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ok well my question is a bit complicated, see im 15 years old and theres this guy I like hes 16. we grew up together ive known since ive been 4 years old and ive liked him. Ive always had a crush on him since 4 years ago..so 11 years. weve been best friends. well he found out i liked him and was gonna ask me out...i know this for a fact. well i go to meet him and theres some chick with him and its his new girlfriend...shes 14 and he said he wouldnt date a younger chick. his words to me were "i like you still but i like her more sorry...can we be friends?" then she comes over and starts kising him adn they start making out in front of me....and he keeps calling asking about friendship i keep ignoring the call or haning up...im so hurt..i mean 11 years! is longer than a chick he just met....i just dont get why i cant have a bf and keep one! what to do?
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Maybe this guy isnt worth it... 11 years is a real long time but he broke a promise... you need to let their relationship take its course.. soon he will find out that the other girl is too imature for him. and he wil realize that he made a mistake because he had a chance with you but he blew it off... you need to listen to his story but if he acts like a complete ass hang up... hope I helped ♥ Lexi
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Well most men are inconsiderate. They have no respect for women. Dont ask me why im a guy too but i hate how most men only think about sex and making out it ruins it for the emotionaly indepth guys. SO NEWAYS In my opinion he has no right to be doing this to you. You need to go up to him and tell him how you REALLY feel not that you just like him but for how long you've liked him and that you are really hurt by what hes doing. Otherwise if you can wait stay friends and when they are done, like in a week or two, ask him out then im sure hel say yes. if not find someone who will respect you and your feelings. Good luck -mike
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aw hunie i'm so sorry for you! i would def feel like my heart has just been ripped out! well you know what, show him that your better than him! like competting with him! haha but you could always not let that girl bother you, shes just a girl, but he shouldn't have let that girl get in the way of your friendship/relationship between you and him. hopefully he'll break it off with her and realize that your more for him and your friendship with him means so mcuh more than some girl. dont let this boy ruin your life, go out and have some fun, meet someone else! well hope you feel better! x0x
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Aw, I'm sorry. Nothing that happened is your fault, so if that's what you're thinking, don't. Are you sure when he said he was going to ask you out, he wasn't talking about the other girl? Just a thought. Maybe he met the girl before he asked you out, and when he realized he liked her more, he probably truly thinks that you'd be better as friends. He might just be afraid of losing your awesome friendship. Try talking to him about it. Tell him how he said he wouldn't date anyone younger, and then did? Just tell him how you feel, and see what he says. You're such good friends, so I don't think there's any reason to be uncomfortable asking him about it. Good luck, I hope everything works out. Anymore questions, leave em'!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~
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