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hey i'm a guy. this girl i know is starting to scare me. we used to talk about everything and always have a blast, but a few months ago we started to talk less. i noticed she wasn't as active as she was before, and asked her about it. just as it seemed to be, she told me she was depressed and didn't like the kind of life she was living. she went on about all the bad things in her life with family, school, friends, herself, etc. i tried to point out good things to her, but she always came back at me with something to disprove it. after not talking for a week or so, she said she just wanted to end her life and to get away from everything. i didn't take this too serious at first, but lately she hasn't been eating, barely talks, and hasn't been looking too healthy. if she is thinking about suicide, what should i do? i asked her about it and she didn't want to talk. should i tell her parents? please help
oh my godness tell her parents teachers any body that could give atleatst some kind of help if shes mad at you now when her life is better again shell thank you
help her
.::katie::.
ok me and my friend are really close she is like my sister but a year ago she started to hand out with other people and she gets drunk every night and does drungs and parties a lot (i mean i party to but not like her) and i have notest she has started cutting heself and she has just been mean to me and if any of u read me last advice u kno i just found out that i am pregnet i try to tell her and talk to her but she just wont talk to me......plz help me i dont now what to do i am soo confussed i am scared of lossing my best friend-----thanks
tell her to stop cutting stop hurting you friends and hopefully she'll listen drinking to much isnt good for you she could get achohal poniing and stuff and you dont want anything happeing to her like her getting raped make sure you go to every party she does if she gtes to drunk drag her out og thta house and drive her home make sure you keep a good eye on her so nothing bad happens
stay in touch with her
.::katie::.
my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!
well yes i would deffenatly call it abuse and yes i think you should do something about him no one has the right to touch you do somthing call the cops the next time he does something like that tell the cops you father is out of control and they come .then if they make you goto a guidence consler say i love my father but he needs to stop hurting me im getting to scared to go home .........................or somthing like that
take care of yourself !
ok so the other day i put on a pad from my moms package of em (they were light flow ones) just to see what a pad would feel like when i finally got my period. well omg it was like wearing a diaper, it was huge on my underwear and i couldnt even like move in my pants lol cause it itched and was so big.. why is this what am i going to do when the time comes for a pad!
well its good to know that your coming perpared but maybe get a smaller size or use a tampon if you dont want to tel you mom or dad (gardeins)that your using one just in case go on your own time and kinda snick them in and dont be (i donno ) ashamed maybe because you may waddle like a panguine or something every girl goes threw this but im a girl and i havent so but ask your mom when she started its usally around then that you start
hope i helped
.::katie::.
Ok, there’s this GUY that I've known for a very long time. But we haven’t talked since we entered high school. Then this summer he dropped my brother off after paintballing and my mom invited him in in for dinner. WE began to talk again and he came over again to hang out and watch the meteor Shower (which never happened because it was cloudy but we still played video/board games), and then he invited me to a hockey game and to a concert, my favourite band I may add...BUT he likes this other girl and I mean really likes her or so I think. But my friends keep saying that he likes me. So then I asked him if he wanted to take her to the concert instead of me and he said she doesn’t like that band. But then I said wouldn’t he have more fun with her being there then me and he said no your fun and I want you to come and I explained to him why I was asking him if he really wanted to take me instead of her saying that I think she’s jealous of our friendship because she keeps asking my friends if I like him (not that I care he’s pretty cute) and that I didn’t want to destroy his relationship with her. He replied that there is no relationship and there will never be so I was going no matter what. But just when your beginning to think omg girl he’s head over heels for you(if that is what your thinking) I wanted to add that at school he ignores me completely unless I talk to him. He is always with the other girl he likes and even when he’s next to me he doesn’t say a word. I don’t want to think he likes me and get all worked up and then he doesn’t but then I don’t want to think he doesn’t like me he really does and miss my chance. I don’t know what to think or what to do please someone help me!!!!
ok well i think because you see each other at schol he may just be friends with you outside of school (are you guys in diffrent grades?)maybe hes playing both of you i dont kno because i dont know what hes like he may be a nice funny all around awsome cute guy but doesnt every guy have a dark side?he may not like either of you and only just as friends i would wait for a good moment to throw in hey ummm would you go on a DATE with me on saturday or something and see what hapens dont be shy you must realy like him if your stressing so much just see what happens if he says yes no what ever you'll never know till you ask him if he says no be like ok i was just wondering and make sure he doesnt feel unconfertible around you that may be a good way to end a good friendship if he says no be like oh well i was just wondering because i have nothing to doa nd im ganna be free and then just stat talking about the total oppistate and if he says oh so i knew you liked me or you know something like that be like no i like this other kid i told you i have nothing to do and wanted to hang out god you know show a little adittude but nothing so drastic and if he says yes make sure you wear sumthing totally cute and try not to embarrse yourself haha just kidding just be yourself and see where it takes you .
hope i helped
PS. sorry its so long i thought i knew what i was talking about
.::katie::.
im 16/f and i met this guy during my summer job. and up till this day ive been thinking about him none stop. before my job ended i gave him my number, well sort of. im not going to get into major detail but basically he got my number but he might of gotten the impression that i didnt want him to have it. but now somebody gave me his email address and i dont know if i should email him because i keep thinking if he wanted to talk to me he would call but he hasnt yet. but then again hes a great guy and i dont want to loose touch of him. we liked eachother through the summer but never hooked up because hes like 8 years older than me. so should i email him or just leave it alone?? thanks yall i'll rate high!
well the age diffrence is big but if you really think that you may just have found a great guy why not you dont find many of them if you truly like him and wont yank on his chain and he wont do the same it will never hurt to try and you'll never know till you do so i really dont see the harm in it so go ahead ! hope i helped !
.::katie::.
okay really random question. but in xoxo. which is the hug and which is the kiss?
x-hugs
0-kisses
hope i helped haha easy one
.::katie::.
I'm married, and my husband and I rent a house from my parents. I'm 20, and my husband is 21. They've been pretty generous by offering us the house over other renters, and giving us a lower rent. They insist of holding a copy of the house key for emergencies, which is fine with me.
Here's the problem. Lately, they've been letting themselves in without knocking. After my husband and I come home from work and put the baby in bed, we tend to sit around...not completely clothed. More than once now, they've caught us like this; once just walking around naked and twice being intimate.
But maybe worse, they let themselves in when we're not home. I don't think they mean any harm, but they come in, look around, borrow our stuff, and clean.
I'm afraid that they'll find something they don't like and kick us out. I feel that we're adults, and we pay rent, so we deserve some privacy. Am I right that we should have privacy? If so, how should I go about talking to my parents? I don't want to make them feel bad, since I think they're just trying to help.
ok not to make them not to feel bad just tell the "mom ,dad me and my husband need a little privacy we dont mind you coming to viste but could you knock .i dont want you to gte mad but i think i take care of the kid and the house pay the rent i can take care of myself so come when you want but please just knock im sure we'll be home and let you in but if were not home come in and write a note to call you so i can tell you were home.dont clean the house or do anything just write a note i think this will work fine ok ".
hope i helped!
tootsierollsweet999
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Is it ok for christans to masterbate? I want to know befor I start. Thanks.
yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok I'm Like In Love With My Best Friend... and it's not some stupid teenage thing, because i'm not the type of person to just be like oh my god i love him when i dont, i know what love is. o.k well moving on.. im like in love with him and he has a girlfriend, and they never talk so theyll eventually break up hehe, but i didnt make them so dont think that hehe..
but hes like soo awesome and hes in my english class, and were reading the pigman, and all through it i always look uph from my book and there he is staring at me and than when i look at him he makes a face.. and like its almost like he likes me too, but its soo hard to tell because he shows it, but hes not telling me
(oo and by the way i did tell him i liked him lol)
And in the book theres john and lorraine john smokes and drink and lorraine cares like so much about him, and wants him to stop and is in love with his eyes, and yea lol
and me and this kid, remind me so much of this book, he smokes and drinks and i care so much about him im like forcing him to stop, and i want him to give me a chance after this girl , but it doesnt seem like he'd go out with me .. but how do i tell his singnals:
1) always stares at me
2) makes faces at me and than me and him are the only people laughing in my english class..
3) we always talk ! .. and mkae fun of eachother..
What does that all mean ?
i think he likes u and it might just be me so im not sure but i would deffinatly take a look at where him and his girlfriend r if there doign bad there ganna breack up in the long run like u said but what if they like each other if its like that then i look into another guy but hey it may just be me hopefully i helped
my boyfriend of over a year and a half recently broke up with me/ decided we should take a break because he was confused about how he was feeling and he wanted a break from being tied down. it was really sudden and it confuses me. he still says he loves me from time to time so that kind of give sme hope that maybe this isn't over for good. do you think he just needs some time without me to see what our relationship was worth? or what? does he jus tneed to be single for a while. Everoyne tells me when loves for real it lasts froever and we both know it was as real as possible.. so do you think he will come back? he neve rreally wants to talk about the situation either but what can i do to convince him to come back or let him know what we're worth? help plz thank you will rate hihgh
dump him ti doesnt mean a thing
ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????
I rate4 HIGH!!
~LiLy~
well what do you think ........do you ave strong feeling or just friends .............you decide no one can do it for you
Ok last night was my cousin's 14th birthday party.I had no idea ta ll that my cousin invited my ex boyfriend. It was weird at first, but then we started hanging out and he started hitting on me. Then after awhile this kid Brandon started hitting on me too! Well I have a boyfriend, and what happens when you think you like your ex again and you know he may like yoy, and all your friends want you to hook up and even your cousin!(Doesn't happen very often for me)
Will rate high for good answers
lol ok who do you like more brandon ex or you bf right now fallow 1 who you love the most and 2 fallow your GUT make sure you ko he will be there no madder what
okay, i know for stomach you do crunches, for legs you jog, but how do you lose that flab on your hips?
huh um the but master wind meals its fun do all the stratches it will work
my best friend(sara) has a cousin that has these friends that we always hang out with and sara likes 2 of them (lu and greg). And well me and lu were like alwasy flirting and everything and we got like really close like friend wise, so then one night like 7 of us were gonna go to teh movies and me and lu were talking on the phone that day and he was like it would be really cool if just you and me went to dinner before the movies adn i was like sure that would be so fun! so we went and like the next thing you no we start making-out (alot). So then we went to teh movies and acted like nothing change and after it my friend sara was like lu was flirting with me and i am really starting to like him alot and i was like o cool, when really he wasnt flirting with her at all, so now i dont no what to do and lu is like i cant wait to see you agian when i am not with you i feel soo unhappy and all I can think about is you, and i feel the same way! so i really dont know what to do i would really love it if me and lu could be like public but i cant hurt sara's feelings we have been friends like scince we were in 1st grade! please help i will rate 5s for good answers!
ask herif its kool if u go out with him .if she says no then dont a good friend isnt worth a boy that will (maybe but all guys are the same )breack ur heart down the road ,then who will be there to pick up the peices
hi me and my friend want to go on a trip that we got invited to, but we know money's probably gonna be a issue, so does anybody have fundraising ideas? like babysitting, etc.
ok babysetting ,bake sale ,carwash,sale ur old things and give a lil away to the katrina people (the ones who have no selter and stuff
okay my boyfriend just broke up with me, like literally just broke up wiht me, we are going to different schools and everything so its hard he has to be home by 5;30 everyday, his parents both work, he use to ride his bike to my hosue but it takes about 15 minutes and then he has to be home by 5;30 and i have field hockey everyday till 4-4;30. he is only allowed to hangout with girls two days a week. help !! he still loves me but .. yeahh
4th time going out
maybe your not meant to be together maybe just say lets be friends and see what happens
theres this guy that i really like but he only likes skater girls well that wat he told me today idk if he likes me? should i com stright up with him and say like i like u or just let it pass by
~confused
tell him dont be scured you dont kno he could have an exeption for you and it could be true love i donno try ask him out try to make a lil confersation to get the vib right and then go in for the question and if he says no then hes a shallow person and your to good for him anyway do sell your self sort go for what you like and if he doesnt like you then find someone new and see if it works with him and remember there are other fish in the sea.
much love,good luck!!!
katie ,tootsierollsweet999 ps.if you like my advice please rate me but if u dont and you dontthink itll help you out then your not forced bu t thanks anyway bye and remember if you catch skater boy and he swims away(im mean doesnt want you )then keep fishing youll get some pretty good bate haha hope i helped
okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!
huh um........i dont get your question if u give a lil more info maybe i could help
I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this?
if u realla loved this boy then u woud not of felt the need to do or what eva with the other guy