Ok last night was my cousin's 14th birthday party.I had no idea ta ll that my cousin invited my ex boyfriend. It was weird at first, but then we started hanging out and he started hitting on me. Then after awhile this kid Brandon started hitting on me too! Well I have a boyfriend, and what happens when you think you like your ex again and you know he may like yoy, and all your friends want you to hook up and even your cousin!(Doesn't happen very often for me)
angelmcclain answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 11:30 am: well in the first place do you really like your current boyfriend. if you are still having feelings for an ex than i would definatly think about that, and try and avoid hurting his feelings. now i definatly wouldnt get back with someone just because everyone else wants you to, its not there relationship. i learned the hard way when i was younger, i would let my friends influence me on things like that, and 9 times out of 10 it would be a mistake. when it comes to relationships you need to follow your heart not you friends, because when things go bad with this guy just because you listened to everyone else you might of missed out on something really great with your boyfriend now, good luck. [ angelmcclain's advice column | Ask angelmcclain A Question ]
Swe3ti3boO answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:45 am: The whole situation relies on how much you want your ex-boyfriend and how much do you care about your current boyfriend. Even though he's your ex and you still have feelings, you have to remember the reasons as to why you guys broke up in the first place. Most guys don't like this, but try to see which one your most compatible with. Most likely, your going to say your ex because he's more familiar to you and so on and so forth, however, look at every option you have before you make a decision.
Furthermore, don't follow through with it if your being pressured by those around you. Figure out how strong your ex's feelings are for you and then see where to go from there. But remember, if you decide to stay with your current boyfriend or go back to your ex, either way, you may regret it or someone is going to get hurt. Like I say "Following your heart can lead to a broken heart, so while following your heart, also use your head." Best of luck chica! *MuaHz* [ Swe3ti3boO's advice column | Ask Swe3ti3boO A Question ]
Riotgrl0717 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 6:14 pm: Ok, if u liked the guy before you two broke up han you should definatley go out with him again. Tell your current boyfriend, that altho you had fun going out with him, you miss your ex and that you want to be with him. But dont just do it for your family and friends, do what you want. if you like him, give the relationship another chance, if not than just forget it hunnie!!! [ Riotgrl0717's advice column | Ask Riotgrl0717 A Question ]
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