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i dont want to choose between my friends bc i love them both. i have 2 of the closest friends in the world. if i do something with one of them, the other one will get mad and say "oh well your leaving me out a lot and i feel left out" and all that and then i go over to the other one and hang out with her for like 12 minutes b4 the other one comes over and says "oh well your leaving me out a lot andi feel left out" so i do things like go to the movies with both of them and if i lean over and say something like "this movie is awesome" the other one will be like "YOUR LEAVING ME OUT AGAIN! WHAT ARE YOU SAYING TO HER?" so i talk loud so they both can hear me and boom...."DID YOU SAY SOMETHING TO HER THAT YOU DIDNT TELL ME?" and im like "NO!" so.....this goes on and on and on and on! im tired of it! I love them both to death but they are sooo annoying!!! I always do things with both of them at the same time and they just keep nagging me!! helpppp.
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Get them both together. Sit them down and tell them you are no longer going to play this childish game tell them to Deal with it! If they can't go along with that then tell them tough. You are no longer going to repeat everything a million times just so one feels she isn't missing something. Make sure they both hear you clearly. :)
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yes i have the same problem. first of all that means both or your bff's are not friends. so you should have a sleepover play truth or dare get to know each other. share each other secrets. you guys will then feel more comfortable. also you should hang out sepretaly with your friends one at a time and then when the other one comes over to say the are being left out say "i just need some time with my other friends" do it like to both of them and tell them how you feel. it worked for me it will work for you. hope i can help ~JORDAN E~
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have all three of you tried to be friends? look, if they really cared about you, they wouldn't drive you nuts like that. honestly, they seem to be acting like a bunch of babies. i mean this isn't kindergarden. tell them to grow up. its ok to have more than one friend. i'm sure they have more than one friend too and you don't bug them so tell them to stop bugging you!
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I definetly know how you and your friends feel! I've been in both your position and your friend's position before and I know what you are all going through! Try inviting them both to a sleepover and talking with them. Tell them they shouldnt feel left out if you tell one of them something because it would never be about the other one, because you love them way to much. If they care about you, their friendship with you, and one another, they will understand that this nagging cannot go on! Good luck =D
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