both of them at the same time and they just keep nagging me!! helpppp.

yes i have the same problem. first of all that means both or your bff's are not friends. so you should have a sleepover play truth or dare get to know each other. share each other secrets. you guys will then feel more comfortable. also you should hang out sepretaly with your friends one at a time and then when the other one comes over to say the are being left out say "i just need some time with my other friends" do it like to both of them and tell them how you feel. it worked for me it will work for you. hope i can help ~JORDAN E~

Q:
theirs this boy and he wants to go out with me for the 28th time.i really like him but i jus know he is gonns dump me again for a dmumb reason. i dont know what to do.
help me!

28th big # well i think you should give it one more try but this time beat him at his own game and dump him. dont talk to him for a while (a week) see if he still wants you back and if he does go out with him it will all end up ok ~JORDAN~

Q: I have 16 fat, ugly pimples on my face. I wash my face 3 times a day but nothing works. Anyone have suggestions?

first of all dont wash your face 3 times a day just in the morning and night. i no how you feel cause i used to have the same problem. a would suggest a soft wash like clean and clear morning burst by jhonson n jhonson and put a light face mask on 3 times a week but if that dries out your skin only 1 time a week. you want to use acne treatment that you can put on your face when you fall asleep but remember nothing to strong. if that dosnt work then just go to a dermatologist. now my pimples are gone YAH it takes time but eventually they will go away dont worry. ~JORDAN E~

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