Question Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 11:04 pm
My best friend in 5th-8th grade, Charles promised me that he would go to our Freshmen dance no matter what! And now that it's ninth grade, it's in like 2 months. My friend Amanda asked me this morning on the bus who I was going to the dance with and I said Charles and then she goes and asks him 1st period if he'll go with her!! HE said he'll dance with her! That makes me so mad. Me & Charles haave talked about it, and he said if it gets that big of a deal he's not going to go anyways. Should I take him? even though he might dance with Amanda? - thanks alot
dreamingkat answered Friday February 11 2005, 11:37 am: I'm a little confused here. Did he promise he would go with you to the dance as a date? Or just that the two of you would go as friends and hang out there?
Even if he's going with you as a date, I don't see why it's a big deal if he dances with someone else too. If he dances with you most of the time, and dances with her once or twice, and a few other people once or twice, it frees up time for you to talk with your friends and dance with other people too.
Personally, I'd be mad at Amanda, not at Charles. Although if you told her he promised he'd go, and didn't say he was going with you, she may have misunderstood and thought he was in need of a date. [ dreamingkat's advice column | Ask dreamingkat A Question ]
angieroonie answered Friday February 11 2005, 12:23 am: take him!!! its okay for your date to dance with others... you dance with someone else too and show him what he's missing!!! you go girl!!!
KaYlA1213 answered Thursday February 10 2005, 11:57 pm: as long as you all aren't dating, i think it would be all right if he dances with her. if you all were dating, i might see a problem. however, i'm not sure how good of a friend Amanda is if she goes and asks him after she knew you were going with him. You should talk to her about that. I hope i have been a help!
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