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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.


I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

advice

i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!!

i dunno maybe a priest could help you like the one at your church they read from there alot i'll bet
Solemnstar

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...I was just sitting here on my computer, and I get this dark feeling inside of me really randomly, and then I turn my head and I blink and while I blink the feeling gets even worse and I see something torn up when I close my eyes. (i dont know what it was but it made my brain feel like it was rattling) omfg its creeping me out..it makes me feel suicidal. It makes me want to rip my skin apart. I sound completely psycho but I dont fucking know whats wrong with me and why the fuck this is happening!
I have no clue why this just happened..and I dont know why Im thinking this but now I just want to cut the back of my neck and down the middle of my back...I didnt even think this on my own I just got the feeling..and its not going away and I still want tocut the back of my neck. I dont wanna kill myself..I just have an urge to hurt myself and I have no fucking clue why...ive done it before but nowhere besides my arms and legs..

Im really scared of myself its not like I WANTED TO HAVE THESE THOUGHTS!!!!!!!!!!

ghost possesion insanity hard to say if its a spirit tell it to leave and you are no longer its source or power anymore and it must leave(maybe you used a ouiga board) but this is weird
talk to an experienced person about this like paranormal investagators

Solemnstar

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Okay, I was wondering if you knew any free or piratable software for digital video editing in my quest to create an internet series.
thanks,
-Universal serial Bus 142

its called marmalade you put it in your computer so you can STOP WASTING MY TIME

solemnstar

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What are good icebreakers if you want to meet someone that you don't know (you know their face and you know their name, but don't know them personally) and you don't want them to think you are weird? If it helps I am a 13-year-old shy girl in love. *sigh*
~passionate
PS. Thanks ahead of time.

tsa like thats tough but simple what you do is open your mouth and talk nicely say thing like hi every day

Solemnstar
ps its not that hard actually.

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I've had this firned. She's really sweet, and never did anything to hurt anyone. We went everywhere together, and told eachother everything. She's made new frinds now and doesnt pay attention to me that much. We have the same lunch period and she wont even sit with me!!! She's also changed a lot (but i still love her) I miss her so much. How can we be BFF again???

im sorry if this hurts but your friendship may never come back to the way it was its best to try to still act normaly around her and be friendly regularly and be on good terms with heer friends but like i said before it seems unlikly to me that it will work sorry

Solemnstar

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i have a homework assignment...and its to create and draw a political cartoon...im have no idea on what i should draw!...any suggestions?

aliens watching the earth blow up and saying "we told them not to elect bush twice"
Solemnstar

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how do iget my parents to let me go into chat rooms?

you could let them read recorded chats or allow them to block certin websites it always depends on the parent so i could not really help sorry
Solemnstar

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what are some good truth and dares for when you play truth or dare??

kiss dares or public humiliation singing the barney theme song in public or asking for crushes or opions of people to get dirt on them mean but usedful for backstabbing friends that start it

Solemnstar

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i'm trying to name my new kitten that i got a few days ago.
She's a simease mix, does anyone have a good name to name her? ( It's a girl! )

Bounce
Chingy
Dorito

Solemnstar

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I just found out that this girl i know is about to die because of cancer. I dont know how to handle it. someone please help me!!

talk to her about good times and talk about it when shes gone to your family
Solemnstar

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Dear Solemnstar,
If you run your guitars output cable through a magnet or electro magnet field (and it isnt shielded wire) will the sounds coming from the amp be mish mashes of buzz or they create some sort of stellar normally unreachable sound that we could probably not hear without the aid of some sort of sonic recording system to replay the sounds and put them into logistical patterns to form recognizable speech?

Batman told me you were a good cook, i'm going to go try your recipe now.

Thanks for the coffee,
-Conspirator-047908372

Conspirator-047908372 HOW THE HECK SHOULD I KNOW.
Solemnstar

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I was just wondering, is it possible for a guy to be too shy to IM you? becuase i have imed ths one guy i like about like 4 times in total but like over a span of about 2 months but..i'm just thikning is the reason he hasn't imed me first because he is shy or that he just doesn't feel that way about me? help please..thanks

we get to shy to call right?

Solemnstar

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Are ghosts real? only if you know the answer then answer my question. only if you're sure.

yes and just cause i say that dont awnser those axe-muderer emails out of fear cause im pretty sure none of those exist(maybe 5-10)and the proof is thats science teaches us that you can destroy energy only manipulate it so what happens that the energy your body makes?
GHOSTS

Solemnstar

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Man's oldest question is still without answers: How can we become a 9 foot lumbering green monster of Doom and Discomfort?

We could go the comic book route, using a fully charged gamma bomb and, through nothing short of a miracle, become the Hulk. This method, however, seems a bit impractical as a large dose of Gamma particles would likely melt away any semblence of living matter.

So, my esteemed advicenator patrons, how do we simple creatures achieve the ultimate awesomeness? (Because throwing around oil tankers seems like fun right now)

WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!!! you will never be the hulk now go jump into a vat of oil get zapped by a lightning bolt bitting by a raido active spider and go through a solar storm

you are a moron
Solemnstar

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Okay well i have a friend and she makes me do EVERYTHING 4 her well at lunch like she will be like here is 50 cents go buy me a cookie and i do it! i dont want to but i do anyways. and i through her trash away 4 her and she pays me a dime and i dont want to do that either i just feel like i can tsay no and when i do i feel like she will be mad at me but whp cares right i cant do stuff 4 her right? well i dont know what do to please help!

thats not a friend thats a dictator you o all that and get next to nadda that friend deserdsa to be in the next trash bag you takeout for her

Solemnstar

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I just started cheerleading this year and it was really hard for me to do anything, like tumbling or stunting, because I have like no upper body strength. This is mostly because of my wrists, they're weak and crack a lot. I did gymnastics about a year ago but it made my wrists worse. What I want to know is, is there anyway for me to build up some arm strength so I can start doing gymnastics again?

its good to tdo push ups and go to a gym or something

Solemnstar

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june 2004 my cousin died from a mistake a police officer made. i cant seem to get over his death and i dont know who to talk to. i still cry all the time over him, and i htink about him a lot too. the rest of my family has moves on it seems, and they dont like to talk about him. if u have been in this situation... or one like it please shre advice. thanks

listen you should talk to teachers and friends along with your aunt and uncle because they(it seems to me) want to forget about him intierly so just talk with anyonethats how people get over things by talking about it
Sorry for your loss
Solemnstar

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Dear solemnstar,

i recently got a girlfriend and was wondering what i should talk to her abut on dates? when i try to think of something to say my mindgoes blank. also how would i know if she wants to kiss me?

Signed: Nervous

you should ask your parents if its alright first then ask her if she wants to go like to a movie or something.
Solemnstar

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i think im really feeling my friend right now. we dont know each other like so so much but we know some things about each other. we talk, but hardly about us. he smiles a lot and sometimes he flirts, but i dont no. somethings are movin kinda slow. i mean school will be over in two and a half months. what do i do because he talks to me sometimes and sometimes he doesnt. not unless i say something first. i dont no if he really likes me like that, but i want him to. and i just feel right around him, ya know. so what do i do?

the obvios awnser TELL HIM
the subtle awnser GIVE HINTS
the stupid awnser INGNORE HIM
the wrong awnser DO NOTHING

that made my point
Solemnstar
(sorry if you took any offense)

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what should i do? the boy that i go with use to go with my best friend a long time ago and wen we started goig out she said that she didn't like him anymore. but when they went out he didn't really like her and he cheated on her with her cousin. so after two months they broke up.
now that we have been goin togather for 5 months she has some stuff to say like that he cheatin on me and that he's just usin me for sex but i don't think that, that's true because he alwasy with me and all this other stuff that we do togather. should i break up with him so i wont lost my best friend but lose the one boy i love or should just tell him that i don't beliave her and stay with him?


i rate people...

It Depends but i belive that you should try to go out with the boy you love and still be friends
i cant really help much sorry.as for advoce i think you soul make your friend a book to show her all the things youve done with him fairs parties that stuff and that you want to remain friends.

Solemnstar

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