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my boyfriend has alot of girls that are friends and its makes me realllly jealous
and i know i shouldnt be jealous becuase hes my boyfriend and not theres.
but he calls this one girl baby and he said shes cute and he says he loves her
i told him how i felt about it
and we got into fight and he got mad because i was making a big deal about it and stuff
but he told me that he calls all his friends baby
and like i understand if you tell your bestfriend you love them. but like you dont call her baby.
and he said that he tells her she is cute to make her feel good about herself
so im like ok whatever.
they also both have stickam. and it makes me mad when i log onto mine and see them on webcam together. they dont do anything but talk. but its makes me soooo jealous.
i need help.

ps. i know he loves me because were amazing together and he always spills his heart out to me and stuff. but i just hate the fact about the other girls.




well. if he won't stop calling his GIRL best friend BABY for his GIRLFRIEND. he has issues, seriously. wtf is up with that? you're his girlfriend, he should be calling YOU baby.

trust me, i've been a relationship like the one you're in, and you need to either take a break with him, or just plain break-up because he's not as in love with you as he claims to be. you say he spills his heart out to you, think about that. he probably does with his best friend that he calls baby also?

if you're this jealous and he does nothing to make you feel less jealous, you need to get with someone else because i know if my boyfriend didn't care i was jealous and got mad at me for it, i would be utterly pissed.

sorry, but you need to move on, which i know is going to be hard, but you need to try.

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I love to act and I'm gooda t it.

I love to sing to, but i'm not that good.
**I think i'm bad, people think i'm good, siblings think bad

My big dream is to be on Broadway, but I don't know if i'm going to be able to do that.

I'm GOODD, at dancing, like REALLYYY good.

I have a deep voice, so its hard to hit high notes and to be on broadway, you have to be able to hit those.
What should I do?
Change my dream?
Keep practicing?

Any information on this would be EXTREAMLY helpful

14/f


if you're a bass, then you will probably get back up, or villain roles, if you would try out for those.

keep practicing, but if you don't feel like you're getting any better, just "change your dream" and maybe later on something will come up involving acting and singing- if you were made to do it.

and not everyone can hit high notes.

good luck & hope i helped.

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14/female; btw, i turn 15 in like three months!
(sorry this might be long :x)

okay, so theres this guy, lets call him g.
g is 17 and he turns 18 in like two months.
well i've know him for about 3 years.
and me and him are like reallly good friends.
i can tell him just about anything, and he can tell me anything as well. i think hes really cute, and he thinks im "gorgeous", haha.
were like best friends i guess you can call it, but we have hooked up many times, never actual sex thou he has tried. lol.

well heres the thing, i really want a boyfriend right, and i know he would be a really good one to me, BUT my parents hates him! ):

they say hes a bad kid, and that hes not gonna get anywhere in life that all he does is get introuble and do drugs... not cool yo.

and yeah w.e he does smoke bud, and he droped out but thats his choice. but other then that he is a good kid...

sooo, how can i make him see that i wanna a relationship, and how do i get my parents to understand that he isnt all that bad and that he does care about me?!!!


help; and thanks loveees!



well. try talking to him about it and see if he wants to have a relationship with you.
if he doesn't, just stay friends. but if he does, try inviting him over and make sure he hasn't been smoking, and you, him, and your parents can all have a casual conversation. this way, they can get warmed up to him and learn to like him. it may take awhile, but it's the only thing you can do.

good luck. =]

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Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.

sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.

then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/

anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.

we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.

what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.

ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?



okayyyyyy.
well. first off. you're fourteen, he's seventeen.
most seventeen year olds would use a fourteen year old for sex, or play them, or as you said, "hit it and quit it"

but some wouldn't, but obviously yours did.
anyway.
NO. you should NOT have sex with him again, even if he did apologize. how do you know he won't do it all over again?

he probably wants you to have sex with him again.
but maybe, oddly, he wants to be friends but i doubt that, seriously.

just try and avoid him.
you two could be friends, but no hooking up.
it'll give you a bad rep & give you a low self esteem.

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is it true that a male can be 10.5 in????



can be, yes.
it's not very likely though..

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A girl from my school and her boyfriend just died in a car wreck. They were 16 and 17. For some reason, though I didn't know them personally, this really makes me sad. I did know one of her best friends though, so I just sent a little "I'm sorry" to her through email. I'm sure she already has a lot of those. There was also a bulletin posted in her memory asking everyone to re-post it and ave a moment of silence for her. I didn't feel like reposting it, but a lot of people did. Well, I got a reply from my "I'm sorry". The friend got really mad at me and said I didn't even know this girl and everyone should stop acting like they did. Now, I know she must be going through a lot of pain, but is really that bad for me to say I was sorry? She also posted a bulletin on myspace this morning about how no one knew the girl like she did and everyone should stop pretending like they cared. I really don't want to start something, and I know what she's going through (I've had family deaths and severe injuries related to car accidents), but this is sounding a little rude to me. I mean, if I were to die, or a friend were to die, I would want people to care. Please help me understand, why in the world this girl is hating everyone for caring?



that's just how she deals with grief.
you can't really control what she says, but i would just give her some space because she is going through a lot.
i've done that to people before too, and i then regretted it, but she will know sooner or later that she blew up at a lot of people.

a lot of people do that, so don't feel bad.
she's just stressed.
she's not HATING anyone, she's just upset.

:] hope i helped.
and no, saying sorry is not bad, you were just being nice.

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what is a good display name for myspace?



yeah. use symbols to make it cool.
make it one of your nicknames.
make it using one of your favorite songs or bands.

or try using this website with stuff like the person mentioned below:

www.coloryourprofyle.com

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17/f
as a baby i drank milk. yes. but as i started to grow older once i was about in 1st grade my body started rejecting milk and water. i'd throw up.. i dont drink water nor milk.. i'm not lactose intolerant either.. ive talked to my doctor but all he says is drink water.. but i cant!!! ive tried but i can't. which is funny because it has no taste or smell but i just cant stand it.. nor milk =/ what do i do?? any advice?



yeah, i agree with the person below me.
you need to take a vitamin daily then, since you are not drinking milk.

otherwise, try drinking tea, i love iced tea. or drink flavored water or orange juice, that's good with calcium too.

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15/f

i have thin hair due to lack of protein and it's damaged but i found stuff to fix it. once it's fixed i want to get a hair cut. i've had the same side bangs for a long time and same length. it's not that long though it's like 3 inches above my boob. so i don't really want a short short cut because my hair doesn't grow very well. maybe something with a lot of layers or soemthing. if someone could show me some good pictures that would be great! thanks you




try getting long layers or short layers.
whichever they say would look better.

but here's pictures:

http://i95.photobucket.com/albums/l148/hotrodbetties/evb.jpg

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a157/xdeathxmiseryx/new_hairstyles_001.jpg

http://i307.photobucket.com/albums/nn286/unexpectedlynaughty/Hair%20n%20dogs/Hair011.jpg

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Hii okay well I am really interested in poverty in other countries and I love to help other people like going to africa would be just so awesome for me. I kinda want to continue this in college but I don't like want a job where I sit behind a desk the entire day you know? Is there some like international affairs major or something that I could get into?


the peace corps.

or look through these:

http://www.collegeboard.com/csearch/majors_careers/profiles/

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is there a special skool where u have to go to learn howto become a tattoo artist?
im an regular artist already but i was wondering if i wud have to go to a certain college or just a certain skool with certain classes for me to become a tattoo artist.



most tattoo places just make sure you can draw and they teach you.
but i googled tattoo artist schools and these websites came up?:

http://www.tattoo-school.com/

http://www.tattoosbylisa.net/testimonials.html

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im 15/M
i have a sevier acne problem can any one help me i already use proactive 2 times a day and its not helping



have one of your parents get you an appointment with a dermatologist to get you prescription medicine.

i have dry skin, but i wash my face with a sensitive skin soap and use the clean and clear moisturizer and spot treatment.

if you have oily, try going to walmart, or walgreens, and look on the acne treatment aisle for something for oily skin and acne, most of that works.

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15/f
Ok, well, i went to a party yesterday and found out this guy thought i was cute. We don't know eachother but at the beginning of the year i thought he was cute too. Anyways, we exchanged numbers through my friend and we started texting and he told me i was cute and everything but i don't really know him personally and i do want to get to know him, but he hasn't texted me all day and i'm not sure why. Anyways, if we ended up going out, i dont know what i would do because lets just say he has a lot of expierience and i dont! Like, i haven't ever been kissed or anything and my friend that used to go out with him, has made out with him and kissed him and some other things like that. So, if he tried to do that to me, i have no idea what i would do. Please help.




try texting him, but don't annoy him. be like, hey what's up? or something along those lines.

and about the going out with him situation, before you two would go out, tell him you're not as experienced as him and you aren't ready for that and if he cares about you he would understand and take it slow and not rush you. if he would try to rush you, you need to back away because that could lead to far worse things.

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okay i was friends with this girl for like fiv and a half years and then on the nite of her nineteenth she invited me and her other mates who i didnt no but no each other out and over the course of the night i got growled at, pushed out of the group when dancing, they even thought that id slapped ma friend when all id did was tapped her face as we do as a joke all the time and she did not help when she acted shoked!! u c the thing is for a while weve bn drifting she found out my mum was on drugs and cause it was her that told her and nt me she was po'd but you c the reason i didnt tell her was because i new wed drift and we did she stopped confiding in me and we had an arguement when after she promised shed go on holiday with me she canceled so she could go with the other girls who came to the party!! sorry its long but my question is how do i forget about her as i miss our friendship but because of whats happened i cant forgive her!!
any help appreciated
xxxxxxxxxxx




well. i deffiently wouldn't forgive her, but just give her the silent treatment. if she still ignores you and doesn't talk to you, you know you two aren't going to be friends anymore. try hanging out or talking to new/different people, and try keeping yourself busy so your mind is off of her.

that should work, if it doesn't and you still want to become friends with her again, just try talking to her about everything that happened.

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17/f...mmk i met this dude at my familys 4th of july party. he was there because his dad was a long time friend of one of my family members. that day, me him and my cousins hung out the entire day. you know, pool, football, baseball..the usual party stuff. at the end of the day when it was time for the fireworks he was sitting far away. next thing i know, he moved to sit next to me. so throughout the night we just talked and watched the fireworks together. a couple days later i see a friend request from him on my myspace AND facebook. so we started talking to each other online and stuff. and now we just stopped talking. i know i probably sound pretty obsessive but its retarded. i just want to know if he likes me...i dont know what to think. sorry if its not a lot of info. thx in advance.



well. it seems like he kind of likes you, but he probably isn't sure what your feelings are towards him. so try talking to him and flirting and if he's kinda backing away or not talking so much, he probably just wants to stay friends.

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what are the chances of you geting pregnant if you miss a day to switch your patch if your fertile period is 15 days after your period and you start your period after how dose that work.




just as long as you don't have sex on that day, you won't get pregnant for missing one day to change the patch.

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Does anyone know how to do the card trick where you ask someone to choose a card then throw them all up in the air, the 21st card that is picked up in the pile is the card that was picked.
Does anyone know how to do it or something similar?



try some of these websites:

http://www.magicexhibit.org/try/TwentyOne.pdf

http://www.wikihow.com/Do-a-21-Card-Card-Trick

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15/f

So I'm not really overweight but I concider myself to be "BIG" I weigh 155 and I'm 4"11" ugh its so hardd to stick to a weight plan because all I do is eat I eat when I'm depressed/angry/sad/bored its awful and lazy I know ! I just want to loose weight but I want to be able to stick to a weight plan something that will help me focuse on loosing weight ...any suggestions?



Losing weight and sticking to a plan is hard. And if you're lazy and like to eat, it's even harder.

I usually get my iPod, head outside early in the morning, like 6-7ish, so it isn't to hot, or like around 8-9 at night, and jog, not run, jog. The music makes me want to run, so get music that gets you pumped up.

secondly. no junk food. it's going to be hard but try thinking about skinnier people, and that will usually upset you. so do situps while you watch tv, crunches, etc.

just think about what you WANT to look like, and you'll make it happen if you want it bad enough.

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how do i put a picture under a picture in my myspace profile?




if you're talking about putting a picture, and instead of pasting another link and it being like, right next to it.

use the


that should do the trick. :]

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15/f
Alright so my friends and I got into this huge fight way back in February. It was pretty much an explosion you could say. Well now I'm finally getting over it and getting back on my feet because things are finally settling (I had a lot of psychological issues because of this huge explosion). But still, whenever I'm around these people once again at a party or something (where its just me and them...no one else), it's like I can't control my emotions. For instance, I'll start crying just out of the blue because I can't handle being around them because it brings back so many painful memories (and good ones too that just make me miss even more how things were). Or I'll just start laughing at something funny that one of them say, but then I can't stop laughing. And not at all in a good way. Either way, I'm hysterical and can't stop. I just miss how things were and I miss feeling secure around them. I feel so scared that if I don't find a way to control these emotions, that I'll never get invited anywhere again with them...just when I thought everything was going to be okay. Because basically, though it's settling somewhat, it's still not back to the way things were. And I don't think it ever will be.
I just wish there was a way that I could keep a handle on my emotions around them. Any advice?



Wow, that's pretty intense.
I have had the same problem but I got anxiety medicine for it, maybe you should talk to your doctor about that.
No, it doesn't mean you're crazy or anything, it just means you're a little more nervous than some people, and etc.
That's my main advice is to talk to your doctor.
Otherwise, just try and keep your mind off of it, no matter how hard it is. Keep a journal of your thoughts, read a book, keep busy, organize things, hang out with different people.
Or you could just e-mail me, I love talking to people & I have a way with calming people down.

rocketgirl7788@hotmail.com

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