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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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I can't wake up in the morning. My bus comes at 6:45, and I've been waking up at 630. is there anything i can do to get more sleep? i usually cant fall asleep until 12

You could try going to bed a little earlyer. Maybe just lay in bed at 10, listen to some calm music (slow songs and such). Having on music that is relaxing always makes me fall asleep.
♥ Krissy

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Modern English- I Melt With You

Moving forward using all my breath
Making love to you was never second best
I saw the world thrashing all around your face
Never really knowing it was always mesh and lace

I’ll stop the world and melt with you
You’ve seen the difference and it’s getting better all the time
There’s nothing you and I won’t do
I’ll stop the world and melt with you

(you should know better)
Dream of better lives the kind which never hate
(you should see why)
Dropped in the state of imaginary grace
(you should know better)
I made a pilgrimage to save this humans race
(you should see why)
What I’m comprehending a race that long gone bye

(I’ll stop the world) I’ll stop the world and melt with you
(I’ll stop the world) you’ve seen the difference and it’s getting better all the time
(let’s stop the world) there’s nothing you and I won’t do
(let’s stop the world) I’ll stop the world and melt with you

The future’s open wide

(let’s stop the world) I’ll stop the world and melt with you
(let’s stop the world) I’ve seen some changes but it’s getting better all the time
(let’s stop the world) there’s nothing you and I won’t do
(let’s stop the world) I’ll stop the world and melt with you

The future’s open wide

Hmmm hmmm hmmm
Hmmm hmmm hmmm hmmm
Hmmm hmmm hmmm
Hmmm hmmm hmmm hmmm

I’ll stop the world and melt with you (let’s stop the world)
You’ve seen the difference and it’s getting better all the time (let’s stop the world)
There’s nothing you and I won’t do (let’s stop the world)
I’ll stop the world and melt with you (let’s stop the world)
I’ll stop the world and melt with you (let’s stop the world)
I’ll stop the world and melt with you (let’s stop the world)


With what i thought was once there is now gone..
And there is always a spot for you in my heart
So never forget that and the best of luck with you and your significant other.

Awww.. *tear* I still wuv you Brandon!
♥ Krissy

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Tomorrow is valentines day. Ive been going out with my bf for 2 weeks now and we havnt hung out once, just at basketball games. I feel kinda wierd when its just us two. I want to hang out with him tomorrow everyones saying how pathetic it is that we dont hang out but none of my friends can come because they are ganna be with their bfs. What should i do?

You're going to have to hangout with him. He is your boyfriend. Just ask him to come over to your house and watch some movies. Once you start hanging out with him, you'll start feeling less weird around him and more comfortable.
♥ Krissy

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ok, the other night, I stayed the night with my best guy friend. We have been flirting and hugging and things like that with no problem. But then we were laying together and we were doing a little rubbing and touching on eachother and then I started feeling weird like I...or we did something wrong?? I dont know why either....does any one know why that might be?

It's probably because you though you'd just be best friends with this guy and nothing more. But feelings change and it looks like you both have some feelings for eachother, feelings that are more then friends. I don't think you did something wrong at all. You just wanted to see what it was like. Maybe you like him, that could be the reason you're feeling a little weird about it.
♥ Krissy

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What do you do when you absolutely love a guy and love doing everything with him except kissing him?! I don't really like kissing my boyfriend, it's kind of gross/boring..what should i do?

You don't have to kiss him. I'm sure he'll understand and respect your thoughs about kissing if you tell him. You can find other ways to show you love him, example: Hugging, holding hands, cuddling, etc.
♥ Krissy

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okay well theres this guy i flirt with alot. Everyone thinks we shuold go out, but i dont know if i like him. He told my friend that "he wasnt flirting, he was just not refusing" and he told my other friend "he'd only date me if i gave him a BJ" i dont know if hes kidding but thats nasty..I dont know if he likes me! And also we are both single and eh said he would be my valentine, and he is buying me a presant! help?

This guy sounds like a total perv and he only wants girls for skin. Since he'll only date you if you give him a BJ, why date him in the first place? You don't need this kind of guy in your life hun. Find one that will love you for you and will respect your thoughs!
♥ Krissy

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I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate.

If it's love, I'd say go for it. I think both of you can make a long distance relationship work. You'll only be gone for 3-4 so it isn't too bad. Don't let this pass you by, he could be that special guy you've been waiting for!
♥ Krissy

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

Doesn't call you, ditches you, he doesn't act the same towards you anymore, while he's on the phone with you he'll make up excuses to get off, starts treating you badly, stops saying all them sweet things he used to say.
♥ Krissy

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ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together?

There's so many people now that start having sex at a young age, just because they think they'll be "cool". Some people start at 13, while others at 17. I'd say anywheres between 13-17.
♥ Krissy

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16*f

yea so i've been starting to talk to this kid and i think i kind of like him. i mean we have fun together but im not sure if i exactly like him enough to actually start anything. i have been single for soo long and kind of " obsessed " (so my friends say) with my ex bf that i went out with and we had a pretty good relationship until we stopped talking after he went on vaca. well anyways we broke up and kinda stoped talking, so now when we do occasionally talk its just like "hey whats up .. oh cool.." stuff like that,i know he doesnt like me right now because we like neverr see eachother anymore or he is out but should i wait until like spring comes because i would deffinately see him around then. or do you think it is just a waist of time to wait around when i could have another nice guy. i know this doesnt make much sense but its just so hard to get over something like this because i liked him so much. my friends don't really understand... please try and help * xOx Kaylin

I know how you feel. The first love is always the hardest no matter what. But your ex doesn't seem to be your Mr.Right. If he was you and him would be together, but your not. You're just that much closer to finding the one who is. Since you have this nice guy that you like, why not try giving him a shot? There's no harm in trying at all. Maybe having a new guy, will help you get over your ex. You might even start to like this guy more then your ex. This guy could been Mr.Right, so go for it, don't let this chance pass you by. "You have to meet some wrong ones, before you meet the right one" =)
♥ Krissy

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i got my boyfriend a stuffed animal dog holding a thing of candy.. do you think he'll like it?

Aw, that sounds so cute hun. I think he's going to like it for sure. Just knowing you got it for him and you being with him, he'll be super happy!
♥ Krissy

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I heared you & jon got into a fight, what ova?

Something stupid. We're cool now!
♥ Krissy

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Fuck
Me
Now
Plz

Deal!
♥ Krissy

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Y0 KrissY!~~It`s Julia again. 1 more thing.
"Sweeeeeeeeeeeet"

You're crazy! "Duddddde".
♥ Krissy

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OH! 1 more thing ` you spin me right round baby

Right round, like a record baby, right round round round =)
♥ Krissy

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Hey Krissy! It`z me JESUS aka JULIA.. oh yes I AM JUST THAT COOL! how you doing? ;) RAWR! hahahaha. BFA

I'm doing great. How about you sweet pie?
♥ Krissy

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ok ive been "going out" with this guy "Adam" for about 3 years now, and i am truelly in love with this kid. You wouldnt believe. He has told me that he loves my, and all that jazz, but the outher day, he told me he waas falling for another girl. Not as hard as he fell for me. he was all like " i just thought you should know, and i still love you more than anything, and i still wanna hang out, because you are the only girl i have fun with" My question is, should i really be woried, and another thing is i dont know how to talk to him about it. I rate high!

My friend is in the same place you are right now and it's really hard on her. You have to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how your feeling. If you're really in love with someone, I don't think you should be crushing on someone else. I'd tell him everything your feeling about this. Just sit him down and be like "So, why do you like this other girl?". Then just explain to him how much he means to you. I'm sure he'll then tell you everything and maybe let some of the stress he's feeling out. But you have to talk about it, you can't let something like this go.
♥ Krissy

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Ok so heres the deal, out of 100% my family and i might have moved and the percentage of us actually moveing would be 5%. I dont know why but i really really want to get out of NY. If we did move it would be to michigan cuz of my dad work. I want to move so i can meet new people and get away from all of my crappy " friends" though i would miss my family here in NY a lot. I told my parents it would be cool if we moved but of course were not. I really dont know wut im asking i just needed someone to give me there opinion.

If you do actually move that would be great. It sounds like you really want to get away from New York. When you move you'll meet all kinds of new people and your life would be better. Even though your going to miss your family, you could always take a trip out there to see them. But moving is a good way to get away from the past and start out fresh.
♥ Krissy

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DUDE.. the car! Where is it?

Dude. I don't know. Omg!
♥ Krissy

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DUDE.. wherez yer car>?

I don't know, dude.
♥ Krissy

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