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OKay. I'll try to keep this short. Can I getpregnant from not having sex or giving a guy a head? Like I have not done ANYTHING sexual and I for some reason feel like I'm pregnant. Like maybe this guy just touched his penis then he ate chips then he gave the rest of the chips to me. Could I get pregnant from that??? pLEASE tell me cause i'm 10 and I DO NOT want to be pregnant!!!!!!! (link)
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No, you can not get pregnant from not having a guy's penis in your vagina. The odds of getting pregnant any other way (other than having a fertalized egg put into you) are very very slim but it is possible.
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Ok I'm 14 years old and in the 8th grade I wear a 32A. My mom said her boobs stoped growing in the 8th grade so do u think mine will grow anymore? (link)
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Scientific discovery shows that you actually inherit your "boob" genes from your father. Look at his side of the family and see how big all of their boobs are and determine how large yours will grow from that. You have plenty of time to grow... give it another 10 years max.
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hey! well there's this guy. he likes me and im not sure if i like him! he asked me to the dance and i think im gonna go w/ him as friends but im not sure if i want to dance with him.. wouldnt that be ackward? what would YOU do??
from: not sure
p.s- i have never had a bf b4 cuz i dont want 1 and have never danced w/ a guy! so it would be a new experience! (link)
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DEFINATELY dance with him. Give it a swing, it should be fun n__n dancing isn't all that personal. Sure you will dance with him. No biggy. You'll dance with a lot of guys by the end of highschool. Don't think that everything is such a big deal, because it really isn't. Go out with him, have some fun.
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yesterday i was at my parents house because my dad was fixing my car. well my boyfriend went home for lunch, which is about two minutes from my parents house. he calls me and asks how my car is coming. i tell him that my dad is still working on it, because i was going to surprise him that it was finished. he says he is going to eat something and go to the bathroom, then he would go to my moms and see me. the night before we had watched scary movie part 3 and pamela andersons boobs are popping out of her shirt. these kinds of things in movies upset me and he knows it. well i head to our house, i open the door and what i see shocks me! he has a sock on his penis and is getting off to pam, the same movie that we had seen together the other night. i feel betrayed and i feel like he has hid this from me, what else? i have asked him before if he had done this and he said no. i lost his trust. am i overreacting? whos right here? and what should i do? we have a baby and i am pregnant and 19. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Don't worry about it. You were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Theres nothing wrong about what he did. Most guys do it anyways. Perfectly normal stuff. Don't overreact too much and hurt your relationship. That could be a bad thing... most definately. Good luck with the baby!
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im a 6th grade girl and i really need a b/f all the guys i like dont like me at all i want to ask them out but im afraid if they say no they will tell every1 that i like them and make fun of me. i give advice but i dont know wut 2 do. Pleez help!
Kate
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For one thing, you will never NEED a bf. Need is something that is necessary for your survival. You NEED air, food, and water. You don't NEED a bf. I would give you advice, but the best advice that I can give you is this: once you break up with your boyfriend, which is most definately going to happen, (note that you're only in 6th grade) you will wish that it had never happened. Forget about liking guys. Just look from afar... but never go near them. They're like poison ivy. Look but don't touch.
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Ok i read the response u had for a young lady struggling with weight and u basically said being skinny is not all it s cracked up to be and let someone fall in love with u for u
Ok i am a lesbian woman and so i met this woman on the chat line and we were really feeling each other s personalities and she was more infatuated with me than i was with her, to the point where she was like "u cld be talking to ur wife" so anyways i sent her my picture and she was like i m disappointed and we have not really spoke since.
I am an overweight woman and i sometimes feel that i am not attractive but i love the way i look it just seems that others dont. It seems to be very hard for me to meet women due to my lack of self confidence, how can someone lose interest just like that ? it seems impossible to have someone fall for u when it is always about what u look like physically! (link)
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As I have said many other times, true love is very hard to come across. You may have to search long and hard to find someone who will not judge you by your appearence. Why the human race has come to be so shallow, I don't think anyone will concoct an answer to, but you should really consider moving on. Someone who can't accept you for who you truly are whether they be a man or a woman, is not truly in love with you. You're better than that. Go find someone who will accept you for who you are. One thing that I have learned and definately taken note to is this: don't change yourself for anyone. It's not worth it. If you're happy with you are then fine, that's all that really matters. You will come across someone sooner or later.
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I work there 3 days a week, and I get free meals, so I eat there rather than spend money somewhere else. I get tired of eating only salad, but when I do, I bring my own fat-free dressing from home. Sometimes, I add ham to my salad. On days when I work a long day, I get a lunch, so I get a personal size pizza with light cheese and vegatables only or ham or chicken and veggies. Is this ok to eat 3x's a week, or should I start bringing my own food from home? If so, what should I bring? There is a microwave there, but no place for me to eat but the main dining room, and I feel funny eating food that isn't from there in front of the customers. They also have sandwiches (chicken, ham or turkey with cheese and ranch dressing on them) So when I get one of those, I get light cheese and no dressing, and put my own fat-free dressing on them. The bread is like a french roll. I want to lose 30 lbs. Any advice? (link)
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You shouldn't eat pizza 3 times a week, especially if it's greasy pizza. Try bringing in fruits and veggies to work. Reduce your intake of bread and red meat in your diet and eat nuts, chicken and cereal instead. Bread is just like eating sugar and red meat has too many single carbon bonded lipids (very unhealthy); however, dieting alone won't reduce your weight in a healthy manner. You also have to exercise. Get into a daily routine: jog in the morning, try some recreational sports, etc. I hope you achieve your goal in losing weight, but remember not to over do it!
~Joce
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k, so here's my problem. it's prolly stupid but here goes. So, i like this girl, like a lot. but i'm not sure whether i should go for it and ask her out or not. I prolly don't have a chance, cause she's sorta out of my league, and she may only consider me as jus a friend. But i want to be more than that. BUT, that's not the complicating part. So i talk to her friend, whom we will call Girl B, who i've known for quite a while, and tell her how i like Girl A. Now background info: i did like Girl B for a lil while, and she knew that, but i didn't go for it for multiple reasons, one was cause she didn't like me. yet, wen i told Girl B bout my crush, she said that she was hurt cause she did, past tense, like me for a lil while, and she feels hurt cause i don't like her anymore, but her friend. Now, girl B doesn't like me, and i'm ok with that, but she's still hurt, and i don't wanna mess that up either. But i really like Girl A, wat should i do? help plz!!! (link)
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Ok chief, first let's talk about girl A. Does she like you? Don't say no because that's not necessarily true. The answer is that you will NEVER know whether a girl likes you or not. What you should do is start making some moves, but if she shows any signs of resistance, disgaust, annoyance, etc. then you should stop. Girls don't normally change their minds about guys, and if they do, they'll come after you. Besides, it's a lot better to be just friends with a girl than to be in a relationship. That is my theory in because if go out with your friend and the relationship ends, you won't be friends anymore.
Now on to girl B. Don't pity her. Yes, I know it sounds cruel, but if she really DID "like" you then she should have made some moves herself. If she was too shy then she wasn't ready for a relationship anyways. Leave her alone, don't bring up the subject, let her be. She will heal herself as most girls do. If you need any more advice just mail me back!
~Joce
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Who else thinks DOCTORS WHO HELP SAVE PEOPLE'S LIVES should be paid more then people on t.v. who only try to look pretty...
GEEZE that's ridiculous if you think about it. Just because everybody knows your name doens't mean you should get millions of dollars for it. DOCTORS are MUCH MORE USEFUL then some stupid snotty celebrities out there...GEEZE!
I can't stand that...
I know not all of you agree...but is there any of you who do??
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I also totally agree
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Greetings, it's me, the advicenator_admin. Lately I've been receiving more requests to have people monitor the site for unsuitable content. Some people would rather give bad advice. I haven't cared much before, I mean, annoying questions are a problem because everyone reads those, but not everyone reads every advice column so who cares how bad it is? I look at advice columns like your own websites... unless it's really hateful, I see no need to try to ban people. Plus, so far when a columnist joins and decides it's funny to slam everyone and be mean, they've gotten sick of it after ten questions or so. No need to pick a fight when they're dropping out anyway.
What do you all think? Should we ban people with really awful columns? Not display columnists with really low ratings? Ignore everything, and just let the site run free? I want to know what everybody thinks. (link)
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I don't mind spammers at all. If someone answers one of my questions with an answer like "go fuck yourself" I just ignore it anyways. It's their own way to vent, and some are even ammusing. Don't shut down their columns unless it becomes a web-space issue. Otherwise, I have no problem with these kinds of people.
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See, I am in the seventh grade and I have alot of enemies . Like some people say and talk behind my back . See, I'm not popular and I don't want to be because, there are a bunch of girls and boys talking behind each others backs . See those people joke on me . I know I shouldn't respond, but I do . What are they intimidated by me or is it something wrong with me ? They say that I'm smart but I always want more for myself and I expect others to want whats best for them . I really don't care what the others want , I care about what I want . I am nice to those I don't even like . Why are they this way towards me ? What have I done to the girls and guys at my school? I speak my mind and they try to persecute you for this . Don't you just hate it ? Peace .
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Bravo, I love your attitude. If more people were like you, the world would be a much better place. Anyways, back to the point. Some people are just like that and there's nothing that anyone can do to change that. There are a lot of guys like that at my school and sometimes they just can't help it. And yes, I hate it too.
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there are these two gurls that like me but i am going out with one of them but i like like them both and i don't now wat to do signed,confused guy (link)
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Although it is ultimately your own choice, you SHOULD stay loyal to your current girlfriend. If the other girl knows that you two are going out and she still likes you and flirts with you, that is a bad sign. People who are like that aren't always very loyal and can cause future relationship problems. That is my opinion, but it really is your own choice. Follow your heart, it will know what to do. Either way, definately choose one of them, otherwise things will get complicated and you're going to lose both of them.
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My brother "phillip" who is 13 years old, is so evil to people that are handicpped and obese, So is my mom. My mom also goes gets drunk every night and leave my grandparents to take care of us. phillip can be nice sometimes if he gets his way. so what can i do to help my brother and my mom with their problems? (link)
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I'm very sorry to hear that your mother and brother are like that.Your brother's condition is quite normal for his age, but you should still remind him that it is wrong to point fun at people just because they are different. He should learn some morals soon, so you don't have to worry about that too much. Puberty isn't always the best age. Your mother on the other hand, might need to get more help. She has to know that she can't always leave you with your grandparents because some day they might not be there for her. Consider talking to your mother when she is sober about the way you feel about what she does each night. She may reconsider her actions, but if she doesn't you might want to talk to your grandparents about it.
~Joce
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What are the best foods to eat everyday when your at an amusement park. Can I eat burgers and fries (link)
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Normally, amusement parks provide lots of fast foods for you, but it's always very expensive. I would suggest bringing packed snacks to eat in the park unless you are planning to stay there for more than 10 hours. Pack granola bars, trail mix, and chips in the snack-sized bags. If you want to pack whole meals then I suggest sandwiches, or just eating the food provided at the park even if it might be a little pricey.
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There is this girl at my school whom I really like but she thinks I am a loser of some kind. I really want to ask her out. What should I do? (link)
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I'm sorry to shatter your dreams, but if a girl thinks that you are a loser then you shouldn't ask her out. The only thing that you will do is hurt yourself. I'm very sorry, but if you want to ask a girl out, it is probably better to become friends with that person first before you start a relationship. If you're still interested in her, then become friends first. Go places together in a group first and slowly start flirting with her. See her response, if it's not good then move on to someone else. There are many fish in the sea.
~Joce
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There is a place in California that has a red bridge but i forget the name of it. Do you know what it is called?
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San Francisco.
It's called The Golden Gate Bridge
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My friend Amber is so annoying sometimes. This kid Michael, her boyfriend, thinks the same thing. What should we do.
Best Wishes
Jacob (link)
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I don't like calling people annoying, but some people act different because that is who they are. She might have a disorder that causes her to be more "annoying" than other people such as ADD. You just have to learn to live with people like that because not everyone is perfect; however, when she IS annoying you, you might want to hint that she is bothering you. Don't tell her that she is annoying. Just motion "cut it out" or respond with short answers. She will probably pick up the clues. I hope you and your friends continue to have happy relationships. Best wishes,
~Joce
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my friend Breanna is pregnant. But she smokes and drinks every month. What do I do to stop her from killing the baby?
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I know that it might be hard for you and her to do this, but try and sit down and talk to her about her situation.
Remind her that she is not only killing herself, but she is also harming her baby. Here is a website showing the possible side-effets of drugs on her baby.
http://www.ctprevention.com/necasa/alcohol/birthdefects.html
You might want her to see this. Let her know that her child is going to suffer because of her and that she is already showing signs of bad parenting skills. Hopefully, that will drive her to stop smoking and drinking at least until the baby is born. After that, it is really her own choice.
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Hi i am TheHawaiianGod and i need help.
my girlfriend lives in maine and i live in newjersey. she tried to ask me out once, i still love her and she still loves me how do i keep the relationship going?
(please E-mail me back at TheHawaiianGod@luckymail.com)
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I know that long distance relationships are hard to keep together, but if you two love eachother so much, you should consider meeting somewhere like a theme park or something different that would be worth traveling to go see. I don't live on the east coast, so I'm not really sure what attractions there are in your area, but if you could find one that was right inbetween maine and new jersey, it would only be a few hours drive for both of you.
You can both plan a vacation together like camping or a trip to Disney Land. Something fun for the both of you. Just make sure you always call her on the phone, or send her post cards. Remember her birthday, try to send her things on the holidays and make sure that she knows that you are still thinking about her and when you two finally see eachother again make sure you have fun. Relationships aren't going to keep going if you don't have fun. ^__^
~Joce
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i had a laugh attack today. i haven't had 1 for like months. my bf made me laugh so hard i started having a cough attack and my throat started to hurt!! hahaha! i went crazy laughing and i think i scared my bf up a tree!! muaaaaaaaaa! how do i scare him more? =P
*~laughing short azn gurl~*
p.s. jk brent!! love ya babe! XD
p.p.s. a badger badger badger badger badger badger badger badger!! mushroom mushroom! a badger badger badger badger badger badger badger badger! AAAHHHH! A SNAKE! A SNAAAAAAAAAAKE!!
P.P.P.S. OW OW OW OW OW! SNAKE?! SNAAAAAAAAAAAAKE!!
P.P.P.P.S. I CAN SEE CLEARLY NOW THE RAIN HAS GONE!!! *shakes fist at brent* (link)
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it's great to know that your bf is making you so happy. ^__^ and I like that flash too. badger badger badger badger *shutting up* ok.... ^__^\\ luv ya asami! *muahz*
scare him more by laughing more often and drinking caffeine.... lots of caffeine.... XD buahahahaha!!!
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