hello! ive lived a lot of life in the small amount of years ive been around. I mean it when I say ive been through it all, so feel free to shoot me a question or even just to spill your guts. my ears are wide open :)
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okay, im 16/f and ive never had a serious relationship. everyguy ive ever liked has 1. been older than me, and 2. have liked me for a little then just left me. all my friends say to just be patient because everyguy ive ever had a thing with are jerks. i believe them. but not everyone of them are jerks. i want to feel wanted and valued and it doesnt help that all four of my bestfriends have serious boyfriends. they talk about cute things they do and i just want to cry. ive never had that feeling to where i want to be with someone so badly because no guy had ever tried to stick around with me for so long.
so i guess i dont have a specific question, just that i need some advice :/.
thank you.
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lifes just beginnin. youre young, you have a long time to get serious. and stop lookin, because lookin just makes it harder to find. and dwellin on being lonely just makes you more lonely. love will find you! but until then just enjoy all other life's aspects.
x sweethoney
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I've been hanging out with this guy that i like a lot we arent dating but its a possibility in the future. I've done nothing with a guy besides makeout and he knows all of this. Lately when we have been hanging out stuff has been happening but all over the clothes. I'm ok with all of this because hes really respectful and sweet about it. When he touching me over my clothes he does it really rough and it hurts sometimes but I don't know how to tell him or if i just deal with it and hope it gets better. It upsets me because i feel stupid that the littlest things are painful for me. If it werent for the pain i would be ok with it so do i just deal? Another problem ive been having is that i never know what to do how to touch him or anything. I feel bad because im so hesitate about it and i feel like hes doing all the work. I know this is proably dumb but i feel like something is wrong. thanks in advance for your help. (link)
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alright. next time he does somethin that hurts you, just be like 'oww, that kinda hurts. can you do it a little softer ?' its not tellin him to stop, so its no big deal.
and when you wanna touch him, try the ears, neck, pullin hair, claw his back a little bit, and if youre comfortable with it, lightly touch his area over the clothes of course.
need anythin else just ask !
x sweeethoney
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I'm 13(m) and most of my friends have a girlfriend and I don't, so they usually ditch me because I don't have a girlfriend. Also without a girl I feel lonesome. So how can I get a girlfriend? (link)
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okay. youre friends are your age right? well they dont have cars, money, a job, maturity, security... no offence, but when you're at such a young age, havin a girlfriend is just a status, like havin a pair of nike's or somethin. im not sayin this for everyone youre age, but a lot of them just have a girlfriend for the hell of it. dont go out lookin for a girlfriend, because youll have a 3 week relationship if its not someone you truly care about.
tell them how you feel. its not right for them to ditch you just because you dont have a girlfriend. it doesnt make you any less of a guy if you dont. you just havent found what youre lookin for yet.
message me for anymore advice :)
x sweeethoney
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What is the best pain killer for hangovers?
Thanks! :) (link)
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EXCEDRIN MIGRANE ! it works miracles for me
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what are good quotes from song lyrics? about anything; friends, love, partying, figthing, lost love..anything! what're your favorites?? thanks! (link)
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'we will never listen your rules, we will never do as others do, do what we want and we'll get a front view, do what we like and we like what we do!'
-w.k. andrew, 'party hard'
'he who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man'
-avenged sevenfold, 'bat country'
the whole song 'fight for your right' by beastie boys
'i just want some one to say to me, i'll always be there when you wake, ya know i'd like to keep my cheeks dry today, so stay with me and i'll have it made'
-blind melon, 'no rain'
'lets go i just wanna let you know, this situation leaves me outta breath. we'll drive till the love thats in your eyes drops to the ground, unravels like a thread. i know that you really wanna go, i only think about her, must get to her, cannot lose her. you know that i will not let this die'
-the fall of troy, 'f.c.p.r.e.m.i.x.'
'never let 'em see you down, smile while you bleedin'
-k'naan, 'smile'
'honestly i feel like i'm ten months pregnant or
something, i'm passed due'
-k'naan, 'strugglin'
hope i helped!
x sweeethoney
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ok im 14 and my boyfriend is 16. he wants to have sex in the family bathroom at the mall but i don't know if i should do it or not. If it helps its the only place that we can atchually meet. Thanks in advance. (link)
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you really shouldnt have sex at all when youre 14. i know it doesnt seem like a big deal and its just sex, but a lot more comes with it then just one time. if you have sex with him, hell expect it from you more and more. and the family bathroom ? thats reallllly dirty and i dont recommend it.
i lost my virginity at 14 and i regret it sooo much, dont make a mistake. you have all the time in the world to have sex, so why have it now?
x sweeethoney
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I just found out, that my BESTFRIEND is bi.
I mean, i thought she was for the longest time, and i did ask her, but she got super mad at me and said no. But, she told this girl she was hot/cute and she was embarrassed because she told her. And then she asked her if she would kiss her. But i dont know. I mean, i kinda want to forget about it. But when i see her, it reminds me again. I dont want to ask her, again though. But then i do. I mean, what should i say to her? (link)
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well if your BEST FRIEND is bi, shes still your best friend. girls arent like guys, they dont get horny by seein naked or in a bathin suit or anythin.
im bisexual myself, and i had a really hard time tellin my best friends over other people and it really hurt because i thought they wouldnt accept me. be a good friend and tell her you accept her no matter what because thats what she really needs.
shes probably just experimentin, but if she starts to go farther and actually LIKING girls for personality and dating, then shes most definitely bi. but dont worry about it.
when you ask her just be like 'look, you can tell me whatever you need to. im here for you no matter what sexuality you are but id like to know, because youre my bestfriend and were supposed to tell each other these things. so, are you bi?'
message me if you need anymore help
x sweeethoney
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18/M
I know this question is asked to death, but I've read every one of them and they haven't helped. Maybe I'm just venting, but maybe someone can help me.
I can't ask a girl out. Simple. I've been alone with her a million times. The words get stuck in my throat like I'm choking on them. I can't push them out. I have her phone number. If I try to call her, my hand shakes so much I drop the phone. Well, not literally. I can't even do it online or in a text, even though I know that would just be insulting. I'm confident normally, but I freeze. I think things like she'll never want to talk to me again, she'll be disgusted, even though I know they're not true. I just want to ask her to go on a date with me, her to know how I feel about her. I think she felt the same way but just gave up on waiting for me. She deserves to be asked out. What's left for me to do? (link)
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aww! you should ask her out. just make it causal, like 'would you like to go out sometime to dinner..movie..etc'. its not sudden death either, she might think about it if she does say no then realizes she wants to. dont think about it to much, just ask her like it was one of your friends. youll be so much more relieved after you do it, no matter what the outcome.
good luck hun!
x sweeethoney
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What kind of drug is smoked using a soda can? What type of side effects does it cause and symptoms to look for and for how long does the effect last? Signs to look for if you think someone is doing this? (link)
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its mostlikely weed. my early days of smokin i used to smoke out of a can. aluminum doesnt do much, its the same as smokin out of a pipe. gettin high usually lasts an hour or two, and depends on how much you smoke. then youre just tired after that. if you see a can thats bent at somepoint around the middle, with holes in it and burnt in that area, then theyre smokin weed out of a can.
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I started talking to this guy (jake) that I go to school with a few weeks ago. We really hit it off and now we've been going out for a week. I really like him a lot and I can tell he really likes me too. My friends and people that know him at school tell me to be careful around him and telling me that he's a pervert and he wants sex and stuff like that. He does not seem like the kind f guy that these people are telling me he is. He is really sweet and hasn't even tried to pressure me into anything. I trust him be with all these things that I've heard about him it makes me nervous. Do you think he's just putting on an act to get in my pants? I plan to confront him about what I've heard but I'm not sure how to bring it up. What do you guys think? (link)
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dont listen to people. a lot of rumors go around in highschool about people that arent true. like last year, this kid spread a rumor about me that im a slut and i get money for sex, and im still dealin with it this year. basically- only confront him about it if he starts actin that way. if he seems like he really likes you, then he probably does! a lot of people like to mess up relationships too, and i couldnt tell you why. stick to your instincts and standards of how he should act, not your friends or people that know him. he sounds like a good guy, but if he starts to act like how people described him, just be like 'ohh i heard about this...' and then you can tell him what you heard. dont make it seem like youre gangin up on him, but its just somethin that you heard and youre curious about it.
good luck, message me anytime!
x sweeethoney
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Hey everyone. My name is Rachel, and I am fourteen, fifteen in June. I need help. Well, I have a HUGE crush on a guy at school. He's incredibly handsome, and hilarious. (My two need-haves, when it comes to guys.) But, here’s the problem. I'm a freshman he's a junior. He's 17 in May. It's not a problem for me, and he has a few Ex's in my grade, so it's not a problem for him either. But my mom is a whole other story. Well, I had transferred to my school at the beginning of the school year, and my mom had casually asked if I had any boys on the brain. I told her about... Well let's call him "T", and she said, "Well, you know he's too old for you, right?" I had no reply to that. That made me a little mad. I mean technically there's only a year in between us. ALSO, my mom and dad are married, and my mom is 42, my dad 48. Don't you think that's kind of hypocritical? I mean, I'm not being disrespectful, or I don't mean to be anyway, but I don't think that's very fair. If you ask me, I don't think T and I have that big of an age difference. But, if mommy says, Rachel does. If she tells me I can't date him, I won't, no questions asked. But if I convinced her otherwise and she said I could, I'd be content in doing so. So, lying and sneaking around is absolutely out of the question. But, I need a few tips on how to convince her that the difference isn't that large. Any ideas? Or even if you think the difference is big, give your opinion please! I will not judge or anything. Any advice will be accepted. Thanks~! J (link)
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alright, basically you should just tell your mom about how much you like him. also, if he talks very respectfully to her and tells her that hell treat you with respect and dignity then thatd be a great help. im 15, and ihave a 19 year old boyfriend. at first my mom FLIPPED but after he talked to her and stuff she was straight with it, she actually likes him a lot! i dont think love should be based on gender, age, or rules. so jus try to politely ask her about it, and have him talk to her.
good luck hun, feel free to message me if you need more help :)
x sweeethoney
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Well, I'm just about to confront my crush Kyle next wensday my and my bff Sara are gonna help each other ,and well...How do I bring up to my crush that I like him again? I've told him I like him a year ago, he just wanted to be friends. I know he likes, his flirting is ovious, so how do I bring it up with-out destroying a good friend-ship?? (link)
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if you tell him, do it alone (friends can be intimidating to guys) tell him in person first of all. a lot of things can be miscommunicated over the phone, textin or callin, and over the internet. flirt with him a little more than usual before you do, and if he resents it then maybe you shouldnt tell him. but if he flirts back more, then he probably likes you.
you should just say, 'i know a while ago you said that you just wanted to be friends, but lately youve been kinda flirtin with me, and i was wonderin what was up...'
that way you can play off if he says he doesnt and you can just be like 'oh okay just makin sure'
well good luck girrrl and feel free to ask me anythin in the future :)
x sweeethoney
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[15/F] So guys do think I'm pretty, so I have confidence but its just that when I'm around guys at a social place (whether it be at a party or usually at church) guys just don't seem to like (as in have a crush) on me. It's literally like all my other friends have bfs/admirers or are really close friends with the guys and I'm the only one that doesnt!
But don't get me wrong, I'm not saying guys should like me or whatever... im just wondering whats wrong with me? Any advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance! (link)
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just be yourself. but i dont mean tryin to get a guy to like you kind of yourself, just tryin to make a friend. the guys i end up datin have been my friends for a while. but i went through i stage where all i got was 'ohh youre sexy whuddup mama' and thats not attractive, i know. and 15/f too so i know what you mean. but yeah, just get close to guys before you get sad about how they dont like you.
x sweeethoney :)
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So i really like this guy and he likes me. He has done a lot more than i have and ive done basically nothing. I'm supposed to hang out with him sometime at his house and im very nervous. I have not kissed a guy since i was in the 6th grade and im in the 10th right now. Ive had bf's but it was always so weird and awkward until now. This is the first time in a very long time where i like someone a lot. And im very nervous with everything and i dont know what to do. Im very afraid that im going to suck at everything because im so inexperienced. So what do i do to get better or how do i handle the situatuion. I'm not planning on having sex with him but other things might come up if not when im there then some other time so i just need help on how to handle it and what to do. (link)
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usually instinct will kick in. if it doesnt, then you should just be honest. tell him that you havent had much experience but youre willin to learn and try it with him, make sure your not implyin sex though. and if you arent comfortable with him when you are startin to do somethin with him then maybe hes ndot the guy for you or its not time for you to do certain stuff. if youre not comfortable with somethin DONT do that, i learned that the hard way.
lemme know how things go, ill be happy to help you out along the way :)
x sweeethoney
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So on feb. 13th my boyfriend got expelled for possesion of a controlled substance. His dad, still has him grounded and wont let him see me.
This seems understandable for getting expelled and serving a week in the detention center. But his dad lets him go hang out with friends, lets his friends come over and stay the night. It would be no big deal for us to see eachother cause i could just go to his friends house, but he lives 20 min. away=/ how can my boyfriend talk his dad into seeing me? (link)
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i got caught with weed and for me to see my boyfriend, he had to come over and talk to parents to reassure him that he wasnt goin to get me into anymore trouble than what i was in already.
basically, you should talk to your boyfriend and see when his dads home and get a ride over there just to talk to him. tell him that you have your boyfriends best interest in mind, and if hes allowed to see his friends that you think itd be fair for him to let him see you. start with askin if you could just come over a few hours one day to spend time with him because you miss him and stuff. make sure to be very respectful and not nervouse, and it should work out fine.
hope everythin goes well!
x sweeethoney
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I am currently interested in two guys. Guy #1 was interested in me first, and even though I wasn't initially very keen on him, he has grown on me. Guy #2 and I became interested in each other pretty much at the same time. I have had dates with guy #1 but not Guy #2 (so far). Guy #2 knew from the beginning that I was seeing guy #1, but guy #1 didn't know about guy #2 until I told him last night (the relationship with him had been pretty casual until this past week). I know I need to choose one. My question isn't which one to choose, but whether I can feel less guilty before making my decision. Telling these guys was really hard, and guy #1 took the news pretty badly. (link)
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when it comes to love and datin, you need to worry about your happiness. i know it sucks really bad to break someones heart, but you should really go for the one that you feel closer to or can be yourself around more. if youre gonna go with #2 just be like, 'i like you more..blahblahblah' whatever you feel basically, and tell #1 that youre sorry and thats hes a great guy, but youre just not diggin him as much as you need to for you to take it further than what it is. and if you pick #1 just tell #2 that youre still really interested in the guy you started off with.
i know its a hard thing to do, but just keep your happiness in mind, stay positive, and hope for the best.
i hope everythin goes alright! if you need anythin else im here!
x sweeethoney
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I'm 16 years old & I totally suck at befriending guys. All my friends are girls & i dont have one guy friend at all, its that bad. I go to a all-girls school but i do outside school things like church & going out with my girlfriends (sometimes my girlfriends bring guy friends along, but i never end up talking/being friends with the guys). Firstly, I'm too shy to strike up a conversation and secondly I'm quite an awkward person at times so I wouldn't know what to say if we did have a conversation. Also, is there anything else that's preventing me from befriending guys? Thankyou! (link)
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the person who answered below me is right, you just need to treat guys like a human bein just like you treat your friends. i know since youre always around girls that might be a hard thing to do, but once you break out of your shell it will be a lot easier. bein down to earth, showin interest in what they say, and just showin confidence (even when you dont have any) make it a lot easier. itd be one thing if you were tryin to date them, but if your tryin to befriend them than it shouldnt be too hard if you just take the first step.
so when your girlfriends bring a guyfriend around and they introduce them, after a little conversation just be like 'oh whats your name again? oh what school do you go to?' just small talk. and if thats a little bit much for your first stuff just be active in the group conversation. if you make your presence known he'll probably want to talk to you.
bein yourself is key!
any other questions feel free to ask :)
x sweeethoney
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i know this is random! but i really want to know what it means to talk like your from a different time please help and if you know give me some examples and how to' s please!!!!!
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using a wide vocabulary is a good thing to work on. get a thesaurus and look up synonyms for words that you normally say and just use words you dont normally.
also, you can talk very properly. that means not havin an accent to your speech. you know how translators that have that as there only job speak very announciated.
if you wanna go way back, you can use -eth on the end of words, if you know what i mean, like old english.
if you look it up or ask an english teacher they could help you a lot more than i can.
but i hope i helped :)
x sweeethoney
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How do I get over him? It's been 3 months and I'm still struggling.
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i know its not fun to hear, but youre only 15 so youre gonna have a ton of guys in your life. dont think about him, because if hes not comin back to you then you dont need him. do some stuff you like, like if youre into art or sports or anythin like that. do stuff for YOU, hang out with your girlies and talk to them about it. i promise youll find another guy sooner or later, so you might as well not sweat it til then.
be a kid have some fun! if you ever need to talk feel free to talk to me
x sweeethoney
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to: anyone.
i'm looking into music, i'm wanting some new songs. i pratically listen to ever genre. i prefery want rap, r&b, rock, pop, metal, and alternative. also anything discreit, bands, etc.
also if you're able, send me a playlist.
krystal_ily@hotmail.com
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metal: he is legend, emmure, with blood comes cleansing, avenged sevenfold, dance gavin dance, skindred, maylene and the sons of disaster, coheed & cambria,
techno: eiffel 65 (not i'm blue), bodyrox, uffie, paul oakenfold
reggae/dub: sublime, pepper, the expendables, slightly stoopid, stephen marley, bob marley, tribal seeds, cypress hill, kottonmouth kings,
rock: the strokes, the white stripes, OLD green day, my chemical romance, foo fighters, beastie boys, k'naan
and if you like lil wayne then here are some good songs that a lot of people dont know: i'm raw, dick please, all alone, earthquake, man of the year, kush,
these are my favorites, hope you like em!
x sweeethoney
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