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my boyfriend and i had been together for more than a year. we broke up a couple of months ago. now, he has a new girlfriend and he deliberately rubs it in my face. he`s awalys like "i`m the luckiest guy alive." he`s also had parties and invited almost everyone but me. i still have a lot of feelings about him but i don`t know if he feels the same way. what should i tell him and what should i do?
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aw hun i'm sorry, but you know what, show that your a strong girl and can handle this breakup and when he rubs it in your face dont get upset or anything. i know youll still have feelings for him for a while, but its nice to move on and find that guy who would make you say 'im the luckiest girl alive' too! well, still tell him that you have feelings for him and its not that easy to just let go of him, but still go see other guys. x0 Renee
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I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
-moms boyfriends a jerk
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omg, its the same thing for me too! my moms bf is a total jerk and i dont like him, i tell my mom i dont but im still nice to the guy because i know that my mom likes him and im thinking of her not myself. you shouldn't cry because of this one guy, and i dont think moving in with your dad is going to make anything better between you and ur moms bf. try to like him, give him a chance, hes helping your mom being a single parent and your mom likes him, give him a chance! xox Renee
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help! (link)
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you might have just skipped a month which isn't a bad thing, it happens to most people, but it sure gives you a scare! always use condoms and maybe you should go on birth control if you guys get really serious about being sexually active. keep taking the preg. tests until you get your period, their not that expensive, hope you get it soon! xox Renee
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when me and my bf fool around, it makes me feel so good...the slightest thing he does to me makes me orgasm..this turns him on...ALOT..and im beginning to think that hes using this to his agvantage..i dont really mind cause he deserves it too...im wondering whether or not to take it one step farther and have sex with him... everything else he does to me is wonderful, so why wouldnt sex be??? does anyone know if this is a good idea?? (link)
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hey, if you think that your ready, and if you want this to be special, dont regret it, and if you have any doubts, dont do it. do waht you want hun, x0 Renee
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okay, Me and this guy have been together 9 months tommorow..nd I love him more then anything it is a long distance relationship which sucks, and i never thought this would work out, but it has been..I see him 2 or more times a month because my gramother lives down there and soon he ll be able to drive, but anywho I really feel like he loves me, when im with him we lay together and he holds me soo tight and tells me how much he loves me and its like perfect..soo anyway about 4 months ago he dumped me or we *took a break* and he went out with this girl that lived down there named kirsten..and i was very upset but then 2 days later he called me back and at that point i didn't even wanna talk to him but anyway he said that he dumped her because he loved me and it took him this to see that he really does and i was completly understandable about that and we were only togethr for 5 months..okay that is along time but ?..so neway we got back to gether and everything was going great then 2 weeks ago he seemed weird like he was alway s like ill cal you back and never would but then it ended soo i thought u no he was busy..well he just admitted that he liked this taylor girl and she is very pretty but shes a flrt who gets guys to like her then doesnt go out wit then but then i found out she liked him soo i told him and he like said ill call you back soo he got online he didnt talk to me but taylor was on soo i figured he was asking her if it was true so then he called me saying he wants me to think about are relationship and maybe we should take a break i cried and stuff and he said ill call you back well he called me back and said he was an idiot he doesnt want lose me then that nite i foudn out that he called her nad was tallkign to her and her friend for awile so i asked him abotu it and he tod me that he had feelings for her again but there all gone and i said you know you shouldnt even be thinking about other girls and he said im sorry and then i went to see him 3 days lata and everything was perfect and he kept telling me he was soo stupid and im soo beautiful and everything too make you feel good about yourself and everything seems fine but im afraid he mite do it again..soo anyway sorry this story goes on long there is this other guy named nick who this past fall i hung out with alot at these dances thats where i met him adn we got rele close and i almost dumped my bf for him bc hes soo sweet to me nd well we ve kept in touch and stuff i mean he lives here lol soo i can see him whenever but mi bf doesn tlike him bc he knows that he lieks me alot this nick kid he always tells me how much he wants to be wit me and that he loves me and im alway slike im sorry..u no and everyone tells me that mi boyfriends treats mme like shit and i dont deserve it but he doesnt he jus has in the past..so am i being stupid should i dump him and move on? or stay wit the guy that im rele in love with but mite hurt me in the past?
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wow you guys have alot of problems in your relationship, take a break until he can drive, thats what my friends doing, shes seeing other guys and once this one kid can drive their going to try to work their relationship out again. i dont think that you should give into him each time he says that hes stupid and doesn't want to loose you, because hes hurting you and i think your jsut afraid to be alone or getting hurt so you forgive him, i think you should move on hunie, your just getting hurt, sorry. x0 Renee
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New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings. (link)
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i dont think your friends birthday party would go for about 7 hours. lol, i dont think it would be rude to leave, but just tell her that you and a friend gotta go to this other party. i dont think lisa would get her feelings hurt, just get her a good gift! haha im just kidding, but have fun! happy holidays. x0 Renee
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Do you happen to know how much the Sims 2 costs? (link)
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50 dollars, well thats how much it is at media play, after sometime the price goes down.
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hey um i need some adive my boyfriend and i live in different towns but were only about a 20 minutes drive apart and whenever im with him i never want to leave n when i talk to him on the computer or phone i never wanna stop but when hes with his friends he acts like a jerk on the phone whenever i say something he doesnt notice n i just get so mad n he always tells me he'll be at one of my games n i get all excited and then he never shows wut should i do i dont want to break up with him i just want him to pay more attention to me
sincerly,
confused girl (link)
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hey, my friends the same way! they live 20 minutes apart too, and they try to see eachother like all the time and when they dont see eachother their always on the phone together.. its the usual thing, whenever their with their guy friends they gotta seem like a hardass and act 'cool' around them, dont worry about it. but thats lame how he lies and doesn't show up to your games, i would def say something to him about it, other than that i think you guys seem like a good couple who have a long distance relationship, sorta lol. talk to him about how you want more attention, he should listen, x0 Renee
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ok well my question is a bit complicated, see im 15 years old and theres this guy I like hes 16. we grew up together ive known since ive been 4 years old and ive liked him. Ive always had a crush on him since 4 years ago..so 11 years. weve been best friends. well he found out i liked him and was gonna ask me out...i know this for a fact. well i go to meet him and theres some chick with him and its his new girlfriend...shes 14 and he said he wouldnt date a younger chick. his words to me were "i like you still but i like her more sorry...can we be friends?" then she comes over and starts kising him adn they start making out in front of me....and he keeps calling asking about friendship i keep ignoring the call or haning up...im so hurt..i mean 11 years! is longer than a chick he just met....i just dont get why i cant have a bf and keep one! what to do?
-advicegivers0601
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aw hunie i'm so sorry for you! i would def feel like my heart has just been ripped out! well you know what, show him that your better than him! like competting with him! haha but you could always not let that girl bother you, shes just a girl, but he shouldn't have let that girl get in the way of your friendship/relationship between you and him. hopefully he'll break it off with her and realize that your more for him and your friendship with him means so mcuh more than some girl. dont let this boy ruin your life, go out and have some fun, meet someone else! well hope you feel better! x0x
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I am 23 years old. I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He's the only person I've ever slept with, and vice versa. I'm having problems because sex is very painful with him and I don't enjoy it. His penis is very large and it hurts a LOT. The length isn't so much a problem, but the girth. Neither of us has any STD's or anything like that. I love him a lot and we've even talked about marriage but I can't imagine a life of not enjoying sex. Any advice? (link)
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try out some new things, hopefully it wouldn't be so painful. x0
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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eh its normal, when your teenagers you seem to be more interested in that sort of stuff, its normal everyone does it. nothings wrong with you. x0
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i really really want to get my tounge periced and im not sure if it will hurt real bad.. or if i should bc my mom doesnt want me to but my friends mom said she would take me.. if anyone can help me with this and is willing to talk to me about it my sn is x0xi3abiGirlx0x
Thankz a bunch xOx (link)
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all i would say is that try getting your eyebrow or something else pierced, because you have to eat and thats going to be a pain cuz you have to take good care of it and your tounge swells up for like a week. so try getting something else done, but if you go for the tounge good luck! x0
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah (link)
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no thats what friends are for, and im glad that you even think about helping a friend in that sort of way! go tell her that! x0 your a good friend
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Ok, well, I weigh 120 lbs. and I'm only 13, female. Well, I want to start all new this year, so how do I lose weight fast! I want to lose 3 pounds a day! please help me. thnx for the tips
xoxox luv always Chelsey (link)
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wow 3 pounds a day?! your nuts! loosing one to two pounds a week is very healthy, try doing that, excersise around the house is the best thing, and watch what you eat. x0
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My boyfriend lives with me, and he's always here (I'm 14/f), that's not the problem though. I just feel like he never really pays attention to me. He's playing video games, or he's on the computer, and I do so much for him, all I want is attention. How do I talk to him, or make him want me more, not even in a sexual way, but I just want attention. How do I tell him this without him thinking I want sex and without him being mad and have it actually work? sorry it's confusing, but I really need advice. I'll rate. (link)
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omg, guys and their video games! hahah just pull him over off the computer and sit down on the couch and ask him whats up beacuse you dont feel anything when hes around.. i'm pretty sure he wont get mad, i would think that he would be happy that u told him this. hopefully that should work. x0
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okay so a little while back i wrote about how I 16/f liked a boy 14/m...and i wanted to tell him i liked him. Well. tonight I was talking to him and he ended up telling me he likes me, so i told him i liked him. Now we both know we like each other which is really good...only he doesnt think its gonna work because I live an hour away from him AND his sister...is one of my friends...we both know for a FACT that his sister would NOT like the idea of me and him dateing...at all. and well, he and his sister are gonna sleep over sometime, and itll probably happen everyonce in a while...only thing IF we start dating..we cant let his sister or parents know because then he wouldnt be able to sleep over. SO..problem. It would be backstabbing his sister in the back and I dont like doing that to people. so help me you guys :( I dont know what to do! (link)
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theres other guys, and plus yea you dont want to backstab your friend, you and him could be best friends, it would be better off if you guys dont go out b/c of his sister. x0
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who has pierced their own cartilage? did it work out and everything and not get infected? (link)
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everything worked out, all you really have to do is sterilize whatever your using to pierce it yourself. i would insist going to get it done perfessionally but if you want to do it yourself then go for it.. try numbing it, it will still hurt tho. but good luck and keep good care of it so it doesn't get infected! mine healed well! x0
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My friend invited me over to her house so we could call people n stuff. Because I have a cellphone and she doesn't, and I think she's only using me to talk to her boyfriend. Anyways, i'm moving this summer and I need to spend as much time with my closest friends possible so I vinted 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering. I told her that I didn't want to go to her house and she could come to my house so we could all hang out. And she said NO to me!! I'm so mad about this but I kind of understand since I blew her off in the first place. But still, she shouldn't be mad over something so stupid................right? (link)
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your right, she shouldn't be mad over that, your moving away and you want it at your house. it should be a big hassle for one of your friends, dont worry about it too much, you guys will work it out b4 you do move. x0
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My boyfriend is absolutely the bestest person in the world. I don't love him yet seen as I'm only 14 and we've only been dating now for about a month and 3 days. But still, he always hangs up on me when we get into stupid arguements. He pranked me the other day with his friend, which I knew was him and I asked him about it and he called me a stupidass bitch!! I hung up on him and left a message on his voicemail saying I didn't want to date anymore. But we're still dating. I dont know whats wrong with me. I told him I hate when he says mean things to me and when he hangs up but he still does it. I can't break up with him either because no matter what I do I always tend to run back to him because I think I need him in my life. He means so much to me and I don't want to lose him. This is the longest relationship I've ever had in my life. And I don't know. What should I do? (link)
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youll have plenty of more long relationshiops, your only 14!! you got your whole life a head of you, and he doesn't sound like a good boyfriend to you, he hangs up on you, pranks you, and calls you names, that doesn't sound like a good bf to me. idk the best thing i think is for you to break it off with him and go date someone else, at your age your trying to find out what you want in life from a guy. x0 hope ive helped
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I'm 13 and wondering... (link)
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you sexually pleasure yourself down there. x0
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