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I want to find Coo-Coo-Chee by Ric-A-Che but all the Xanga music sites I've looked at either don't have it or the link doesn't work. Does anyone know where I can find it?
You can check http://www.cdzinc.org. They have many songs. Good luck!
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Okay, sorry this is going to sound really stupid and like im really rude and stuff, but i know im not skinny and im kinda fat..i weigh 128 pounds and im 5'5..but in PE we weighed ourselves and thats what it said (then i went to the doctor and it was the same weight there too..so i know its right) my friend in PE was like the same as me..but she likes to feel better about herself and shes telling everyone i weigh like 140..i guess thats not that bad..but still, i dont want everyone to think im even more fat then i already am. She told one of my friends (lets call her F) that and F WONT believe me at all. Then i told one of my other friends (lets call her X) what i really weigh and she told F. But F was like no she doesnt, she weighs 140. uugh its just really annoying that she won't believe me. I guess i don't really care that much..i don't even like people knowing how much i weigh. But yeah. What should i do to get her to believe me and everyone to just shut up about it? Should i just ignore it?
Thanks for any help..
Either confront her and tell her that your weight is your own business, or weigh yourself in front of the people she's telling, so they'll see she's wrong.
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can some one give me step - by - step how to do those cute little hearts i know its &hearts but it never works
Don't foreget the ; at the end. Its & hearts ; (no space).
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I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me.
No, no, no! Its definately not too late! God is thrilled to be in your heart & glad that you have let him into it. No one is perfect and people make mistakes. Ask God for foregiveness and keep things right from now until forever. I'm sure theres a good church in your area that will be good to go to to learn more about God and your religion. There will be TONS of welcoming people there, and different groups (I'm sure there will be some kind of Single Moms class that will help you out). I know at my church they have all kinds of stuff for the different groups, and they're always getting together and either doing luncheons, or having retreats to get away and learn more about God (I'm a Southern Baptist, Christian). If you aren't regularly attending a church, its something positive to get involved in and a great atmosphere. And if you ever need any help, you can always talk to your Pastor about problems, or if you need to open up. Good luck!
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I have no job right now and have been on what seems like a thousand interviews?I seem to fail them all. Does a job recruiter have any tips on what I can say and do to land a job? I have alot of good experience just tense up at interviews?
Don't tense up so much at interviews. Just keep telling yourself, loosen up, loosen up. That always works for me. Sometimes I just have to tell myself, and force myself. But these interviews are really good experience. Do you feel like you've gained any self confidence after going to many interviews? If so, maybe doing these interviews is really helping & preparing you for a job that you'll really want in the future and by all these interviews, you'll be able to get through that one like that. Just remember, the person interviewing is just a person like you. Talk to them with somewhat a professional level, but at the same time, like you've known them for awhile. Also, make sure you dress good & prepare a good resume, and sort of know the place so if they ask you questions like "Whats your favorite drink here?" or "What kind of things do you like about our store?", etc. That will also help you. Good luck!
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Ok well our last day of school was last thursday and i told my b/f to come to school b/c that was the last day i would be able to see him b/c he was going to another school.well he didn't come so i didn't get to say goodbye or get a pic of him so i could remember him!i don't have his phone number or anything so i can't call him! what should i do so i can get over this?
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Well, it doesn't seem like you two were that attatched anyways. You didn't have his phone number which says you two didn't really talk outside of school. If you really want to get ahold of him, maybe call around and see if anyone has his phone number. But if I was in your shoes, I would foreget about it. Theres plenty of other people out there that would be good with you, someone you could talk to and hang out with outside of school, and someone who would've gone to school just because they knew it meant a lot to you. Good luck
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How much sleep should a person get?
Around 7 hours.
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hello ms. butt. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Bob asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors!
No, I don't think you're wierd at all! You're very unique is what it is. And I think unique is the best way to go!
Hmm... what does "sexy" mean? If you're actually asking me what the word means (if you've never heard it before) its anything that is appealing or highly attractive. Now if you're asking me what people think is "sexy", theres no right or wrong answer. What might be sexy to someone might not be to someone else. Is it appropriate? Well, that depends on where you are and what is allowed, etc.
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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!!
If your parents are around, tell them your situation and see if they can keep your little brother busy while your boyfriend is there. Maybe put a movie on, or have him play outside with some neigborhood kids or something.
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okay so ive been goin out with this guy for like 2 months and we're both 14. i really like him alot and i want to invite him over to my house. but i dont know how to keep him entertained... because its not like i can have him in my bedroom because my parents will b home. what can we do? i never had a boy over to my house before so im kinda new at all this. please help me quick. and i dont want some things like play board games... cuz thats lame... or do alot of people do that with their boyfriends and girlfriends?
You can always rent a movie that the two of you like.
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I really want to enter the NA Miss Competition in my state, but my parents are big anti-modeling and anti-cheerleading because they think it's a brainless thing that only focuses on the outside. They don't really know that this competition takes grace, poise, and intelligence to win, and it's not even focused on beauty. I really want to let them know, but they have EXTREMELY closed minds about things like that. If I mention the word "model" in front of my mother, she flips out and gives me her anti-modeling speech. My parents are from a rigid family that believes in moral values and modesty, and there is only that in this competition. How can I show them that I want to be in this competition and open their minds to it?
I've been in a pageant before, and its not about beauty on the outside. They also ask you certain questions, such as "What word describes you most, and why" and you'll have to speak, and give an explanation. I remember the interview before the whole pageant (for me, it went interview to get into the pageant, if you made it, then in a few weeks you had orientation, later that night, we came back to the hotel for a high-security party, then we had an interview with all the judges and they told us how to act before we went in, like shake the hands, etc., then a week later we had rehearsal and then that night was the pageant), they asked me a bunch of questions such as "What do you do in your spare time?" and at the time I was volunteering at a local hospital and I was in Girl Scouts and I earned a big award. Of course they're going to pick me over a girl who says "Oh, I get like, manis and pedis and talk on my cell phone all day long". See, being more involved will get you in the pageant. All those girls on stage have done something amazing in their lives, which is why they're up there...not just because they have blonde hair and a skinny body. Many of those girls have something in common with your family, they believe in moral values and modesty as well. So you're parents really have nothing to argue about. If you want to be in this competition really bad, you should let your parents know that, and regardless of what your dream is, they should support it. Tell them you think you're capable of doing this and you would like to give it a shot. Also, you can tell them that you've talked to a few people who have been in pageants and they're far from being shallow. Its hard work and whether you win or not, you feel good, you've gained self-confidence and experience on stage and speaking in front of others (which will help in just about any field you go into as a career). Good luck, tell me how it goes.
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this is driving me crazy...all my friends have bf's besides me..yet im not the prettiest girl in the world..but every where i go someone says something about their bf's or how they hate being single..and i am 15 and never had a bf...can someone help me?
Maybe you can quickly change the subject. Sometimes that'll give people the hint that they don't want to hear it.
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I recentley bought an iPod.
I only have 44 songs on it, and I can't think of any more songs to add! Mostly all the songs I have on there are emo/rock. Im looking for some good songs that are in the Indie and Techno genre. Thanks!
Songs from: The Postal Service, The Juliana Theory, Something Corporate, The Killers, Further Seems Forever.
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ok so im in 10 grade and this guy is in 12th.
He has a myspace and so i.
On my space he like always talks to me and like flirts with me. But during Classes he acts like im not there and ignores me. Our school i VERY small so we like see each other like more then 6 times a day. And like i think he likes me but im not sure cause he ignores me and doesnt talk to me at all unless we are on hte internet. so do you think he likes me ? i hope he does cause he is hella fine...
Lol, "hella fine". Well, why don't you start talking to him? Bring up something he said on myspace. Look on his movie section and if he lists any movies you like, or recently saw, then talk about that. Don't wait for him to talk to you. If you want to talk to him outside of myspace just do so. And if he likes you more than a friend, most likely he'll start showing it. Good luck!
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My love life is so messed up. I have no idea what to do and I'm so sick of trying to meet people. On one hand, I have my ex from about 6 months ago, on the other hand, I have a senior who I'm interested in. I don't know if either of the guys like me, or if I have a chance with either of them, the whole thing sort of irritates me. What the heck should I do.
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nearly given up
Don't give up! How do you know the Senior doesn't like you (or your ex)? Have you talked to them? Perhaps you should get to know the senior better, have you asked him if you wanted to hang out? You guys should casually hang out and then go from there. Good luck!
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In my myspace, I need a code so that it will be a little picture slideshow...Does anyone know where I can get that code?
You could try http://www.funky-chickens.com. They have a lot of HTML codes and such.
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i think this little heart is so cute ♥ but i can never make it can someone please tell me how to i rate HIGH
& hearts ; (no space).
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ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?
and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it?
Maybe she's mad because of what your guy friend has been saying about her. Sometimes when people dislike other people, they have a tendancy to dislike everyone else they also hang out with. Could that be the problem? Also, it could be because you and her best friend have become close. If you know that them two are "best friends", maybe sometimes you should let them do their own thing and respect their friendship. Don't always try to make plans for you two to hang out and exclude this other girl. Either let her hang out with you two, or maybe say "Hey, why don't you and [her best friend] hang out tonight." Don't totally try to take this girl away from the girl who dislikes you. Let them have some time too.
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Im "graduating" from middle school on June 13th. The problem is is that I need to know where I can get a dress that isn't to formal, but formal enough for an 8th grade graduate. Any suggestions or places are appreciated!
Theres a lot of stores in the mall that have cute dresses/skirts for graduation. Try Forever21 & Charlotte Rousse.
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Honestly, do you think its too babyish to have a pinata and play the limbo at my Luau thenned sweet 16?
Any suggestions or websites for decorating? thank you all..fives for decent answers
Well... honestly, I wouldn't have a pinata at my Sweet 16. I would probably play the limbo (especially if its Hawaiian themed--I don't know why...). That would be cool. But I'm not sure of the pinata, lol. But its totally up to you. Good luck with your Sweet 16 & have fun.
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