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What's Love
My love life is so messed up. I have no idea what to do and I'm so sick of trying to meet people. On one hand, I have my ex from about 6 months ago, on the other hand, I have a senior who I'm interested in. I don't know if either of the guys like me, or if I have a chance with either of them, the whole thing sort of irritates me. What the heck should I do.
signed,
nearly given up
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Everyone's love life is. For your ex, I'd say try and get over him. Keep yourself busy, get involved in school, hang out with your friends. Whatever you want to do. You can't find the future in the past.
As for the senior, why not ask him to do something with you? Casually, or an actual date.. you could always ask him how he feels, or tell him you like him. Most guys like to know that they're liked. It's apparently very flattering. Either way, if it doesn't work out with the senior, look around you! There are so many more guys out there! And usually, if you don't focus so much on getting/having a boyfriend, you'll end up with one (that's what happens to me, anyway)
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What is love? Now that is an age old question that I could sit here nearly all day and attempt to answer.
What I'm getting is that you have a fear of being alone, which is normal at your age. Before getting involved with anyone, you need to learn what you want, what's important to you and find someone who complements those features in yourself. Never look for someone to complete you, you will never find that.
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I think you should just sit back and relax. If either of these guys are the right guy for you then they will take the chance to talk to you, or go out with you. If they don't take the chance then maybe they aren't the right one for you. that is just my opinion. good luck. <3
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Don't give up! How do you know the Senior doesn't like you (or your ex)? Have you talked to them? Perhaps you should get to know the senior better, have you asked him if you wanted to hang out? You guys should casually hang out and then go from there. Good luck!
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Well i'd say before you did anything you need to figure out who you actually do like. Maybe you should ask them if they like you also , or maybe see if they'd be intrested in you. If you still like your ex i'd surley see if you guys can get back together, but another thing is , well you guys broke up and that could lead difficult crap depending on why u broke up. Figure out how your heart feels and what u want. Figure out who you think would be more worth it.More or less its a heart and mind chocie.
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