Question Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 12:20 pm
my best friend(sara) has a cousin that has these friends that we always hang out with and sara likes 2 of them (lu and greg). And well me and lu were like alwasy flirting and everything and we got like really close like friend wise, so then one night like 7 of us were gonna go to teh movies and me and lu were talking on the phone that day and he was like it would be really cool if just you and me went to dinner before the movies adn i was like sure that would be so fun! so we went and like the next thing you no we start making-out (alot). So then we went to teh movies and acted like nothing change and after it my friend sara was like lu was flirting with me and i am really starting to like him alot and i was like o cool, when really he wasnt flirting with her at all, so now i dont no what to do and lu is like i cant wait to see you agian when i am not with you i feel soo unhappy and all I can think about is you, and i feel the same way! so i really dont know what to do i would really love it if me and lu could be like public but i cant hurt sara's feelings we have been friends like scince we were in 1st grade! please help i will rate 5s for good answers!
tootsierollsweet999 answered Monday September 19 2005, 9:14 pm: ask herif its kool if u go out with him .if she says no then dont a good friend isnt worth a boy that will (maybe but all guys are the same )breack ur heart down the road ,then who will be there to pick up the peices [ tootsierollsweet999's advice column | Ask tootsierollsweet999 A Question ]
xxmymatrixmanxx answered Sunday September 18 2005, 3:46 pm: You might need to tell Lu about it- say something like "how can we break this to sara without hurting saras feelings?"
you and Lu could also fake a getting together.. like right after Lu left or something, you could tell sara "Lu was kinda flurting with me.. what do u think?" for all we know, sara may have been noticing this as well. if she says no... then- i really dont know what to do... but if she HAS been noticing it, then you can just say something like ... "maybe we should ask him if he likes anyone" [ keep in mind that Lu knows this is going on.. ] and then Lu would say the truth... and if Lu likes you- Sara really cant be mad @ YOU.. and over time... sara should get over Lu anyways :)
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