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umm so im ready to begin shaving " down there " but the thing is .. i dont know if i should shave it all off .. trim it .. or just shave some. im confortable with anything but im just confused with which one to do .. becuase if i do just trim it and leave hair and a boy gos down there.. i dont want him to be grossed out .. or if i do shave it all off.. i dont want him to be grossed out by that either .. so if anyone can answer my question by there experience of what boys like better or what u do .. ill be sure to give in a five =]

It's all about what you like. No guy will be disgusted by your hair or lack there of. the only thing a guy would find repulsive about down there is if it smelled bad. But, anyways I read in my Cosmpolitan that 63% of guys prefer a landing strip.

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hi does anyone know where ican find like cute and funny quotes for liek best friends?? liek the ones that say oo a friend would do this... but a best friend would....
and also cute and funny lvoe quotes??

www.firehotquotes.com

There awesome!!

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my boyfriend is a cousin ov mine.we have been together for one year and are mad about each other.just lately we have been arguing alot and he has started to get paranoid about us been seen together. im really scared of losing him. does he love me or not?

It doesn't matter if you were brought up close together or not. What does matter is what line of cousin's is he? Your 1st? 2nd? 49th? If yall are super close, please know that in the future should you get pregnant by him, there is a higher risk for your child being born with birth defects. I can understand why he wouldn't want to be seen with his cousin in a relationship way. I'm sure he does have feelings for ya' but even he know's that it's just not right to be in a relationship with you.

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okay well, im 14 years old and my bf does foreplay, where he sucks my breasts. and i was reading a magazine somewhere and it said that one time a girl did the same thing, and she started producing milk because her body thought something needed it, because her boyfriend was sucking it. im so scared im going to start producing milk, please help!

If some girl in a magazine started producing milk, it was because she was pregnant! simple as that. No you won't. And get protection if you going to be having sex at 14.

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my mom reads all my stuff. including instant messages. and like, i can't make her go so i can talk privatley. but, today i come home from a trip and she's going to make me talk to these people online and

#1: i don't want to tell them what she wants me to tell them
#2: i don't want her to see the convo because i'm afraid the other person is going to talk about stuff

please help me fast! i can't just tell her *stay out* because that won't work! i've tried that already but she won't stop. help me please!

thank you!

That's why every teenager needs to know the CODE.
Try to talk to your friend beforehand and let her in on the "CODE". Anytime your on the phone or internet and your parentals walk in, simply say or type "LE" it means Listening Ears. And then they got the hint that a parent was either listening or reading what they were writing so esssentially the subject got changed- and fast.

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I have a very weird body shape. I'm fat, so I wear a size 12/14 in jeans. Problem is, I can't find any jeans that fit me well! All of them fit me fine in everyy place, except the backs of my thighs!! Jeans NEVER ever ever fit there. They will fit on my butt, and lower legs (calves) fine, but the back of my thighs..never. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do, or what stores might have jeans that'll fit me there? I'm also very short, so that might be part of the problem? I'm 5'1.

Since when was a size 12/14 fat? TV and the Media put those thought in everyone's head that if your not a size 2 then your just not good enough. Real women have curves. I'm 5 ft. tall and I get my jeans from Old Navy or *Goody's* they fit really good. Try buying some L.E.I.'s there awesome.

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Im getting my belly naval pierced tomorrow and i was wondering on a scale 1 - 10. 10 being the worst.. how bad did it hurt? Im kind of nervous but I just want a heads up thing. Thanks in advanced

hmmm like a 5 for me. Everyone has different pain tolerance's. I hate pain! But, as they say... Pain IS beauty.

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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?

That's average height for that age.

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ok i am 14 turning 15 in a few days and i worrie that my boobs wont grow and i am planning on having sex soon and i can't have sex if i have really really really small boobs can i well see the guy thinks i have boobs because i wear a pushup bra and it makes it look like i do have boobs i mean can an7one help me how can i make my boobs bigger is there something i can eat i am 5'4 105 pounds and i have really small boobs please help me how can i fix my problem do you think the guy would notice alot and would get a little weirded out and don't say there isn't a way to make them bigger because i know there is

Yes there is a way to make them bigger~breast implants. That's it. Don't think because you take a pill, or eat a certain food your boobs will just magically grow. It dont work that way. Take a look at your mom's rack, more than likely yours will resemble her's. If a guy get's weirded out about your boobs-or lack there of, then he is a jerk. There is nothing wrong with being smaller chested...Sh*t, wish I was.

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17 female and i've been doing cyber sex online without my parents knowing of course and I was wondering if i've been doing cyber sex did i lose my virginity?

Please say this is a "just for laughs" question??

The only way you will ever loose your virginity is if you have SEX. THE REAL DEAL.

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Hey. Im 13/f and I need easy ways to make some quick money. I know babysitting is an esay way but there arent many little kids in my neighborhood and nobody ever asks me to babysit. Im willing to help around the house and outside but its just so hot. Are there any other ways you can think of? Thank you soo much! I really need this answer!

1. Babysit
2. Mow yards (at night it's not that hot outside)
3. Clean your house
4. Do laundry
5. Clean other people's house
6. Dog sit
7. Wash and clean dogs
8. Lemonade stand
9. Get all your friends together and have a carwash
10. wash and clean out your parents car, $5.00 a piece.
11. Have a yard sale on Saturday

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I'm a twenty year old female who finally gave herself to a guy. I have always been worried about having sex and getting pregant the first time. My mother always told me that you have to have an orgasim to get pregant. Is that true?

LOL She might of told you that to scare you so you wouldn't have sex. No that is NOT true. It's up to the guy to get your prego. You cumming has nothing to do with it.

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I went to a picnic and they had this dish that had ramen noodles (uncooked) cabbage, lettuce, sunflower seeds in it. It was sweet tasting. I really liked it and am wondering if anyone has the recipe or knows what it is called so i can look it up on the internet? thanks in advance...i rate

I can't help you...sorry. But, that is a weird sounding dish, If you find out what it's called, lemme know!!

EDIT: Top Ramen Salad Supreme is the name of the dish your talking about. I just made a call. Yep I went out of my way to HELP YOU.

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Ever since a few days ago, I've been discharging WAY more than I ever have. It feels like I'm peeing, when I'm not...
I'm not sexually active, and I shouldn't have my period for another two weeks.
Why all of a sudden am I discharging so much?
&, i repeat, i have NEVER discharged this much before in my life.
Also, when I go to...well, i'll be blunt, wipe myself after i go to the bathroom, it looks like i sneezed there is so much discharge on the toilet paper.
It's really disgusting, and it's really uncomfortable. Two questions.

1. what might be the cause of this?
2. how can I make it not as thick?

So you still have 2 more weeks before your period...sounds to me like your ovulating. Clear mucus is ovulation and white is usually post ovuation. (Ovulation: The formation of ova or eggs in the ovary, and the discharge of the same. In the human female the discharge occurs about halfway between menstruation times- meaning, it's your body's way of preparing for a "baby") Don't worry, everything's fine, your normal.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. The first few months we started dating, he asked me the usual "virginity" questions and things like that.. I told him everything, BUT I added and took away things to make me sound ok. I still wasn't comfortable telling him everything.

After the drama of me being a "liar", I prayed, and realized that if I want this relationship to be the way it needs to, then I need to let him know EVERYTHING about me. Nothing should be hidden. So, at 4am (what a great time) I let him know.

8 months later, he has moved to my city for me, we'll be going to school together.. basically starting a new chapter. Everything is PERFECT.

I live in a VERY small town where everyone knows everyone and everyone likes to have something to say bad about someone. A guy that comes into my boyfriends store often came in to tell my boyfriend a handful of LIES about me. The things he said didn't derive from any truth.. they were literally made up off of the top of his head. My boyfriend knew this guy lies about a lot of things, but then someone I had never met before that was friends with the liar backed him up.

The liar is someone I went to highschool with, but never knew. I knew of him. The other guy I have yet to have ever met him, nor have seen in my entire life. Plus.. both guys kept saying to my boyfriend "don't tell her we said this.." That's pretty obvious to me that those were all lies.

I want to confront the liars without making a scene.

I feel like I'm 15 again.

Why can't people grow up, and why can't my boyfriend believe me??? I have been truthful to him since the one and only incident before.

I'm way past this nonsense drama. I'm ready for a future and I can't have this future here with people like that. I'm tired of people that I don't even KNOW stepping into my relationship and causing problems.

...I'm clueless.. Hopefully this will blow over.

wow that's what I HATE about small town's. Some people aint' got nothing else better to do but stir up shit where there isnt any.

Tell him straight up, I dont know these people, I dont know why there wanting to lie about me, I have told you the truth, I love you with all my heart but, you believe them if you want to. I thought we were stronger than that.

Wait for his reaction, and go from there. You need to put your foot down. Letting him know you have been honest but your not going to keep defending yourself. Your not in the wrong. He is if he believes these jerks over you.

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Im really nervous to have sex with my boyfriend even though we've been dating for a long time. I want things to be perfect. How do I prepare myself for sex? I shave everything in that area and I know about protection, but I want to know some ways that girls get ready for sex, or any opinions of what guys like. If he gives me oral Im scared that it will like taste funny down there...are there ways that I can make sure its okay? Any advice is apprecitated. Thanks

Hmmm I don't know to much about flavored condoms but if I had to pick, I would want him to give me oral BEFORE we had sex. This lubes you up enough to get ready for the real deal. Also if you have sex first then he eats you out, you've got sweat all mixed in with the "taste" not something that sounds to appetizing to me. If ya can spare $10 bucks go to walmart and on the perfume isle buy the lickable lotion by Jessica Simpson. At first my hubby thought it was dumb but the other day I told him I was out and HE WENT AND GOT ME ANOTHER BOTTLE!! lol

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I am 15 years old, female, and I wear a size DDD38. I need to know where I can find cheap strapless bras that are in my size range. I have a tube top that I want to wear, but I need to also wear a strapless bra with it, so that my bra doesn't show, I am wearing this top with some cute capris, because I am going on a date. If you can help me, please and thank you!

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=2652334
Go there. Also, Located in the bra department is these stickers that you apply over your breast to help hold them up. They work excellent. I am a 38DDD as well, so if you decide to do that, you will need 2 stickers per boob because you are so heavy cheasted. They cost like $2.48 for a package of 2 and cover just as much as a strapless bra would.

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my whole jaw on the right side, like hurts to open my mouth. so i havent eaten for the past 3 days. & my ear like hurts really bad, to where i cant lay on it. & like it hurts so much, it makes me cry. & i dont usually cry, when im hurt. so yeah, it hurts really bad. so should i see a doctor? & does anyone know what that is? or have u ever had it?

Story of my life. Seems to me, (although I'm not a Dr., it's only my opinion) but, it seems as though you have a inner ear infection. Yes you should go to a Dr. right away. There's no need to be in pain when you dont have to be. Here's what I did growing up when I had one and was crying. It's only a temporairly solution but in the 2 minutes it lasted, it brought me much happinness lol. Take a washcloth, wet it and then put it in the microwave for like 30 seconds, tilt your head and "drape" the washcloth over your ear. You'll be amazed at how much better you'll feel, but it only lasts like 2 or 3 minutes but I guess if you were like me and stayed up all night crying, anything helps.

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my boyfreind showed everyone his private area and im really hurt.
should i break up with him?

So...... I think that it totally depends on the circumstance. Like did he show a bunch of girls? Or was he in the guys locker room and did it for a couple laughs? If it was a locker-room type deal, I'd let it go. Guys do things like that and while we are like omg he's so embarassing, they think it's hilarious. In any way, if it makes you upset, let him know that it is un-acceptable behavior if his intentions are to keep dating you.

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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.

No one here can tell you if your old enough to have sex, if we did that would only be our opinions. Which you shouldnt act upon because just because someone here could say yea, your ready and then you go and actually do it and end up regretting it... Your the one that will end up suffering the consequences not any one here. Sex is a very big issue, not something to be taken lightly. I'm not telling you to wait and I'm not telling you to go big or go home either.

Having asked the question means to me it no doubt is on your mind, so it wont be long before you do it, so to answer your question, being ready is only when you are mature enough to do it in a manner where you dont loose respect for yourself, and know and practice ALL factors in doing SAFE sex.

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