So on feb. 13th my boyfriend got expelled for possesion of a controlled substance. His dad, still has him grounded and wont let him see me.
This seems understandable for getting expelled and serving a week in the detention center. But his dad lets him go hang out with friends, lets his friends come over and stay the night. It would be no big deal for us to see eachother cause i could just go to his friends house, but he lives 20 min. away=/ how can my boyfriend talk his dad into seeing me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? sweeethoney answered Sunday April 12 2009, 10:06 pm: i got caught with weed and for me to see my boyfriend, he had to come over and talk to parents to reassure him that he wasnt goin to get me into anymore trouble than what i was in already.
basically, you should talk to your boyfriend and see when his dads home and get a ride over there just to talk to him. tell him that you have your boyfriends best interest in mind, and if hes allowed to see his friends that you think itd be fair for him to let him see you. start with askin if you could just come over a few hours one day to spend time with him because you miss him and stuff. make sure to be very respectful and not nervouse, and it should work out fine.
hope everythin goes well!
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Trauma answered Sunday April 12 2009, 9:24 pm: Possession of a controlled substance is a pretty serious thing. His dad probably won't let you two see each other because chances are he knows you're one of the most important things in your boyfriend's life, so he's using that as punishment. The only thing I can suggest is have your boyfriend maybe apologize & tell his dad he knows how wrong it was, & offer to do chores & things if he lets him see you sometimes. But really, though, if his dad doesn't want him seeing you, there's not much you two can do, since your boyfriend lives with him & everything. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
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