ok im 14 and my boyfriend is 16. he wants to have sex in the family bathroom at the mall but i don't know if i should do it or not. If it helps its the only place that we can atchually meet. Thanks in advance.
littlemisschatterbox answered Tuesday May 26 2009, 6:30 pm: It's dangerously dirty in there, who knows what kinds of diseases you could contract! Tell him no thanks. Your health (and his) would be at risk. It's up to you whether or not you want to have sex with him, but please, please don't do it in a public bathroom! [ littlemisschatterbox's advice column | Ask littlemisschatterbox A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Tuesday May 26 2009, 5:27 am: Theres nothing like the romance of a tile floor stained with urine, is there?
No you should not fuck your 16 year old boyfriend at the mall.
If you aren't old enough to manage to find somewhere that isn't the floor in a friend's spare bedroom while his parents aren't home, or worse, the family bathroom at the mall, you really don't need to be having sex.
Plus, you're 14.
And if anyone notices, someone who sees you go in or hears a noise, you end up getting brought hope by cops who tell your parents you were fucking in the family bathroom in the mall.
A sad truth, as a teenager, is that the act of choosing to do something proves that you are not mature enough to handle it.
An adult in this situation would not say yes. And if you'd like to point out that you're not an adult, I think you just answered alot of your own questions about sex.
beckyboo answered Monday May 25 2009, 10:34 pm: No! 14 is simply too young; the fact that you need to ask strangers on the internet is an indication that you are definitely not ready for this. I know sex doesn't really seem like a huge deal, but it is, and sometimes people don't understand that until it's too late. Most people assume everything will be okay and you won't get pregnant, but what if you do? It'd screw up your life, and 14 is way too young for that.
You don't need to wait until your 25 years old, or married, but 14 is just way too damn young. Do you really want your first time to be in a public bathroom? What if someone walks in? Your first time is something that will, obviously, only happen once; please don't waste it on this.
sweeethoney answered Monday May 25 2009, 8:40 pm: you really shouldnt have sex at all when youre 14. i know it doesnt seem like a big deal and its just sex, but a lot more comes with it then just one time. if you have sex with him, hell expect it from you more and more. and the family bathroom ? thats reallllly dirty and i dont recommend it.
i lost my virginity at 14 and i regret it sooo much, dont make a mistake. you have all the time in the world to have sex, so why have it now?
It's entirely too risky, especially since you're both underage, and you're younger than 16. So if/when you get caught, you'd be in trouble for having sex in a public place AND you're a minor who isn't old enough to consent.
Plus those bathrooms are always nasty and full of screaming children- how unromantic is that? If you can't even get alone long enough to have sex, you probably shouldn't be.
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