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lonnnnggg distance friend...


Question Posted Friday June 29 2007, 11:40 pm

Long version short:
He's 19/m and I'm about to turn 15[f] in less than 10 days. But that's not important. He's in culinary school in CA and I'm just in high school in VA and I met him through a chat room. We talked everday for a year then he left for culinary stuff and then he got busy with school, job, and his gf. And then we didn't talk for like half a year, then talked 2 or 3 times. Then we lost contact again for like a year now. I REALLY miss him because he was there for me the entire year when I was really screwed up and he talked me out of commiting suicide and he made me feel as if I mattered to someone. HE stayed up till 4 am at times just to make sure I went to sleep smiling. I know it's really pathetic and sad that I'm still lingering over a guy I met in a chatroom. But I can't get over him. I really miss him and I want to get back in contact with him. I still have his address and phone number. Do you think it's a good idea to write him?

I like him like a brother. I'm NOT jailbait. I really miss him and I want to talk to him like I use to again. Again, I am NOT jailbait. I'm not trying to get him in that way.

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christina answered Saturday June 30 2007, 12:50 am:
If you wanna speak to him again, then writing or calling him would be a good idea. Make it clear to him that you don't see him in that way, but you miss talking to him & that you'd like to start up again.


Good luck.

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Master_Betty answered Saturday June 30 2007, 12:14 am:
As long as you make it clear that you're not after him like that, then what harm could it do?

It's got to be worth a try anyway!

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