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So... I been talkin to this guy and I think im starting to like him like him. BUT he had to many other girls in the past. He tells me that he changed and that he isnt the same guy he used to be. He's about 40mins aways so we see each other every other weekend. I hope im not just his girl on the side. I dont want to get too attached and get hurt at the end. Should I leave him alone?? :[ (link)
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Well friend, this could go either way. He could have honestly changed, and you will see this as your relationship further progresses and things will go well. OR he could be lying just to get you to trust him and end up hurting you in the end. I cannot tell you which way it is because I do not know the guy, however, what I can tell you is that you should really try to watch things. I mean, if you like him enough to see if he's changed and you feel it's worth it, then stick around, but always be mindful that he may still be a player. So keep your eyes wide open (ears too!) and see how things go. Best of luck to you!
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yu welcome. well
i have a boyfriend we been going out for 1 yr and 8 months. right now we have a week of vacation and on wednesday he called me to tell me that for me to remenber that he is gonna come to my house on the morning . i said ok. but ever since he came to my house that day he hasent called me or seen me. or even written to me on myspace. sometimes i feel like he only calls me when he needs something . it really dissapoints me because his brother is always calling his girlfriend and even to say good morning/good night . but my boyfriend doesnt do none of this . and his brother takes his girl out my boyfriend doesnt do nothing .
i have a boyfriend but i dont feel love. i feel empty.
sorry if this is too long :( (link)
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It doesn't sound like he's a good boyfriend. Do yourself a favor and tell him to get lost, if you already haven't. A good boyfriend should never make you feel like this, and feel as though he only wants you when he needs something, that is never good. So friend, drop him and move on to a better guy. =)
And absolutely not, nothing is too long or short for me to answer. =)
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Tomorrow I am interviewing Jennifer Byrne, if any of you know who she is, this is for you.. Well, could you give me some good questions to ask her during the interview. I am not very familiar with her work and so I find it hard to gather good questions. Please feel free to ask me to ask her some of your very own curious questions.
Thank you. (link)
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If I have the right one, be sure to ask about what made her want to become an author, where and how she started working, how many hours she puts in on a day, what is a day in the life of jennifer byrne like, etc. Good luck and great score of an interview!
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My family never goes to church. I mean literally, I don't know anything about God. I believe in God, but I don't know anything about him. I feel like my life would be better if I had the Lord in my life. I need to know what would be some ways to start getting him in my life. I started reading the bible, but I'm not sure if I should start in the old testament or the new one. I just need help getting started with God. I'm 17 by the way. (link)
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As far as the bible, start with old testament, which will help you with the beginning, and then go into the new testament. If you have any friends or family members who go to church, ask to go with them and they will help you, as well as the people at church. =) Also, if your parents will let you, pick a church and go to it and see what you think. You may find that you don't believe in that person's religion, depending upon how you feel after you begin reading the bible and so on, but it's a good start friend. And praying is good way to begin also, even if just once a day, it is always good to do. =) Best of luck to you friend, and if you have any questions, feel free to ask.
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how to make friendship with girls?
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If you are a girl: Just remember that they are really just like you and you can relate in many ways, so think about those ways and see what you have in common -- that's enough to make a good basis for a friendship.
If you are a guy: Always be nice and kind, show good manor and be a gentleman. Show them that they can confide in you and you won't tell anyone, etc.
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I have recently looked for Guitar Hero 3 Mobile for the Blackberry 8300 series. I want to get it for free but whenever I get to a website, I can't download it. (link)
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It is a scam, unfortunately, you cannot download it for free. =(
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Have any of you tried this Acai Berry Dietary Suppliment for the full time and noticed any considerable results that would make it worth spending about $80 on? Or what about the Acai that you can get at the health food store in the drink form? Weight loss success stories inclucating any of these into your exercise program? Also, have you had any side effects or heard of any side effects? I have not been able to find any on line and I am hoping that is a good thing. There is one at Walmart called the 14 day Acai Berry Cleanse or something like that, and that one is only about $11, now I wouldn't mind spending that, but again I am not sure if it works. Thank you for your opinions! :). (link)
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My friend has used the one at Walmart and she swears by it, I recommend trying it -- after all, it's better than spending $80....especially since it may not work. =)
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okay so ever since i was in 9th grade ive gotten highlights at the salon.Well now im in college and i have to pay for the salon highlights myself instead of my mom.I have to start saving money so i want to do them at home.My questions are whats the best products to use at home? oh and im thinking of doing low lights my highlights are growing out so i was owndering if its okay to add the highlights/lowlights over them? oh and if you have any tips for me id appreciate it :) thank you! (link)
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Loreal Feria is the best, I used it a few times on my hair and they came out great!
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Does anyone know any Anime's like Inuyasha?
I like the plot and romance that goes on in.
Please refrain from mentioning any shows on Adult Swim, since I've seen and/or know about them all.
Also, don't mention Naruto, already one of my favorites. (link)
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Hope this helps. =)
http://www.squidoo.com/top-anime-list
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I have a job application for an ice cream parlor. A section of it says "Subjects of Special Study/Research Work". I don't understand what they want me to write there. I'm in high school with minimal job experience. Would I put down some extra curricular activities that I do? Please give me some general ideas and/or examples of what the employment manager is looking for in regards to that area of the application. (link)
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You want to write down certain training. For example, I am going into Psychology, in which takes special training, therefore, the training I take for it, will be considered a special study, therefore, it is what I would write down. So anything that you may have done in a certain field will do, but it is especially good if it's in the same area as your job app is.
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I had a website bookmarked on my old laptop, but because it broke down completely, I can't get to it any more.
So, the website was a fashion one, you could pick out clothes from the site, or Google images, and so on. And then resize them and whatnot to make it look like an outfit...
Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
It wasn't like a game... pictures of real clothes?
And the background of the site was white. It might've changed?
Thanks! (link)
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I believe it is Polyvore. =)
polyvore.com
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Does anyone know where I could find a licensed nail technician for my sweet 16? I live in New York. I really need one. I checked craigslist and so did my mom. All we seem to find is Spa stuff. And all I want is someone who would just do nails (painting them)! No spa. Does anyone know where I could find somewhere that would only do nails and not the whole spa things? Just please help if you can. Thankyou. (link)
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Try Dashing Diva, I hope it is nearby your home, a friend of mine recommended this one. And here is their website. Hope this helps friend. =)
http://www.dashingdiva.com/DashingDivaStore/t-home.aspx
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I am having my second baby in the beginning of March. My son is 2, He will be 3 when my next child is born. I am pricing items for this baby since I have nothing from my last pregnancy. Would I need a double stroller or a single? My son weighs as much as his 6 year old step brother which is 45 pounds he isn't chunky though just tall. (link)
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I believe I double stroller would greatly help, it's a great 2-in-1 deal. =)
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I'm taking a beginner's piano class in school, and I'd really like to buy a keyboard so I can practice outside of class and continue with it once the semester is over.
My problem is, I have no clue where to look! Anybody know any reasonably priced keyboards or brands that are good for beginners that I can try? :) (link)
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Here you go, friend. =)
http://pianoeducation.org/pnobuyng.html
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16F
I'll ask my main questions about this at the end.
I had a party for my 16th birthday last November and it went well. The only problem was it started out a bit boring because out of the 25 people i invited, only 17 were able to make it, even though 17 still seems big it was just sortof quiet at first and it started to get better once i set up guitar hero in my living room and when we started eating and talking and listening to music and playing guitar hero and stuff. I'm thinking of having another party at my house for my 17th birthday in November and I'm thinking about it now because I like to plan ahead. I've made a tentative list of people to invite and based on the possible date of the party, I'll assume that hopefully 20-25 people will be able to make it, maybe more depending on who I start talking to more once school starts. Now I'll start getting to the point. I need some good ideas to ensure that there's no awkward quietness at all when people show up. There will not be alcohol under any circumstances, it's just not happening, so that rules out any drinking ideas. I want to make my living room look cooler, last year I just made my "L" shaped couch straight and had the regular high-hat lights on, it looked kindof static, and the kitchen and dining room already look fine. so here are my questions
1. What are some cool was I can decorate, to make it a not awkward and partyish environment? and that's not too expensive?
2. What food or drink (not alcoholic, as I mentioned) ideas can I use that would be fun for a party? I know that dinner will simply be pizza but other stuff like snacks and drinks and whatever.
3. It'll be November, but considering it's not too cold would it be a good idea to let people hang out outside if they want?
4. The past two birthday parties I've had, two of my friends slept over. There are about 12-14 possible girl that could sleepover this time. Is it ridiculous to have that big of a sleepover at 17? Should I just stick to the two girls and maybe 2 or 3 others?
5. Any other good ideas like things to do during the party and such would be appreciated. Note that my parents will be home, so ideas based around that. Nothing to cheesy, but nothing too insane either. (link)
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This might help you, friend. =)
http://www.teenpartyideas.com/
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eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!
there are 2 girls that im torn between
one ive known longer
and one ive known for a month and she is crazy about me! idk which to choose!
:O
im a 15 year old guy btw
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You have to stop and think about which one you really want. What makes you like each girl and which one is more important to you, and also, which one you think will work out the best.
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I really don't know what's wrong. The thought of food makes me sick, like proper meals, not snacks or anything. Like, when I ask what's for dinner, whatever it is it makes me want to throw up and it seems like so much food to eat. But then when it comes to dinner time, if I'm actually hungry, I'll eat most of it.
I eat breakfast and lunch, every day around the same time, and I'm fine with that it's just big proper meals I guess. & my mum does different things each night so it's not like the meals are repetitive or anything. (link)
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Ulsers can do this, and also, if you are taking any medication, that could also be a cause. I would check with a doctor just to be safe about it, my friend.
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What is Tazmanian Devils girlfriends name? I know its like Marcia or Matilda or something like that?? (link)
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It's Marcia. =)
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Can condoms prevent hiv/aids if not broken? and can u contract it through oral sex? (link)
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I think this will help you out, friend. =)
http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/byAudience/ForPatientAdvocates/HIVandAIDSActivities/ucm126372.htm
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If I were to fill up a car with a full tank of gas how many miles would I get until I had to fill it up again (given, it isn't highway driving but not too many stops and turns?) Just an approximate amount? (link)
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All dependng on your gas mileage friend, in my car, if I fill it up which costs about $15, it will give me about 12 miles to a gallon.
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