about

i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

advice

I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!

depends on wether yur male or female.

A CHICK: blast music and dance around being a dick head coz no-one can see you. as your doing this clean.

A GUY: pretend your on a room clean show. you have to clean your room fast. time yourself and try beat your last time.

good luck!

~ANGE

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13/m

hi,


i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.

yours,

the thin one

hey, your 13!!! it doesn't matter what you way right now coz it alL changes as you... uh... mature. yes, mature. oh, you should only worry if you are like way obese, coz then you have to lose wait and i assume thats hard... if it wasn't hard then the whole world would be skinny. :) so never mind lil buddy, is all good!

~ANGE

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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
i rate high

okay well kids can be cruel at school. my sister was called a slut and unfortunately she took on the 'if they call me one i might as well be one' DONT DO THIS!!! she didn't finish school, hasn't got a job and life for her isn't that great. because she was a slut, i started getting called one coz she's my big sister and they said it was a family thing. i laughed it off because it was so ridiculous and they stopped... eventually. just stick with your friends and ignore it as best you can. dont let them ruin your life. :)

~ANGE
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13/f -- I am really scared because recentyl i was dared by my friends to go to porn websites on my compter ..But i deleted my history right after -- then i read something about people going to jail and i was wondering can you go to jail for looking at internet porn? I promise myself i will never do it again and i know it was really wrong but i dont want to go to jail!! And im crying im so scared ..what do i do?

calm down. it's okay. i very much doibt that you will go to jail. so chill out and dont worry.

~ANGE

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my frinds bf keeps saying that she hates him and has told everyone in the past two days. she doesnt hate him. hes spreading rumors that shes saying all this stuff to him and treating him like crap but its not true. he also said that shes been cheating on him but that is also true. they are both really upset about it nad mad at each other. my friend doesnt know what to do! please help her!
signed stuck in the middle friend.

it sounds like he has confidence issues. your friend needs to tell him straight up in plain english that she really likes him and she would never cheat on him. if he still does it then get she should get rid of him and find a guy with confidence.

~ANGE
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My best friend in 5th-8th grade, Charles promised me that he would go to our Freshmen dance no matter what! And now that it's ninth grade, it's in like 2 months. My friend Amanda asked me this morning on the bus who I was going to the dance with and I said Charles and then she goes and asks him 1st period if he'll go with her!! HE said he'll dance with her! That makes me so mad. Me & Charles haave talked about it, and he said if it gets that big of a deal he's not going to go anyways. Should I take him? even though he might dance with Amanda? - thanks alot

take him!!! its okay for your date to dance with others... you dance with someone else too and show him what he's missing!!! you go girl!!!

~ANGE
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i have a friend that copies everything i do and I HATE IT!!! but somtimes we have fun and somtimes we absoultly hate eachother!
what should i do
sgined jealous?

Do something you dont normally do and if she copy's you then confront her and tell her you really like her but her copying you is really annoying.

~ANGE
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Does anyone know a website that like gives you answers to your math homework...im failing math but its only cause i dont do my homework..and im too lazy..and dont say stop being lazy..lol

i'm going to say what you just told me not to say... STOP BEING LAZY!!! you cant hope to get along in this world if you dont get off your ass and do stuff yourself. computers cant do everything for you so dont start relying on them. and if you are failing math for not doing your homework then obviously you need to start doing your homework!!! i'm not meaning to sound like a mum... it's not that hard really. what i did was work hard in class and have my homework done so then i can relax when i get home. no-one likes maths but everyone has to do it.

~ANGE
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Okay...today I found out that two of my buds are trying to hook me up with this really!!! hot guy!!! what should I do?? I mean I like him but i don't know him very well...but I do know that he thinks I am pretty!!

go for it girl! whats the worst that could happen???

~ANGE
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hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up?

a friend of mine was given pills by a doctor and they worked for her. but he (the doctor) said that it doesn't work for every body. so he may give you pills or lotion. depending on the circumstances.

~ANGE
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ok remember me? The one that had just broken up w/her bf that jut wanted to sleep w/me? Well guess what he calls me back a week after our argument asks how I am then gets mad at me for not calling him. Then I get pissed off and tell him exactly what wrong, I said, "I don't know what kind of girls you've been w/but if you got with me just to sleep w/me your not getting it!!" (in those exact words) Then its quiet for a while then I hear him start to cry and he tells me mija (means little girl in Spanish, what he always calls me) why woul you think that I would do that? If I gotwith you it's b/c I really love you and I want a long term realationship. Then he tells me that he loves me and that he misses me. I really don't know what to do. I'm so confused, should I take him back? PPPLLLEEAAASSS HHHEEELLLPPP!!!!!!!!!!!

fi you were fine without him then stay away. but when you weren't with him, if all you could think of was him then i believe you should be together. :)

~ANGE
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(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.

be straightforward with him. tellhim that you have to put your friends first. friends will be there always but b/fs leave. so just let him know. good luck

~ANGE
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I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help

all girls look at other girls bodies. within a minute from seeing a girl you have compared her body and looks to yours. this can sometimes be mistaken for being bi. its when you want to touch that body and stuff that your prolly bi.

~ANGE

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i love seeing my room clean i truely do but i hate cleanin it when its messie and i know put it away after you take something out but sometimes i forget and it can be super hard and tips on how i can keep in check on how to keep my room somewhat clean....keep in mind at the age of 13 it can be hard.

i know how you feel!!! lol. when you get home of an afternoon put some music on you like and muck around being a dickhead (noone can see you!) and clean. it makes it more fun!!!

~ANGE
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tonight me and my bf were talking and well idk tonight we were talking and i asked whats wrong and hes like everything im like.. umm well whats that.. im listening and hes like naw jk nothing and im like ok and he is like well actually idk whats wrong... why doesnt he know?

some people just get upset for no reason. this should only happen for a short time. if it lasts ages then he could be depressed. if it lasts too long go to a doctor. he may need anti depressants. good luck!

~ANGE
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can you get a disease or STD from fingering well from being fingered

it IS possible but only slightly. if his hands were dirty and had anything... yuck... on them, you could. but it isn't very common.

~ANGE

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(15/f)
how can i like.. "come out of the closet" to 4 of my best friends.. i tell them EVERYTHING and i just hate hiding from them. they know i'm in a relationship, they just don't know its with another chick. please help.

if they really are your best friends then they wont care. but the longer you hide it the more upset they will be that you didn't tell them. just come out and say it. i never been in that situation before so i dunno HOW to tell them. but if my friend was gay i would want to know. coz that way i would know that she really does trust me and we have a good friendship.

~ANGE

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How can you see a pesific friend of yours profile. If you can just tell me where to type in there advicenator screen name that would be great.


go to search columnists. you can type in some information and it will give you a list of all related advicenators' name. then you click on the name and it will take you to the persons advice column. hope i helped. :)

~ANGE
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i've kind of been seeing this guy and hes 3 years older then me but we havent really been seeing each other because he has other girls in his profile saying he can't live without them and so on.. and that he loves them and we arent going out.we just kind of hook up a lot. but i really like him and he says he has feelings for me too. and im a virgin and he says he is too. and he doesnt want to be. im 13 and hes 16. i really dont want to lose mine but i sort of do when im with him. but he wants to be my "first" and i dont know if im too young but i feel like im ready. if you do it once do you get addicted like drugs and end up doing it a lot? or can you just do it once and wait a while to do it again? i'm really nervous because hes serious. because i really care about him and i know he cares about me too. should i? plz answer i rate!

you may not like this but you are too young to have sex. also, it's illegal. the best way to find out if a guy really likes you is to tell him your not ready and if he waits around then he likes you. if not then he's not the kind of guy you want to lose your virginity to. so make your first time special. you dont need to have sex yet. i'm 17 and i am a virgin. my last two b/f's tried to push me into having sex with them. needless to say i dumped them. if a guy doesn't respect your decision then he Obviously isn't the right guy.

~ANGE
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okay--well me and my best friend got into a fight! (it is a guy) i wen to his house yesterday and i was going out with his best friend shawn,but my he(best friend the guy) broke up with him for me(i asked him to) and like 10 mintues after me and shawn broke up..i hugged my best friend

then later my ex shawn called and was excusing me and my best friend of making out--and shawn went to my best friends house and said why did u make out wit (me) jamie! he said he didnt- then shawn told him i said i did- when i didn't and now my BEST friend is mad at me! and when ever i try to talk to him he says mean things and im nice! please help i RATE HIGH!!!!

you need to make him listen to you. grab him and tell him that shawn was bullshitting coz he wasn't with you. if he still ignores you then say you cant believe he is fighting over something as stupid as this and if he wants a fight like this to end your friendship then tell him that he obviously isn't that good a friend. he should come around.

~ANGE

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