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I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

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ok me and this guy have liek MAJOR history and we havent talked in a while b/c he is on the other team and tonight he was a up on me and grabby and givin me winmeels and stuff and i just dont no if i should like him again b/c he broke my heart to many times..and just the other day i heard that he realli didnt lieke me he was usin me to get close to a gurl in 1 of my clases??...plz help.so0o effin confused!

well i dont know actually .. if you heard he was just using you .. it might be true . you should talk to him about it but dont talk to him about it online call him or talk to him face to face.. i hope i helped ♥//ALMA

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okay i REALLY like this guy and he likes me tu and were goin out and everthing but i dont know if i should fall all the way in love with him cuz like we went out once before and he broke up with me for another girl and i almost wouldnt even go out with him anymore cuz he made me cry soooo much! he gave me his braclet and i cut it up and threw it on the ground and ran away from him but now hes been soo sweet and i fell in love with him and all that again but now im afraid to yew know REALLY lOVe hIM! do yew think i should trust him again after all this? o0o and ps i love yew soooo much! i will I M yew after yew give me the uhm.. *advice!* okay mwahz talk to yew later!

aww thats so sweet! i think i know who this is ! but i think you should maybe give him another chance but dont get so attached yet.. you never know what will happened .. if i were you i would just give it some time and think about everything.. he may not be the best guy for you . every guy will do whatever he can for his gf but after that hes back to being HIMSELF = a jackass with no brains .. just think about it && dont get attached jUST YET! hope i helped ♥//ALMA

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please HONESTY tell me what you think about these shoes (i am 14/F)

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla2.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=205063139&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=223909503&bmUID=1124636420906

i think they are cute.. but if you like them then why dont you buy them are you going to depend on your whole life on what other people think ? ♥//ALMA

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do you like this pocketbook :

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla1.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=178537607&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=163771911&bmUID=1124636543113

and do you like it better in black or natural or pink??

uHm they are all pretty cute! if i had to choose for myself i would pick the black one. it just goes with a lot of things . gOoD luck ! ♥//ALMA

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I have a lot of friends but there's one problem with a lot of them: they think I'm gay. I used to not know why they thought that, but once I looked at what I like and stuff, I would probably think I was gay, too. Even with people I just meet, they ask, "Are you gay?" and I say no but sometimes they don't believe me. Let's say my name is Mike. Well one of my friends calls me Queer Mike. Everyone knows that he's just having fun but it hurts a lot. I told him that I'm not gay but he didn't stop calling me that. Everyone thinks I'm gay but I'm not! What should I do?

0ne thing you can do to prove that you arent gay is to get a girlfriend and really get along with her like make out with her in public and stuff! That way it'll show everyone your not gay// oh and maybe your friends think your gay because of something you do and//or how you act .. good luck tho ♥//ALMA

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so for my summer reading i was assinged to read the novel Friedrich, by Hans Peter Richter so i have to write a happier ending to the story ...about 3 - 5 paragrphs, so if any one out there has read the book can you give my any ideas of what to write i would appriciate it

Well since you were assigned to read the novel and rewrite a happier ending - then dont you think you should do it and not have other people do it for you ?? I mean then you woudlnt really be learning anything. ♥//ALMA

you can rate me bad i`m just telling you

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what is [[SP]] ? like when u use it in a sentence and put that wat does it mean??

[[sp]] means its a spelling error i already answered this ♥//ALMA

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ok i was dating this gurl and it was perfect and she brakes up with me for my friend then she wanted me bak and i said no now it is like 3 months later and she is asking me bak out and i kinda still like her wat should i do

I dont know what you should do // I mean if you want to go out with her then go out with her ! Since you still have feelings for her then maybe you should go back out with her ♥//ALMA

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I have been goin out with this girl that i really like but she is one of my sisters friendsbut i really like her and every one tells me im stupid 4 goin out with heris it b cuz im really getting mad and im gunna start beating the crap out of some of these kids please answer fast.

WELL.. uhm what is your question > is it if you should break up with your g//f > well if it is heres my answer N0! if your going to break up with her because your friends dont like her than thats just bullshyt! if you like her then thats all that should matter! ♥//ALMA

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im 13 years old and im a guy i was dating this one gurl and she broke up with me for some gay ass reson and now she came bak saying omg im sooo sry take me bak should i take her bak?

If i were you i wouldnt take her back ! She dumped you for a gay reason like you said so uhm she probably just wants you back because no one else wants to go out with her :[ ♥//ALMA

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do you think guys like girls to be shaved or nice and bushy down below? thanx

PERS0NALLY... i wouldnt know. im not a guy but uhm it actually depends on the guy .. just joke around with some and ask them .. thats kinda like your only opioin.. good luck ♥//ALMA

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omg all my friends think im really prude because i havent givin any one head...and im only 29...do you think that is weird? and the farthest ive been with a guy is a kiss on the cheek...is that bad for my age? thanks!

O0h hunnie.. your 29 and you havent ever kissed a boy on his lips.. Well .. maybe you should have at least made out with a guy / but the good thing is that your not a slut / so just stop listening to your friends because being a non-virgin isnt everything.. being a virgin is a great gift you can give to your husband. Just ignore your friends - hope i helped - ♥//ALMA

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ok hunnie a douche bag is something you clean your vagina with...just thought it would help

0K WELL FIRST 0F ALL .. IDC AND I D0NT THINK ANY0NE D0ES.. ♥//ALMA

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ok i relle like this guy and i think he likes me but i dunno!!! but c i no he likes this other girl but him and this girl wont go out!! and i relle relle like him shood i tell him or wat?? but it relle seems like he likes me!!

G0 for it ! If you think he likes you then he probably does! And if he turns you down .. his lose! ♥//ALMA

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ok im 14 years old and a gurl was gonna give me head and then when she saw it she was like omg its small wat should i do

I dont really know what you should do .. uhm just get a different girl to give you head then i guess.. sorry i cant help much on this one ♥//ALMA

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im 13 years old and i did a gurl and got her pregnant and her whole famile is like omg ur too young to be doin this to me and her wat should i do

0h that is bad.. your only 13. You arent ready to be a father i mean where are you going to get the money to feed your child. I mean i dont know you did a bad thing. Did you use a condom? I dont know maybe you should get your parents and her parents and of course you two to talk on night about this and figure out what you are going to do as a family.. or families.. Good Luck // tell me what happened if you want to ♥//ALMA

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im 13 years old and i have never had a g/f i mean i shower and brush my teeth wat should i do

aww i bet any girl would be lucky to go out with you.. not to be mean or anything but a reason some girls dont like guys its becuase of their personalties.. i personally think its a turn off if a guy has a bad personalty.. IM me and talk to me more about this and ill help you out! ♥//ALMA

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Alright, first some background info. Im 16 and im a virgin, never done anything sexual with a guy. Ok now..my period is a week late for some reason and my mom is freaking out and asking me if ive gotten it like every 2 or 3 hours. Recently i have really cut back on like really fatty food, ive started running about a mile and half 2 or 3 times a week, and i started a job..which is a bit stressfull at times. Those things can make it come late right? Ive also felt like ive been going to get it, sore boobs, wicked bad cramps, headache that wont go away no matter if i take tylenol or not. I want to stop freaking out...so if you guy know anything that can help me out or at least help me chill my mom out..that would be fabulous. Thanks in advance.

You'll be fine. Since you havent done anything sexual with a guy, theres really nothing to worry about. You might want to get birth control pills they will make your periods regular. You will probably get it soon considering all the syntoms [sp?] you have been getting. Good Luck ♥//ALMA

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Does any one know any good sites where i can get glitter images and backgrounds and glitter names.. stuff like that. thanks i rate 5's

This website has great glitter images and backgrounds and a lot of other things! She puts a lot of time into the things she makes! The website is www.carrielynnesworld.com Good Luck ♥//ALMA

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ive been looking everywhere for that nair shaving stuff does anyone know where to get it?

Usually it will be in drugstores like CVC or Walgreens or it could also be whereever they sell razors and shaving cream. Good Luck ♥//ALMA

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