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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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I recently had a spray on tan and now its getting blotchy. I want it of. I tryed scrubbing with soap and water and it just turns me red and hurts. I need to get it off. Help!!

i suppose since rubbing alcohol works to get off fake tattoos etc. i would suggest that =] hope it works!

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ok, this is very random but i was watching a movie about a murder and i was wondering, if someone is arrested under murder charges and someone bails them out, later they go to trial and are found innocent, do they get that bail money back?

when you get bailed out it's just a promise that you will go to trial and anyone found guilty or innocent gets most of there money back not all. but most =]

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My best freind is this girl i hang out with her everyday......and i love her so much but if i tell her how much i love her i think she will never talk to me again but if i dont tell her....and then i would of wish i would of told her.......

tell her. because it's better to take risks then to keep it bottled up inside. maybe she feels the same way ? you never know. and you'll never know unless you tell her =]

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so i was just wondering. what do you look for in the opposite sex? like, for guys, do yu like preppy or sporty grls, etc. and for grls, do you like jocks or nerdy-ish, etc. and describe yourself, too. i'm just curious what people look for. thx!

to be honest i like guys with long hair and usually bikers or skaters. i have a thing for guys that wear girl pants =] anddd i liek when they have a lip ring. so i guess the type of rocker type =] i like a guy who can play the guitar too =] everyone that i've been with has always been a biker or skater with those qualities

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Is it ok to use pre-punched (loose leaf)paper in an inkjet printer like Epson's Stylus Color 880 or might damage result to the print head?
Tatarewicz, Canada

yeah you can use it the use of paper in the printer doesn't matter it just might not look the way you think it would.. for example they might not be on the lines..

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I have to decide which person to hire for my company. One person has a lot of experience. The other has some experience. Obviously I should hire the first person. But the second person is struggling financially and has been for years. I don't know if it's up to me to end his struggling by hiring him or what. Who should I hire?

depends. the person who has a lot of experience could be very lazy you know ? but the people who is struggling is problably a very good reliable worker. take there character into concideration not just there experience the one who is struggling probably has a lot of protental to learn and put his full potential in the company just look at the pros and cons of both and then pick. who knows. the person who has a lot of experience could be a good worker also.. so make a pro and cons list and pickk who you this will better the company

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15//female.

practically ALL of my friends have a boyfriend//girlfriend. and I have been single.. forever.. literally.. ive never had a boyfriend.
ims so depressing for me to always see them together and all happy.. especially when we leave school and its always like "love you, bye" and then they kiss.
i mean, its incredibly awkward, and i dont know what to do because i feel so lonely.
i dont know what its like to be happy like that and i just wish i did.
there are a few people i like but im too afraid to say anything, and only one of my friends [[who has a boyfriend]] is the only one that knows.. i just dont know what to do.
sorry this was long :x :/

if you keep your secrets about your crushes in, then NOTHING WILL EVER HAPPEN! you have to express youself in order to let people know how you feel cause maybe they feel the same way about you. you have to take a stand and take some risks if you don't then your life will stay lonely and boring =] so just let them know girl!

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hey i am 16 and female...i just recently moved but i have been considered depressed for 3 years but really didnt say anything but now after the move i feel worse...i am never really happy and i feel like i just really dont want to be here... how can i have happiness again..and how can i feel alive?
eissac

you need a friend. someone to talk to and confide in.. or even to talk to someone professionally who could tell you why your depressed and they could be someone you can talk to too. if you need anything else let me know.. and if you want to talk about it more to someone who will listen feel free to im me at toxicbarbie1369 or just leave me an inbox =]

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16/f

ok so this has never happened to me... I'm not one to act like this AT ALL.

I have the most amazing boyfriend(17) ever. He is perfect for me in every way.

I think about him every second of the day and at night.. I stay up for 2-3 hours thinking about him. Whenever I don't see him for a few days I miss him so much I cry (sad, I know).

Sometimes he'll drive across town just to see me for 10 minutes then, 1 minute after he leaves he'll call me just to tell me he misses me.

Every time I'm with him everything seems to fit just right (like a puzzle, he says). We are so comfortable with eachother it's unreal. I feel like I've known him forever even though we've only been dating a few months.
(he told me he feels the same about me)


What's going on with me? I feel like I'm going crazy!

hunnyyy that's what they call LOVE =]

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so i have been dating this guy since mid-july.. and i really like him.. we had been hanging out since june and i had had a crush on him since may. so its not really a new thing that just happened spur of the moment. anyway.. i dated this other kid who goes to a different school than me for like 3 months last october-jan and we broke up, but both had feelings for each other cuz the break up happen because of a silly fight. at one point tho, i think he liked me more than i liked him.(he brought me roses on v-day and we weren't even dating) i see him the most in the summer, so once summer started, i started to like him again. i wasn't sure if it because i was seeing him more or if it was because he was getting alot of attention from other girls lately and i was jealous because i used to be that girl. so then we started talking about it and he wasnt sure what to do and neither was i.. so we just kinda flirted alot. (which is normal for us) but we still talk alot and he is one of my best friends.. i feel comfortable tellin him anything. i think that i hurt his feelings by dating someone else, which made him tell me things about the girl he "supposedly" likes, who is also and ex of his, which hurt my feelings. that shouldn't but it does. i'm not sure if he is telling me the truth about this girl, or if he is just trying to cover up the fact he still has feelings for me. i just don't know if i'm letting someone really good go that is meant for me by dating someone else.. and what i should do. i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how long its going to last. help on this extremely long matter would be appreciated. thanks.

aw well if you are having mixed feeling it's better to fly solo andd figure out what you want. andd if your boyfriend really loves you. or likes you a lot he'll let you take time off. just ask for a break andd if that friend comes back to you then take that chance. cause i can tell you like him betterrr or else you wouldn't be asking for adviceee =] you knew what you needed to do. buttt you just dind't want to hurt your current boyfriend

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Once you have an abortion is it not possible to have a baby again?

nope you can still have a baby =]

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soo i have a boy friend but i have this guy friend who just came back from california and i really like him alot.. but i dont kno what to do i love my boyfriend but i want to be with my friend from cali to...

you have to pick and choose. write a pros and cons list and pickkk the one that has the most pros. about them cause oviously you can't have them bothh =/ even thoughhhhh we all wish we could =]

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when you get your belly button pierced does it hurt alot? and how long will it be sore? do they do it with a gun or a needle? any info would be great because i want to get mine done but i dont know anything about it ;; Thanks :]

i was a pansy and got it numbed ;] haha. what they do is use a clamp to gather the skin to pierce and they just push the NEEDLE. through. and the belly button ring is on the end and comes thorugh too. it will be sore for aboutttt hmmm mine was sore for about 2 weeks. and then i changed it. but i wasn't supposed too but shhh =] ! if you want to know ANYTHIGN else just askkkk

ohhh and it's about 30-55 dollars depends where you go. ask around. i got mine for 30 and it was a pretty ring tooo =]

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What realy makeing out?Whats the diffrence between making otu and kissing?!?? im so lost..

making out is kissing a lot with tongue. kissing is just a peck =]

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i have tryed like every kind of acne treatment there is. I dont have major acne but it is noticable. Make up sometimes covers it up. i have also been to the dermatologist and everthing they suggested didnt work. so does any have any ideas for different treatments i could use that work

i use clearsil ultra both the cleansing pads & the little tube thing for quick touch ups. its garenteed to clear up in 3 days. it works for me;; =]

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Alright, this may seem a little strange that I'm asking this.. but I have no idea what to wear the first day of school. I start the 9th, next wednesday, in Texas. So maybe you could help by giving me examples of what you'd wear the first day?

usually i just wear jeans and shirt;; my favorite new pair and stuff;; but if you wanna get dressed up i think you should wear like a shirt and cute shirt.. =]

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I know this might maybe sound stupid but how do you know when your boyfriend is cheating on you or like doesnt like you anymore or is getting board of you ????

if he's not calling you;; trying to ignore you;; makes up stupid excuses when you want to hang out;; gets all weird when you get close to him.. that sort of stuff =]

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This might sound kind of stupid, but I just need to talk to some one about it, so I thought this would be good. I'm 15 years old, i'm kinda shy, and I don't have that many friends, and the reason is pretty much because i'm against drinking. I really don't have a reason, I just never felt the need to do it, I feel I can have fun with out it. But this summer has really been horrible and sometimes I feel like I just wanna go out, get drunk, and have a great time. I'm just scared to because of health problems, or that i'm going to end up getting really sick from it. I know this is kind of confusing but I was reading through your things and you give a lot of good advice, think you can help me out with this?

first off i would like to say thank you =] but anyway. drinking actually doesn't help anything. once in a while i have a drink to calm me down. but it doesn't really help;; you just want it to help so you think it does but it really doesn't... thats how acholohics get started.. they think that drinking is going to solve their problems when in reality it doesn't. drugs neither.. exactly you can live without it. but you sound like your responcible so i believe that if you go out and have a few drinks you'll be responcible about it and not get yourself wasted and do things that you'll later on regret so it all come down to this;; and about the health risks. theres really only long term health risks that arise when you have been drinking for mulitple years. so odn't think if you go out and have a few acoholic drinks that your going to come home and all of a sudden be sick =] hope i helped hunny and if you need anything else just let me know

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What the heck is a pube? I hear people use the word in jokes alot, someone tell me what it is pleasssse!

pube/s are hairs in you private area ;] lol

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i started to cut in march and i stopped in june and now im starting again. it feels like i have to do it at least once a day. my friends get really upset when i cut because they dont want me to hurt myself. does anyone know what i can do to try to stop? please help me.

you need to get professional help hunny thats your best shot at stopping =/ hope i helpedd and good luck. if you need anything or want someone to talk to about it just im me or leave me an inbox;; toxicbarbie1369

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