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My boyfriend too a picture of me without a top on..... bad idea (legal adv)


Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2011, 2:41 pm

So stupidly, I let my boyfriend take a picture of me without a shirt or bra on..... He later on got mad at me and sent it to all of my friends and even to people that I dont know. I went to the police and they said they couldn't do anything because it wasn't a crime. They told me that I could go to a civil attorney and maybe get some answers. See, I don't want to waste a ton of money doing this so does anyone know if there is anything that I can even do about it? Please let me know. Also don't comment on this telling me how dumb I am for doing that because believe me, I know. I just need someone answers.

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Additional info, added Wednesday February 2 2011, 2:42 pm:
Oh by the way I am a 19 year old female..

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julie75 answered Thursday February 3 2011, 6:18 pm:
Take him back for a bit, get him drunk, take some inappropriate pictures of him and get your revenge. Other than that, most lawyers won't take your case and even if you find one, you'll probably lose without a major history of mental abuse or if he ruined your career because of this. I'm sure you learned your lesson that men can be real jackasses. I hope this helps and good luck.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday February 2 2011, 6:51 pm:
Sorry. Over 18 you allowed him to take the picture, allowed him to have it. As the cops said, it's not a crime. You could try to sue but the fact is that your real damages are emotional. You haven't been to (and probably don't need or could prove you needed) a psychiatrist or something. You're upset and pissed off, courts don't take cases that involve just a small (by average court standards) emotional distress.

All you can do is let it go. Trying to get back at him within the confines of the legal system isn't likely to do anything but waste your time and make you more frustrated that you can't get back at him.

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Xui answered Wednesday February 2 2011, 6:49 pm:
Have you tried going to the police station and file harassment charges against him? You stated you went to the police station...but this shouldn't keep you from being able to file a complaint or harassment. The police should of at least giving your boyfriend a warning.




I'm not going to lecture you but I advise you to be very careful in the future who you send pictures too.


I'm sorry I wasn't much of a help on this one but if the cops didn't do much to help you out...I really don't know what else to say other than trying what I suggested above.

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