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Preparation
Im really nervous to have sex with my boyfriend even though we've been dating for a long time. I want things to be perfect. How do I prepare myself for sex? I shave everything in that area and I know about protection, but I want to know some ways that girls get ready for sex, or any opinions of what guys like. If he gives me oral Im scared that it will like taste funny down there...are there ways that I can make sure its okay? Any advice is apprecitated. Thanks
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Well if your so nervous maybe you arnt ready.You cant just say.Ok im doing it...so how can I get ready for it?If you feel comfortable and you are ready then thats the perfect time.Dont think just because you guys have been going out for a long time means you guys should have sex, it all depends.A lot of girls think that a guy giving them oral is like...omg why would you wnat to do that it tastes disgusting.I've heard from alot of guys that its not that bad but theres tons of girls that think the same way you do.But if your unsure still you could always have a shower right after you guys have sex or you guys can used flavoured condoms.Its not just a benfit for us giving guys oral but also have sex with a flavoured condom also makes us taste good too LoL :P.You could also try flavoured lubricant too...im pretty sure they have that.
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First of all please don't sprinkle cinnamon (or ANYTHING) in your panties.. I don't know who thought of that but it's crazy.
Also, oral is to be done BEFORE you have sex.. and you generally don't do it your very first time having sex. I guess you could try it. If he's that much more experienced than you (to where he's mentioned it or is planning on doing it) then maybe you shouldn't have sex with him.
Make sure you are on birth control AND you use condoms.. I got pregnant on birth control so I always tell everyone to use condoms ALSO. And condoms can break, so that's why birth control is like the backup.
Also taking a shower right before sex is a good way to make sure you'll smell OK down there. And it won't taste funny if it doesn't smell funny.
Good luck and this is a big deal so please make sure it's what you want, and that he's not using you.
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Hmmm I don't know to much about flavored condoms but if I had to pick, I would want him to give me oral BEFORE we had sex. This lubes you up enough to get ready for the real deal. Also if you have sex first then he eats you out, you've got sweat all mixed in with the "taste" not something that sounds to appetizing to me. If ya can spare $10 bucks go to walmart and on the perfume isle buy the lickable lotion by Jessica Simpson. At first my hubby thought it was dumb but the other day I told him I was out and HE WENT AND GOT ME ANOTHER BOTTLE!! lol
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I get ready by making myself feel pretty. I take a shower, shave everywhere, and after showering I put baby oil on my legs and stomach. If you are worried about tasting funny (I still feel a little funny about that sort of thing) I would have intercourse before he gives you oral sex. Be sure to use a flavored condom, your vagina will then taste like the condom did. It's great :) I've also heard in a magazine that you can sprinkle cinamon in your panties to make you taste good. I've never personally done it, but hey it's worth a shot. Have fun.
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i totally agree with the girl below me.
even if you don't think you will regret it,you probably will.
you may even think you will be together forever,but the fact is that things happen.
you're young,and the chances that you two will be together for the rest of your lives is very slim.
just don't do something that you mihght regret or that you aren't 150% sure of.
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I'm assuming this is your first time? Honey, don't do anything now that you will regret in the future. Even if you don't think you'll regret it now, you will, trust me. Loosing your virginity to someone is a big deal, and you shouldn't do it if you're not 100% sure. If you're going to break up with the guy soon, or if you aren't completely sure that you will be together a year from now, or two years from now, you definitely should not even consider having sex with him. My advice: Save yourself for marriage.
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