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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

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Okay, I liked this boy named Max for a while and then he was an idiot and I stopped liking him. He keeps coming up in my head and I am so obessesed with him and I don't want to be this way at all. I try not to think about him, but everything I think about some how relates back to him.
Anyways, recently I got an AIM from a guy claiming his name was Joe and he saw my picture from my friend Rem (who doesn't go to our skool) and he thought I was super hott. I asked how he knew Rem and he didn't remember. Joe said he lived in some place far from me and he really thought he had no chance with me. Once he mentioned he heard about my "boyfriend" which was a joke I played on Max a long time ago and I began to think that this "Joe" guy was really "Max" playing a prank on me. I told Joe that I don't think he's telling the truth on who he is and he just needs to admit hes Max. He finally did and then he denied it again! I just know it's Max and he AIM's me still being Joe and flirts with me all the time. Why was he such a jerk to me and now flirting? Is it just a thing between him and his friends to make fun of me? Or does he really like me? I'm so confused and I really need help! I'll rate super duper good! Thank you for bearing with this super long question and I'm sorry!

~ Super Confused! ~

Hey, if it really is Max.. he is sch a jerk!! Ignore "Joe" for a while and see what happens. Max might like you.. have you seen any clues? His friends might be playing a prank on you. Just ignore "Joe"
♥ Michelle

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im trying to brake up with my boyfriend things just are differnt between us and i really have no clue is on how to do it i cant just go up to him i have tryed it and i frezz so yea if any one can give me answers it would be helpfull
by the way im 15/f

Call him, explain to him your reason and say we just need a brake.
♥ Michelle

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does anybody know any good animation shops or things of that sort to make user pics for like xanga/blurty that IS NOT jasc????? because the jasc on is messing up my computer big time..thansk

Paintshop pro.
♥ Michelle

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ok there's this boy at my school how i have liked for over a year and i know he doesn't like me

i know i don't ever have a chance w/ him. in fact..he has a GF.

but i have tried and tried to get over him and everytime i fail. please help. i want nothing more than not to need him.

Aww, its hard getting over a boy. In fact, it like imposable unless you try not to think about them as much. Just talk to your friends and make a list of all his bad things ((not good)) and tell your friends to help you!
♥ MIchelle

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I don't know how to give head.. is there something I should know. I`m giving it to my boyfriend for his birthday we been togather for almost a year.

Umm well you suck the dick until cum (white stuff) comes out swallow it or spit it out.
♥ Michelle

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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest

Just forget her or talk to her about it. Tell her to act the same and to act as though you never told her this.
♥ Michelle

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i want to loose 50 lbs by july, is this even a possibly? and if so what would i have to do? i am really willing to except eat " right " foods i am probably still gonna eat the same i LOVE food

It is possible if you put your heart into it. You would have to loose 10lbs. a month. Eat less portions of food, fish, less carbs, salad, lots of water, exsercise, give yuor all during PE, run, fruits and veggies, balance your sweets to 1 a day or 1 every 2 days. Milk, fuits for breakfast. Veggies for dinner.
Good Luck
♥ Michelle

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Okay, so I've been with my guy 15 months, and it's been sheer bliss until lately. My stress level went up because music is taking over my life at the moment. I hardly ever see him as it is. Lately, he's been pissing me off. The problem is, I'm not totally sure why I'm so mad at him.
I want to SCREAM at him, and I never yell at anyone. He sprang this whole "I want to talk to you about the future of our relationship" thing on me on tuesday. (However, he told me I had no right to be nervous, there was no possibility I'd end up in tears, and he wasn't breaking up with me or anything remotely ike that.) He told me to call after play practice (I got the lead, so major stress there) so I did, and the line was busy. Then he told me to call after practice yesterday so we could talk. I called - he wasn't there. Today, he left for his friend's house 'cause they're doing this whole winterfest thing or whatever. He's gone all weekend.
He PROMISED me we'd talk about this and get rid of some stress before my college audition (saturday), and so far, we haven't talked about it.
He's causing me all sorts of stress I don't need, not to mention the fact that he's never quite...reliable. He never calls anymore (and if he does, I'm never there. He seems to call when he knows I'll be gone, and then never calls back when my parents tell him I'll be home.)I'm sick of chasing him with phonecalls.
The thing of it is, I honestly think he's under the impression that I'll stick with him no matter what he does (or doesn't do). I'm thinking of talking to him and telling him that though I love him with all my heart, if he continues to take me for granted like this, I will break it off. I can't handle boyfriend stress on top of everything else.
I tried to stay away from relationships, but I couldn't get rid of my quickly developing crush on him.
So what's your advice? What do I do? Do I talk to him and tell him he's taking me for granted? Do I scream at him the way I want to? I can advise everyone except myself dealing with matters of the heart, so I need someone to help me out.

Well, i would break up with him. Or talk to him about it. Go to his house oneday unexpectedly. You might see somthing you dont want to. You should defenatly talk to him about it. Dont scream it will only make matters worst.
♥ Michelle

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Okay, 5 seconds ago I just dropped the camera that I got this Christmas! I know it cost like..130 dollars, and it was the gift from my parents, unlike the other ones from 'santa' hha. Anyway, i dropped it, and now its all scratchy inside, and I got it to turn on..and it wont now. It sounds like pieces in the inside are juggling around. I unscrewed the top to see if anything was in there, but the bottom doesn't unscrew, so you can't take it off, so I don't know. Wtf do I do? I LOVE that DIGITAL camera, and my parents are gonna be soo pissed. Should I blame my cat? Be like, "I think the cat hit this off the table' or something. Omg, please help, my mom's gonna be home soon. PLUS, I'm supposed to bring it to school tomorrow. Oh man :(

Well, you can tell your mom the truth or tell her th cat did it. But, after take it back to the store and ask if they can fix it!
♥ Michelle

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He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am?

Be yourself.. if he wont continue to like you for the real you then F** hiM!
♥ Michelle

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Ok for some reasn when some people write in my questions i cant see what they write inless im logged out and i dont know why and dont tell me about the thing where you can block people who have a rating below what you want it to be so i cant rate all the people that give me advice so can someone please enlighten me

Fabk said everything i wanted to say!!
♥ Michelle!

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i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death.

Do the obvious, ask him out.
♥ Michelle

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Hi everyone,
My school doesn't do work experience until 6th form. However, I want to do a child care course, and they don't do the relevant course at my school's 6th form. I am going to go to another 6th form and take it there but the only problem is that you need work experience to get onto the course!! I've considered working voluntarily in a nursery during my summer holidays, but do you think that could count as work experience? Like, would anyone even want to employ me if it isn't for official work experience, and would they be willing to write me a work experience-type report?
Thanks!! xx

Ya!! Just ask!! It wont hurt. Maybe you can ask around to help with kids, like babysitting ect. Im sure someone will emply you and write a work experiance essay for you!
♥ Michelle

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Okay, so theres this guy that i really liked and then he asked me out so we're going out. Then there was this other guy that i really liked but then i kinda didnt and now i do and now all these guys are like asking me out and flirting with me and stuff..they dont know i have a boyfriend but yeah its annoying cuz they didnt when i didnt have a bf..why does this always happen that when i actually have a bf THEN the people i like start liking me or whatever..? ugh!

They are jelous.
♥ Michelle

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okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps..

Wow, what a good boyfriend. Why dont you just move in with him and then marry him when you guys are a bit older? Or you can just move in with someone else until collage or somthing!! 16, as your know is too young, but i mean you can marry him when you are 18+
♥ MIchelle
Hope everything will go well!

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



You cant get married that young, and it isnt your place to get involved in. You should let her tell her parents when she is comftorable. You can tell your to tell her mom fast, and you can tell your mom, but it isnt your place to tell her mom.
♥ Michelle

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OK...sorry, this will be quite long.
Well, my parents are divorced and I live with my mother. I don't see my father any more, because he got married to this lady called Karen, and she sends me loads of horrible emails, accusing me and my mother of all sorts of crap. I'm perfectly happy with not seeing him because I never got on with him, so that's not my question.
The thing is, my mother still wants me to see my father's parents. I really don't like them and all they do is complain at/about me while I'm there and I never enjoy any time I spend with them. My mother keeps going 'oh well you should do what you want I'm not forcing you to see them', but if I mention not wanting to go and see them, she moans at me and says I really should or whatever. She is really adamant that she hasn't influenced me or told me what to do in any of this business with seeing my father and his parents, but she is forcing me into seeing my grandparents!! They always talk about me not seeing my father while I'm there as well and it's driving me mad.
What can I do about this?? My mother swears she isn't MAKING me see them, but she complains at me if I don't go, or punishes me by not letting me go out at the weekend or something. How do I make her see that she IS influencing my choices over seeing that side of my family?
No answers saying that I should see my family please!! That's not my question and I don't want that answer thanks. I'm very aware that they are my family, thank you very much, and that most people see theirs. Well I'm not most people, so no preaching if you guys don't mind! Thanks!

Just talk to your mom about it. She might be able to solve your problem, like explain to her what you just said!
♥ Michelle

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okay...sorry, but I NEED A GUY TO ANSWER THIS. Okay, guys, do guys have a problem with admitting they like a girl or something, especially if they're like, a player??? Cause there is this guy that flirted with me EVERY FREAkin Day for a month straight..and a coupla of my friends definitely thought he liked me..because he payed speciall attention to me..way more than the other girls there. Then one of my friends asked him if he liked me one day at skool when I was absent, and he said yes, even thought there were a couple of his friendz there..then she asked again, for sure, and he said yes. Then a month later, she asked him online with another girl ,and he said "no, I only made fun of her, and she's disgusting"...k, so WASSUP WITH THAT? I mean, for god's sake, make up your mind...!Anyway...so like, can any of you tell me what you think is going on!!?? I'm not very interested in him anyway, even though he's "supposedly really the hottest guy in the grade" and a lot of the girls like him, i think he's a jerk.But I just wanna know, coz it pisses me off. Did he do that because I didn't really do anything back when he flirted, just kinda smiled or sumthing...? Anyway, so answer my question plz...sorry it was really long...thx.

Link is right.. he prob. liked you and then got over you and is trying to cover it up with something stupid. FOrget about him he isnt worht it!
♥ michelle

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My best friend has made these new really popular friends. So ive been friends with them for a while now. But I let them make fun of me got sick o it and flipped, then i talked behind my old friends back and she told all her new friendsi never stop talking bout them eaither and now all of them have me what can I do ???????

I dont really undersatand, but if im correct your saying you talk behind your freinds back and what should you do?

Well simply stop talking behind her back and just tell her you arent and confron the other girls.
♥ Michelle

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hey can anybody tell me where to find good quotes for AIM profiles and such? thanks in advance.

firehotquotes.com
♥ Michelle

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