She is cheating on me with her ex boyfriend what should I do?
Even if you love her, forgive her and take her back, chances are she's going to repeat her actions. She obviously doesn't have the same feelings toward you, as you do her. If she did, she wouldn't have cheated. I'm afraid it's time to move on and let her be someone else problem. I hope this helps and good luck.
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What is lubrication?
Sometimes when a woman's vagina doesn't get wet enough, you can use a lubricant so there isn't any friction or uncomfortable feeling for either partner. Most condoms come pre-lubricated, so there's no need to buy extra. There's many different kinds on the market but one of the most known is ky brand. I hope this helps and good luck.
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long story short: my boyfriend and i got into a heated argument last night and things just went a little too far (i was drunk and he was drinking a lot too). i said some things i didn't mean, but he took it to the next level and said some REALLY mean things.... what should i do? my feelings are completely hurt and i feel like i could never forgive him for saying those things... any advice would be great, thanks y'all.
Whenever I was drunk and there was an argument, I usually didn't care who I hurt, I just wanted to win. I'm guessing that's what your boyfriend was doing...trying to win. Of course after you're sober, you realize that no one wins at that point and there's a big mess to clean up. Tell him that you understand that alcohol was a big part of your argument but you need to find out how much of what he said was true. Because there's usually a little bit of truth hidden when there's alcohol talking. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My husband and I have a girlfriend but he is into it more than I am. It was my idea to keep our relationship interesting and to be honest it kind of turns me on to think of him with another woman BUT at times I find myself getting somewhat jealous of this other woman. I don't know if it is a good idea to continue this if I get jealous when he kisses her or texts her. But at the same time I like watching them have sex especially if I am apart of it. I'm worried that my emotions are going to cause this relationship to cause problems with my husband and I. I know he is enjoying this and all I want is for him to be happy. I don't want him to get bored with me. But I don't know if it is wise to continue this if I am not 100% happy with this arrangement. I am also 9 months pregnant so that may have something to do with why my emotions are up and down about this. I'm torn...
I've had my share of threesomes in my day but never a relationship like yours. It may be time to sit down with your husband and discuss your concerns. Let this current girl go and if you decide you still want to continue this lifestyle, pick another woman and have a real sit down talk to lay out all the rules of the relationship, so that no one gets hurt. Make sure your husband knows that you need his heart and soul but he can have another woman for pure pleasure. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm an 18 year old female with nothing on my sexual resume. I've never been kissed and the furthest I've gone with a guy is an awkward pat on the back. I am too the point where sex is just about all I can think about. I wanted to wait, and save myself for the right moment. Now all I want (or it really feels like need) is someone to just hold me, touch me, anything. Masturbation can only get you so far. I'm not this girl, I wanted to fall in love and have it mean something, but now I can't wait, I don't want to wait and its literally driving me up the walls. What am I supposed to do with myself, do I just go find the nearest guy and jump into bed with him? I don't want to feel like this anymore. Please.
I went through that for a short time where all I wanted was to get some one night stands to make me feel better. But what I realized what I really needed was to be in a relationship. Don't get me wrong, part of it was fun and some of the sex was great but it was all empty love. I'm not going to talk you out of hooking up but if you do, try to get a close friend that you can trust and won't hurt you. Most guys don't mind being a booty call for a good friend. If you want to happy for a long time, try to get out there and find a boyfriend. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I can never let go during sex.what I mean by that is I never mmoan or speak dirty or make any noises to show I'm enjoying it.
I feel so awkward doing it and feel like I loolk and sound so stupid.
How do I just moan and show the guy I love it?
Try it by yourself a few times when you've got some free time and an empty house. Go online and watch a little porn like on redtube.com or xhamster.com. You don't have to go the extreme as those women do but it will help you explore your sexual side and find a way to open up to your boyfriend. Trust me when I tell you that most guys don't care how it sounds or what you look like because they're happy when they think they're doing a good job. And for them to think they're doing a good job, you have to give them some kind of sign that you're enjoying sex. I would start slow with a little moaning, then when you're comfortable, you can move up to little noises. Then when you've moved on, you can move to the dirty talk. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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how do you hold up a string of lights on your wall like http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lg7t088Ks61qa4xp7o1_500.png?
Double sides sticky tape or sticky pads will work well. You can find them at most drug or home improvement stores. I hope this helps and good luck.
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How can I cum while having sex quicker or in the normal missionary position because so far all I've been able to is during doggy style
Write me in my inbox and let me know if you're male or female and I'll try to help out.
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My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for a little over a month, and have had sex a total of 4 times. Last night was the first time without a condom, so we used lubricant. Afterwords, I was extremely sore and uncomfortable. At home, I saw that my entire genital area was swollen. I tried to reduce the swelling with an ice pack, but this morning it's no different. Having never had any reaction to condoms, I'm concerned that this has to do with the lube.
We lost our virginity to each other, no I'm not seeking advice for possible STDs.
Sorry it took so long to get back but I was out of town for a few days. It was definitely the lube and a couple of things you can do in the future is to be more selective about which lube you use. Do not use the heated or flavored lubes. Try using a water based or ones with natural botanical ingredients. Those are less likely to have an allergic reaction with your vagina. If you're still having troubles with those, then you may just have to rely on the old standby of saliva. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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okay so me and my girlfriend were getting coffee and since it was night and the noise from the cars and people went away, we thought that it was okay to have some fun . so we started playing on the park slides and when we got to the monkey bars we started kissing and soon we were making out and when i held her i found out she was wet and we were about to take it to the next level and we did but is this illegal because i dont want us to get in trouble
Yes but only if you get caught...lol. It's called indecent exposure and they could get you with tresspassing because most parks close after dark. I've done it lots of times but never got caught. Next time you want to try somthing like that, have her wear a dress, so she can cover up quickly. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hello my question is how do i dress up as a sexy vampire. my town is having a valentines day vampire day bascially. im a female age 21 and i dont want to spend a lot of money at all. the reason i am so concerned is because i will be getting pictures taken and modeling my costume so id like to look good. ive never had my pictures taken by a professional. any ideas would be great! Thank You
I would try a local resale shop, goodwill or salvation army store. Look up your favorite vampire look and try to duplicate that with similar outfits. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm a 15 year old girl and people at school have started to call me a lesbian even though I'm NOT just because I've never dated anyone and have few guy friends. It's hurtful and I don't know what to do. HELP!
There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian but I understand being called something your not. A little snappy comeback is when someone calls you a lesbian, "what...are you afraid I'll steal your girlfriend because I'm better than you?" One other thing I wonder, is the company that you keep at school. Do you hang out with the butch looking or dark lonely girls? School kids have always and will never stop being cruel and judgmental. If you act like it doesn't bother you and eventually make fun of yourself, they'll be left with nothing to say to you anymore. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So stupidly, I let my boyfriend take a picture of me without a shirt or bra on..... He later on got mad at me and sent it to all of my friends and even to people that I dont know. I went to the police and they said they couldn't do anything because it wasn't a crime. They told me that I could go to a civil attorney and maybe get some answers. See, I don't want to waste a ton of money doing this so does anyone know if there is anything that I can even do about it? Please let me know. Also don't comment on this telling me how dumb I am for doing that because believe me, I know. I just need someone answers.
Take him back for a bit, get him drunk, take some inappropriate pictures of him and get your revenge. Other than that, most lawyers won't take your case and even if you find one, you'll probably lose without a major history of mental abuse or if he ruined your career because of this. I'm sure you learned your lesson that men can be real jackasses. I hope this helps and good luck.
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my husband wants me to be mroe bold when i'm ontop of him while in bed... any suggestions?
The reverse cowgirl is good. That's where you are facing away and riding him. Another variation is to have him put his knees up, lean back into him and put your feet on his knees and ride him that way. My man loves it where I squat on his penis and the only thing touching him is my vagina. When your on top, grab your breasts and rub your clit a little. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm interested in having anal sex, what are some good douching methods? I really don't want to embarass myself in front of the guy that I'm interested in and plan on having anal sex with. I'm also currently on my period right now, should I wait until I'm off my period to douche or can I start douching now?
The period doesn't really matter but some guys are turned off by sight of a little blood and sometimes if there's a little smell. The local drugstore is a good idea or e-bay has some cooler looking devices for cleaning things out. If you need any advicce with the anal sex, please send a message to my inbox. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok so I was just wondering how you get an older guy to like you, anywere from 1 to 5 years older. Please don't give answers like you don't need anyone that much older, I am just wondering how you get someone older to like you? please help and don't say like be yourself because I know that haha(: Thanks(:
In most cases it doesn't matter what the age difference but unfortunately in the US there are age limits and the threat of rape if you're under 18 and the man your seeking is over 18. With that said, you can attract an older guy the same way you would with any guy. Find some common interests, hang out at the same spots, find out what foods he likes, what music he listens to and then go ahead and make the first move. Invite hime to lunch or coffee sometime. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he wants to start having sex. Hes not a virgin and really likes sex. We do a lot of other stuff together like oral sex and fingering and he says it feels good but he has been asking for sex for a while now. Im a virgin not for religious or moral reasons but just because I never felt it was right, but Im beginning to think whats the big deal and maybe I should just do it with him already. I mean we play with my toys and he plays with those inside me and he fingers inside me so whats the difference? The only thing my friends tell me is that with sex its harder to cum - is that true? How can I make sure I cum because that seems to be the main things my friends dont like about sex?
Don't feel pressured into having sex. Have sex when you're ready and you feel the time is right. You're friends are correct as it's more difficult to orgasm from straight sex. I rarely cum from regular sex and if i do, it's a small one. If you have a small vibrator, I would suggest using it during sex. Make sure your boyfriend understands that it's not a reflection on his performance but an enhancement to bring you pleasure. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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okay, ive had sex with my ex and my current boyfriend.. i use to be able to orgasim on top during sex but now i cant even do that ANYMORE. maybe its because i use to be tigether.. i dont understand why everyone else ENJOYS SEX AND I CANT. ive looked on google bllablahblagh excercise does nothing. honestly i dont even feel fit to be a women, i almost comitted suicide because of it. whats the point of being a women if you cant climax from sex? I know it sounds stupid but i wanna enjoy it like everyone else. Everytime me and my boyfriend try of course he loves it but i literally feel something for ten seconds then NOTHING. i hate myself. i hate my body. i just want to enjoy sex like everyone else cause everytime me and my boyfriend try and it doesnt feel good i contemplate suicide.
I think suicide is a little drastic for not enjoying sex. Here is some advice to get back in the swing of things. I think you need to discover your body on your own first before you work on being with your boyfriend. Try to take a few hours and have a "play day". Take a nice relaxing bath and discover ways you enjoy being touched, including where and how hard or soft. Don't rub your clit but everywhere else is fine. Go to your computer and watch a little porn (redtube.com and xhamster.com) and find out what turns you on. Lay on the bed and let your mind go blank. Go slow and tease yourself. Let the orgasm build. the longer you wait, the bigger the O will be. I have my best O's when I've teased myself all day. When you get close to orgasm, break out a vibrator or use your fingers on your clit and hopefully you'll have a nice big O. After you've done that a few different times, you'll be ready to move onto trying with your boyfriend. When your with him, go as slow as possible. Start with slow kisses and let his hands roam over your body but have him stay away from your clit to prolong the teasing. Your mind and body needs to be ready before he moves on to the target area. That should be the last thing he works on. I think you'll know after a good amount of teasing, when your ready to cum. I hope you let me know how things turn out and if you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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How do you know if a charity/mission trip agency is reputable and reliable? I have no idea but to check their official website. But isn't all the stuff going to say great things since it's THEIR website?
Any reputable charity will be listed with the BBB. That's a good place to start. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Hi,i am loosing my hair very fastly.please advise some hair treatment to gain hair loss.
There's a good chance that you have alopecia. You can go to a good dermatologist and have injections put into your scalp to slow things down and hopefully reverse things. I had a friend that went through this and was brought on by major stress in his life but I know there are other causes for this. I hope this helps and good luck.
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