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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

i just quit my current j0b and i want to get an0ther 0ne.

i was a baby sitter [im 0nly 15]

what other job could i d0 i really need an0ther j0b

You can work at McDonald's.


And possibly read a dictionary. If you did, you'd know that job, another, one, only, & do have no zeros in them.

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Sorry, I rather work at a store.


And it doesn't look cool. It makes you look incredibly stupid, and it's going to make people think you don't know how to use a keyboard. Rate me all the one's you want, but you're just upset because I gave you a job you didn't want. Sorry, I'm not feeding you what you wanna hear, but that's not how I am sweetie. Get used to it.

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ohkay so i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone just a minute ago. and i told him that i missed him already ( i seen him yesturday ) && he told me that i`m sprung & he likes that. what exactly does that mean. and he also said that he was gettin there with me as well. i`m so confused. what`s it mean when he said that he is almost sprung with me too ? and what does sprung mean.

i`m female - 16
he`s male - 19

Sprung means that you like him & probably wanna have sex with him.


Of course he's going to like it.

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okay so i have this guy best friend like literally best friend i tell him everything he tells me everything nd like well go out to lunch togehter hell walk me to my classes nd wait for me by my locker, like we dont like each other were just best friends nd all my girl best friends are always like ohh u deff like him nd shit nd all his guy friends are the same way cause well hang out alone just us two but weve never done ANYTHING but like weve been best friends for a while nd now im like feeling stuff.. is it just bc our friends are like putting thoughts into my mine or what? sry but i need help lol

You might actually like him but you may not have noticed it before.


If you like him or think you like him, don't spring it on him yet. It may shock him or he may not feel the same. However, if you think he does feel the same, then you should tell him.

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Hey i know this is kinda dumb but me and my Boyfriend have just recently had sex for the first time but he did not pop my cherry and was nowhere close to coming is there anyway i could be pregnant?

If there was no condom, which I'm assuming there wasn't, then yes there is chance. Whether your boyfriend came or not, there is always precum. Precum contains sperm, so yes, there is always a chance.


Don't freak out though. You may not be, but there's always a chance you may be. If your period doesn't come, then I suggest you take a test. If you freak out however, the stress & scare you put yourself through will cause your period to delay, so do not scare yourself & worry yourself to death.

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when i rate i usually go easy on people but other people ask these questions and i dont know why my advice did not get a higher rating. people should really comment on the advice so people can improve or else what is the point? and that people have spent time on their response without knowing why you rejected them when it might have been their fault for not making it clear what they were asking or providing details so we can answer better.

This isn't actually a question. It's more like a discussion topic.

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does anyone know the name of the song and everything, for holes? yano when they sing that song..

It's called "Dig It" by D-Tent. That was the name they went under, so that's probably how you'll find it on Limewire or whatever.

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Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.

I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.

Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?

Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.

Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.

Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.

She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.

It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.


I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.

Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.

I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.

Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do.

Let me ask you a question real fast, okay?


Why in the hell would you leave Dave if he is not the one causing the problem? This situation with Taylor has only a small case that has to do with him. The rest of it is not.


Taylor sounds like a little attention whore who wants all the focus on her, and she wants to be loved. She's pissed that you're with her ex, so she's doing everything in her power to ruin it for you & him.


Dave isn't the person you should be ending relations with. The person you shouldn't be friends with anymore is clearly Taylor. She's evil, decieving & she doesn't know what she wants. If you love this kid, stay with him. But don't leave him because Taylor doesn't know what it is she wants from a relationship.


If she wants to go out with your ex, fine, but she should do it because she wants to & likes him, not because it's "revenge." Honestly, stay with Dave, and stop being friends with Taylor. She's rediculous & a horrible friend.

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I'm going to be a freshman in HS this coming year and I'm moving to a different city so I have to go to a school where I know no one. The thing that's good though is that it's a brand new school and it's just opening up so pretty much everyone's new. Even though that helps me a bit I'm still really nervous for starting HS w/o any of my friends with me. The thing is I can be a really shy person when I first meet new people and I get intimidated easily and the only time I'm really carefree and myself is when I'm surrounded by friends. Since I won't know anyone I know I'm gonna be really shy and it scares me that I won't make any friends, people won't like me, or stuff like that. I'd really appreciate any advice anyone could give me! Thanks!

I know exactly how you feel. Although I didn't go to a new high school, I went to a new elementary school, and whether you're 7 or 14, making friends & going to new places is still diffucult.


First days of school are always tough whether you're alone or not. However, since you are alone, things are different, but only slightly. It's best if you start opening up right now, that way when you get there, you won't be as shy. When the first day of school does happen to come, join clubs, & join sports! Clubs & sports are fun & easy ways to meet people who are interested in the same things you are.


If clubs & sports don't sound appealing to you, say hi to everyone. If they give you a dirty look or don't respond, then they either didn't hear you, or they're extremely stuck up. If people respond back, you know that they're friendly & the chances of you making friends with them is high. Usually in my school, on the first day we do name games & other things like that so people can learn each other's names & maybe talk to each other too. Sometimes the teachers have you mingle amongst yourselves to get to know people a little bit more as an activity for shy kids. Besides, your friends won't always be in your classes, so you can make friends with other people too.



Don't worry about it though. High school is fun & I'm sure you'll love it. Good luck [for when the day comes]!

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i dont like diaryland. pitas has been turned off to new members since forever and theres like no way to contact them. does anyone know more about this?

Instead of using diaryland, why don't you use livejournal or something.


You dislike lots of sites.

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where are some good places to go? im planning on visiting the edmonton mall. what else? its my first time there in canada!

Are you going to be all over Canada, or in just one spot? If you happen to be going all over, go see Niagra Falls. You'll love it. =)

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if you played spin the bottle at a party while your bf/gf was somewhere else and you kissed/made out with someone of the opposite gender in the game, would it be considered cheating on your bf/gf?

I would consider that cheating, and you should tell them. I'm pretty sure that if your boyfriend did that to you, you'd be pissed. So you owe him THAT much by telling him what happened.


I would hope & pray he forgives you. That game should be SINGLES ONLY.

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Is only eating 300 caloroies a day considered anorexic?!

No, but it's dangerous.


Like LadyH said, 1,800 calories are needed per day/

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13/f, i am the youngest of quite a large family. 8 children to be exact, and some of you know how terrible it is to be the youngest. As you know im 13 and i have 5 older sisters, and 2 older brothers. The sister right infront of me is 14, we were bestfriends when we were little. Now she is the most meanest person in the whole intire family, everyone is mean to me, always against me, telling me how stupid i am and immature. In the family everyone has there friends, my first 3 sisters are like best friends and my 2 brothers are bestfriends, and my two other sisters are best friends. Now im on my own, all i have is myself :[ i feel so terrible and unwanted. even my mom gives everyone else more attention and money and time.


how can i help myself not feel so crappy?

thanks :D

Do you have friends from school? Go spend time with them. I'm pretty sure they won't mind hanging out with you, so spend time with them.


Being the youngest isn't always such a horrible thing though. As you get older, things will get better. I promise you. I'm the baby as well, and not everything has sucked for me.

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PLEASE dont say anything negative. I mean I like it when you are honest but there is a difference between honest, and plain mean.

13/f ANYWAYS, i have been going out with this guy for 6 almost 7 months. I am a mormon and im not allowed to date until im 16!! Well i was stupid enough not to tell him that i couldnt date till i was 16..2 months later! The reason being he never asked me to go on a date. But he was pretty sad when he figured i wasnt allowed to date and he just kept saying that my mom and my dad just hated him. My parents are super strict, and there is no way on earth i could sneek a date. I just wish i could make it up to him because i feel SO bad. I mean this guy is SUPER sensitive. :( i just feel so sad.






:[ thank you

Okay, you feel bad. So what?


What exactly is your question? Since you didn't ask one, no one can give you an answer.

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Okay, I'm a fourteen year old girl. There's this guy who used to live pretty close to me and I've met him a few times. A couple years ago he moved to virginia. We started talking online a year and a half ago and we've fallen in love. He's 17. We decided that he can have his girlfriends and I can have my boyfriends. Well, my boyfriend is my brother's best friend. My brother told him about Drew [guy in virginia] and he's making me chose. I've been with my brother's best friend for four months now and I'm pretty sure we're gunna last. We're really good together. But, I've loved Drew for about a year. But, my boyfriend's here and drew's not. I'm honestly clueless. I have no idea what to do. Help please? I'd reallllllyyyy appreciate it.

The answer to your question & you know it, but you wanna hear something else.


Sorry. Your boyfriend is here, and Drew is not. Why dump your boyfriend for some guy in Virginia? You may not see Drew for a while [or ever again] so if you know your boyfriend & you will last, why ruin it?


Stay with your boyfriend but stay friends with Drew in case you & your boyfriend don't work out.

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Hey this was a convo i just had with this guy:

- .SUMMER!. [Awwwwwwwww Cal!] says
ooo look whos online!
-Back to murder... says:
Lol
-Back to murder... says:
hi
- .SUMMER!. [Awwwwwwwww Cal!] says
How was your trip?
-Back to murder... says:
it was fun
-Back to murder... says:
lol
-Back to murder... says:
with lots of laughs
- .SUMMER!. [Awwwwwwwww Cal!] says:
yeah Curtis toldmee
- .SUMMER!. [Awwwwwwwww Cal!] says:
i was talking to neeraj just now n i thought you were with himm cause he kept bringing you up and i was sayinggg ooo id tapp that ..hehe
-Back to murder... says:
have to go
-Back to murder... says:
bye
-Back to murder... says:
might come back on tomorrow
-Back to murder... says:
maybe
-Back to murder... says:
bye

He always leaves whenever i say something sexy like that. Is he shy? He talks to me otherwise...im so confused. I told him a couple of days ago that if as time goes on we could get closer and he smiled and said ok. Im so confused, help please?
Thank youu
i always go to you for advice and you alway give me great ones,
Thank you

14/f



I think he's shy when it comes to things like that. Since he is shy, he may not know what to say so he makes an excuse to leave & then signs off.


You need to talk to him about this though however because he is the only one who can answer your question. Let me know what he says/how things go. Good luck!

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I need help looking for jeans. I want skinny jeans, but not the ones that stick to your skin. Kind of like the baggy skinny jeans, if that makes sense. I've checked Kohl's, Old Navy, Walmart, and Target.

17/male

Try:

- Hot Topic.
- Macy's.
- Pac Sun.
- Zumies.
- American Eagle.
- Hollsiter.
- Aberrombie.
&
- Rue 21.


I can almost promise you that one of those stores will have jeans that you're looking for.

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[15/f] Okay. Tell me what kind of guy would like me. BE SPECIFIC please. I have dark brown hair, big brown eyes, pretty but small lips, my hair is a little past my shoulder and layered, I have swept bangs. I'm 5'1". I love to be outdoors. I love to do anything really. I'm nice. I can stand up for myself though. I'm silly and love to just laugh and constantly make jokes. I'm smart, common sense smart. I'm quick with jokes and comebacks. I dress in jeans/bermuda shorts/screen tees/tee shirts/pretty shirts/tank tops/etc. In school, i'm shy around most people but REALLY out going and funny and fun around my friends. I just want a serious nice relationship that is comfortable and honest. I will try anything once. I like rock music. I like talking on the phone. I'm very loyal and caring to my friends. Yeah... okay so what kind of guy would like that?

Who knows. Every guy is different & likes different things. So to find a guy who likes girls like that would be incredibly hard. Guys will like you but you've gotta be patient about it.

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Long version short:
He's 19/m and I'm about to turn 15[f] in less than 10 days. But that's not important. He's in culinary school in CA and I'm just in high school in VA and I met him through a chat room. We talked everday for a year then he left for culinary stuff and then he got busy with school, job, and his gf. And then we didn't talk for like half a year, then talked 2 or 3 times. Then we lost contact again for like a year now. I REALLY miss him because he was there for me the entire year when I was really screwed up and he talked me out of commiting suicide and he made me feel as if I mattered to someone. HE stayed up till 4 am at times just to make sure I went to sleep smiling. I know it's really pathetic and sad that I'm still lingering over a guy I met in a chatroom. But I can't get over him. I really miss him and I want to get back in contact with him. I still have his address and phone number. Do you think it's a good idea to write him?

I like him like a brother. I'm NOT jailbait. I really miss him and I want to talk to him like I use to again. Again, I am NOT jailbait. I'm not trying to get him in that way.

If you wanna speak to him again, then writing or calling him would be a good idea. Make it clear to him that you don't see him in that way, but you miss talking to him & that you'd like to start up again.


Good luck.

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I probably sound really crazy and like I'm BSing this whole thing, but please believe me when I tell you that I'm telling you the truth and not asking a boggus questions =/

Sometimes when I'm standing up or sitting down or getting up or something like that and doing absolutly nothing, I get dizzy like whoa up to the point where I can't see or hear anything and lose my balance. Everything gets black and then there comes a flash of images that I've never seen before OR I literally see MYSELF at that exact moment. Then I don't know how long passes by or what happened but I find myself elsewhere..not far away from where I was standing but I don't know how I got to that spot if that makes sense.

Like today, I was standing and I got really dizzy. Then I saw something. And I moved several feet, fell, banged my head a table [which still hurts]. And then a mfew seconds later, I was back to myself.

Does this happen to anyone else? What's wrong with me???

You may be dehydrated. Have you been drinking enough liquids? If not, start drinking water more & gatorade. And it might be best if you see a doctor. They'll run some tests & see what's wrong. Nobody here can tell you anything but an opinion on what it may be.

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