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Q: Okay, so my best friend is a boy named Jake, right? And well, I've liked him for 2 years, since I met him, right?

Well now he told my best friend he'd like me if I was a JAP but I'm punk. I can kind of tell he likes me, but it will ruin his reputation to date me... the hated punk girl.

I want to go out with him, I love him with all my heart. But I don't know if I should change for him. I mean, I would do ANYTHING for him. But being a JAP is against everything I stand for. So I don't know. I've been less punk lately, hoping he'd like me, and he has been looking at me diffrently.

So I need some help... do I change for the one I love... or stay the same ol' punk girl?

XOXO
Lily
Age 13
Female
well changeing to go with somebody is hard...but to go out with him means you have to change then i would stay just friends then...hoped i helped..
alley

Q: I'm going to a fancy dress party in November and really want a cool outfit. I'm 15 and petite, and want something that looks cute/hot but definately not slutty. You can wear anything (it's not a Halloween party) and I can afford to buy some pieces for it, but I don't want anything too difficult. If you make a suggestion, could you also please suggest how I could make it?
Ok, thanks, I'll rate for good advice,
FakeArms
well you can be a
princess
angel
butterfly
vampriess
falling angel

&hearts alley

Q: I have had really bad razor bumps under my armpits for awhile now. I have tried everything! I use shaving cream, I have used creams, I have tried different types of razors. I dont know what else to do they're embarrassing. Please help!
well maybe you can go see a doctor and see if the doctor can give you medication for it or maybe it's probaly for a little while if you just started shving..
alley

Q: ok here it goes...My mom had a disease which you call Gillian Bereau in 2001 and she almost died from this and she finally got over this but not fully now we have found out she has lupus but not tha bad kind yet but its still bad and it could get real bad if she dont treat it...She cant swollow nothing she lives off on icecream and boost because something is wrong with her throat that causes her not to be able to swollow nothing so she cant take the pills...im not that healthy myself i have alot of problems and im a 15yr old so im going through the rough times like friend troubles and relationship stuff and now im stayin really stressed out and i dont know what to do about it please help!!
15/Female
well maybe you can things one at a time..and maybe that will help..
alley

Q: I'm being a mouse for halloween, but I dont want to look like a little kid. I'm wearing a cute grey shirt and black plants with a tail and mouse ears. Is there any way I can make my costume cute and maybe a little sexy without being slutty?
you can cut a slit in the shirt and wear it tight...and put on some make up..i hoped that helped..
alley

Q: Hey guys,
I'm gonna be getting some money soon, and I was wanting to get my nose pierced. If any of you have it done, can you let me know how bad it hurt, and how much it was for yours to get done? If you can also can you please let me know what side of your nose your supposed to get pierced? Thank you so much! :-)
well my nose ain't pierced but,my sistr's nose is peirced...she did her nose herself..and she said it hurts lesser than getting your bellybutton pierced..but i don't know how much it cost..
hoped that gave enough information...
alley

Q: my hair isnt naturally straight..its wavy and puffy. and i use a staightener in the morning and i walk to school. by the end of 2nd period my hair is wavyish and puffyish. does anybody have and techniques on how to straighten hair so it doesnt do that?? thanx
well maybe you can get it done professioly but,it might cost alot...
alley

Q: my pet cat is in heat can somebody help me...
well maybe you can take your cat to the vet and see what you can do for your cat...
alley

Q: Hey ummm does anyone have any cute hair styles because i'm runing out of ideas! I have dark brown hair and wear mostly pink( if it helps). It also usually frizzes!!! Well thanx. Will rate high for cute hairstyles!!!
well one thing i can think of is put it up in a clip and haitr spray it...hope i helped...
alley

Q: my mom is getting my back all the time about her husband he ain't my dad he is my step dad...she always be saying all this stuff i can't take it.. can some body help me...i will rate good
well you are going through the same stuff as me...maybe you can try to talk to her about what you feel like even though i did not do that with my mom...good luck..
alley

Q: i need help finding the singer aaliyah cd one in a million...can somebody help me...
you can probaly find it at target or wal mart...
alley

Q: me and my friend are having trouble...well i was going out with this guy for awhile and why we were going out my friend was going out with him to...i don't know how our friendship will last somebody please help...
well maybe you can talk to her and ask her why she was going out with him when she knows that your going out with him...that's what i would do..
alley

Q: I had this "so called friend" today. I was drinking my soda and she purposelly hit the bottle so it spilled. Everywhere. And she laughed. LAUGHED! And it was on my arm, shirt, jeans, chair, floor, and not to mention IN MY HAIR! I was so MAD!Anyway after that I go "what was that for" & she says "i wanted to see what would happen" GRRRR!In that class there are only 3 of us and the third is good friends with her. How should I talk to her tomorrow, or should I talk to her at all? I WANT HONEST OPINIONS!ALL 5s
well at first i wouldn't talk to her then may be later on in class she will probaly talk to you and ask why ain't you talking to me then you can talk to her and tell her why you were not talking to her..
alley

Q: Well my friends and I are trying to decide on costumes. I have NO idea what I want to be. I mean something cute but not very sluttly... maybe just a tad lol. I mean I'm almost 15 and i want to be cute/hott! Do yall have any ideas of what I could be? Please help. Good answers get 5's! xoxo.
p.s. some that work in cold weather or some that work in just good temps. I dont want to wear a bathing suit when if it is like 50ish degrees! Even though I don't think it will be that cold though.

Thanks in advance!
you can be a
model..
angel..
falling angel..
fairy..
goth fairy..

&hearts:alley

Q: Okay I realllllllly want a dog. But my mom says No because I dont take care of the dog. How do I convince or talk to her so she can let me get a little puppy! Please help me .

And if I do get one what should I name her.
I have already had dogs named : Chiqui Nena Reina Princess Dutches Taina Sice

So I wanna try something different. Please help ! thanks .
well if you can do something to earn the dog maybe she will let you have a puppy then...
alley

Q: Ok well im moving and we are finally buying a house. My parents said that we could buy 2 dogs a dog that stays small and a larger dog maybe like a retriever or something. well i get to choose what kind of small dog we want and i need some help, any ideas? also any ideas for names?
thanks for any help!
X to the O
well the kind of small dog that you can get maybe a shitzoo...and names can be probaly what their personality is like...
alley

Q: I CANT TAKE IT. My grandma is such a neat freak and when i set something down in one room and go to another, next thing know the things got moved and I hate it when my stuff gets moved. Oh. and another thing is shes bitching all the time.
She babysits this one kid named jordy and it seems like she likes him better. What should I do?
well maybe you should talk to her and say like i don't like you touching my stuff without permisson and you should talk to her about how she treat's you different then othes...
alley

Q: What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM?
well i would try to asked them why they hate me...and see if you can work things out...
alley

Q: ok my parents were divorced about 4 months ago and my dad is already trying to put another woman in her life. i think hes a complete jerk right now but i really don't kno what to do because i don't want her in our life but i want my dad to be happy. sooo please help me if it makes any sense to you please thnx
well i understand but,if you really don't know her you can give her some time to get to know her maybe you can schedule a day with and get to know her...alley

Q: Hey im being a playboy bunny for halloween with a bunch of my girls... and i was wondering where i should get a bunch of stuff and what i should use.. i either want to be a pink or black one and how to wear my hair/ makeup .. i was thinking a corsette thing and pink booty shorts and high heels and white fishnets or tights well tell me what you guys think!
well if you go to playboyshop.com you will probaly find it there or if you go to the mall you will find one to...for your makeup you should do black eyeliner and mascarea and foundation...i hoped i helped.......
alley

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