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complicated crap.
14/female; btw, i turn 15 in like three months!
(sorry this might be long :x)
okay, so theres this guy, lets call him g.
g is 17 and he turns 18 in like two months.
well i've know him for about 3 years.
and me and him are like reallly good friends.
i can tell him just about anything, and he can tell me anything as well. i think hes really cute, and he thinks im "gorgeous", haha.
were like best friends i guess you can call it, but we have hooked up many times, never actual sex thou he has tried. lol.
well heres the thing, i really want a boyfriend right, and i know he would be a really good one to me, BUT my parents hates him! ):
they say hes a bad kid, and that hes not gonna get anywhere in life that all he does is get introuble and do drugs... not cool yo.
and yeah w.e he does smoke bud, and he droped out but thats his choice. but other then that he is a good kid...
sooo, how can i make him see that i wanna a relationship, and how do i get my parents to understand that he isnt all that bad and that he does care about me?!!!
help; and thanks loveees!
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Well, i would worry about my parents last on this one, since you're not planning on marrying him just yet.. but you do have to understand where they are coming from (and any time you have to EXPLAIN a love interest, its usually a bad sign).
..he can work and vote and buy cigarettes/blunts before you can drive, they have to be worried about what you will be doing when you hang out. When the time comes, let them know that you understand that they are concerned and that you are letting him make his own choices, even though yours will be different.
as far as getting into a relationship: he is obviosuly interested in you if he has tried having sex, but that doesn't necessarily mean he wants a girlfriend. a lot of people have a hard time with titles. Just ask him what he's looking for!
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Hey there!
Your best bet is to just be honest with him. Once you cover the status on whether or not you both was to pursue more then a friendship-- you can then go over the parental stuff.
Once they see that he's important to you, I'm hoping that they'll just want you happy. But really, no parent wants their child with someone who does things they don't normally approve of. It's going to be hard to take this step, seeing as there is so much working against you-- but if it's meant to be, then you'll figure it out.. together.
I hope it all works out.
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well. try talking to him about it and see if he wants to have a relationship with you.
if he doesn't, just stay friends. but if he does, try inviting him over and make sure he hasn't been smoking, and you, him, and your parents can all have a casual conversation. this way, they can get warmed up to him and learn to like him. it may take awhile, but it's the only thing you can do.
good luck. =]
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