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Member Since: September 21, 2005
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Last Update: September 29, 2005
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well my frend told me she smokes andim not sure if i should try caus she brings trhem to skool sometimes and i dont know if i should try !!!!!!!! (link)
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You shouldn't. They're unhealthy and they make you look gross, not cool.
Also, considering that she brings them to "skool," you're almost certainly too young to legally be smoking.
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WHAT ARE SOME GOOD SITES FOR JOURNAL ICONS ?
thanks i rate 5s
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images.google.com
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whenever i get my period it it the worst 7 days of my life.. i accually cry myself to sleep because the cramps are so bad and sometimes i have to miss school is this normal and what can i take to help out??? i rate high (link)
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Start using birth control, specifically Seasonale. You will only get your period once every three months, and when you do get it, it will be much shorter, with less cramps, and less blood.
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one of my closest guy friends has been very very huggy since the first day of school. he is always coming up right behind me and throwing his arms around me and getting his face close enough for me to smell the shampoo in his hair. he carries my books from my locker to where we hang out waiting for our rides and today he started calling me "his princess".
i wouldnt think it was so... lovey dovey if he hadnt of said i was "his".
everybody notices that he hugs me alll the time and sometimes he leans on my shoulder and lets me cuddle him. my best friend even asked us to both of our faces if we were going out with each other. he had to go practice for his sport thing, so he never answered. but we drink after each other and i want to be his girlfriend..
but i'm not making the first move so dont even suggest that.
does he like me? do yall think he wants to be more too? i cant get him out of my head.
i recently broke up with my boyfriend because he thought that i was to huggy with the guy. and every time i mention his name he gets all jealous and protective. (link)
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"but i'm not making the first move so dont even suggest that."
This statement leads me to believe you might be too immature for a meaningful relationship anyway.
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okay well my friend is kindof a eater i mean when were at lunch she eats alot plus everyone elses food i dont want to tell her she should stop eating cause shes fat but like how do i tell her cause shes my friend and i dont want her to regret it when she gets older for being a lil big and ya know i dont want to hurt her feelings (link)
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Tell her you are working on changing your diet to eat healthier, and ask if she'll be an "eating buddy" with you. Invite her to do healthy things, like jogging. Basically, make being healthy a FUN thing, and something you do TOGETHER, so it's not like it's all on her.
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I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it? (link)
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Salicylic acid.
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ok im 15/F. i knew this guy who was IN LOVE(like almost obsessed) with me, and a week later, hes not. hes over me, and now i think he likes someone else. was he just joking the whole time, or did he really LOVE me? and to fill you in.. i liked him back but was to afraid to show that i did. (i know, wrong move to make..) (link)
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Love does not fade so quickly. He was only infatuated, but quickly moved on when his feelings were not returned.
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my best friend(sara) has a cousin that has these friends that we always hang out with and sara likes 2 of them (lu and greg). And well me and lu were like alwasy flirting and everything and we got like really close like friend wise, so then one night like 7 of us were gonna go to teh movies and me and lu were talking on the phone that day and he was like it would be really cool if just you and me went to dinner before the movies adn i was like sure that would be so fun! so we went and like the next thing you no we start making-out (alot). So then we went to teh movies and acted like nothing change and after it my friend sara was like lu was flirting with me and i am really starting to like him alot and i was like o cool, when really he wasnt flirting with her at all, so now i dont no what to do and lu is like i cant wait to see you agian when i am not with you i feel soo unhappy and all I can think about is you, and i feel the same way! so i really dont know what to do i would really love it if me and lu could be like public but i cant hurt sara's feelings we have been friends like scince we were in 1st grade! please help i will rate 5s for good answers! (link)
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Just be honest and tell Sara that you and Lu have developed feelings for each other. You'll have to see where it goes from there depending on her response.
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Hey, please no wise-cracks. I really don't want to deal with them right now.
Just a forewarning, this is a long one.
Everything at school used to be so easy. Then I got prescribed an anti-acne drug, and hit puberty - somewhere in there something went missing, went wrong. In the years since then, I've kind of slowly lost my purpose, occasionally it would come back, but I have no real "Drive" anymore. That is mainly what worries me. I have become the model of apathy, all the while worrying about it. I suppose that a lot of psychologists would call it depression, and try to make me "better". They would ask if I had suicidal thoughts and everything. The problem is that I live because I am living. I have suicidal thoughts, that don't MEAN anything, and I don't WANT to die - and I don't even know why, because I don't care about much anymore. I care, and I don't care. I wish I had real "fair-weather" friends, while at the same time I can't break away from my poisonous ones. My schoolwork is important, and I screw myself up worrying about it, when I could get it done so much faster without worrying, and be happy in my spare time. I don't even know why my schoolwork is important anymore, but I don't want to sacrifice it, because I know it would screw up the rest of my life. I play computer games, because I don't want to do homework, and I don't have the will to do anything that I need to do, or want to do. I keep a list of things I want to do when I have spare time, instead of wasting my life playing computer games, but somehow I feel that I will never do them, because I just go back and addict myself to a computer game. I know that I NEED to do things, and that I am screwing up my life, and I still just CAN'T find the discipline to DO anything.
So my question in short;
How do I find my will?
How do I discipline myself to do things that matter?
How do I find the courage to make new friends?
How do I shake that constant feeling of knowing I've been put in to boxes, and nobody knows who I am, and actually find people who will help me to feel happy? (link)
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Was the medicine you were prescribed Accutane? It often has side effects much like the ones you are describing. If you are stil on the Accutane, I recommend you go to the doctor and have him wean you off of it, and also perhaps be prescribed medication for depression, if you need it.
As for the video games, that will take your own willpower, but just put them somewhere and don't play them, or allott yourself xyz amount of time per day to play, and don't exceed it. Best of luck!
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okay i know this is kinda out there... but i dont need any mean comments on it because i already get enough already,
im 16/f and i weigh 110... it seems like i never gain weight and recently (or well since school started) i havnt had an appetite, so i hardly ever eat. I need some ways to gain weight and also some ways to convince myself to eat, (im not anorexic if thats what youre wondering) i only eat when im hungry and i stop when im full, but it seems like everyday, i can eat a little bit less and still be full... are there some ways to make youre brain think youre still hungry?? my doctor said i was a fine weight and she said she knows im not anorexic, but she didnt tell me how to gain wieght ( and ive never done drugs, so no that wouldnt've messed with my system or anything, its been like this since i was little, just now its a little more intense i think) so please if theres any foods that can help you gain weight, or things to make myself hungry, please tell me... and also.. how can i gain more wieght in my chest adn butt area?? (im really flat in both =() but please do whatever you can to help thanks... will rate high =) (link)
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You clearly have a high metabolism, but if you are interested in gaining weight, try buying Ensure drinks (most of them are quite disgusting except the chocolate flavor).
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